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Why do we love to watch our wives with other men

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Why is it such a turn on watching our wives with other men.

It's a real turn on. And for me it's a prerequisite to our own sex. If you read the story on my profile you will learn of one of our memorable experiences.

Hubby - would like to watch me with a work colleague (John) he has given me a free pass to shag him first and then introduce him one weekend - your thoughts, Alison

Well i would day go for it ,do you fancy this john guy and does it appeal to you .

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Hubby - would like to watch me with a work colleague (John) he has given me a free pass to shag him first and then introduce him one weekend - your thoughts, Alison

Only if it appeals to you to. Never do anything that your not comfortable with, you never want to be left with regret.

It really depends on whether the idea appeals to you. There are two things going on here sleeping with another guy and sleeping with someone you know. It can be a bit nerve- wracking if your first experience is with someone you know. My suggestion would be to pick a stranger a few hundred kilometers away that wants to be watched sleeping with somebody's wife. It's not as nerve wracking, everyone knows what they are there for and you'll never see him again. If you enjoyed the experience you'll be a lot less nervous sleeping with someone you know. ENJOY.

It’s the exact opposite of what we see as the norm , insofar as the male is supposed to protect and cosset our women

So doing the opposite is soooo erotic and naughty , almost a surrender by the male and to exonerate our women from adulatory and allowing them to be completely FREE ! To explore and enjoy and to teach us humility ! So sexy and liberating!

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It’s the exact opposite of what we see as the norm , insofar as the male is supposed to protect and cosset our women

So doing the opposite is soooo erotic and naughty , almost a surrender by the male and to exonerate our women from adulatory and allowing them to be completely FREE ! To explore and enjoy and to teach us humility ! So sexy and liberating!

That's a very interesting concept. We are all different we have different thoughts and react differently. That's what makes us all unique and interesting. This is how I think about the subject. I know not everybody will think the same as me, there is no wrong or right way of thinking just the thinkg that is right for us as individuals. As a youth I followed along with societies thinking. Back then it was like woman were your property and if anyone played with them you punched him in the nose. But later on some of us become free thinkers we saw the old way of thinking as cave man like.. we didn't start by cuckolding to begin with. We evolved over time our first experience with swinging was wife swapping which we fall into by accident. Over the years we have tried different things and Cuckolding isn't something we were xclusive to do and tried different things but cuckolding is favourite.

I have very limited experience of this, but like most men that won't stop me offering an opinion on the subject! haha Speaking from the view of the male who has been invited into the cuckold dynamic, I recall the intensity of being quietly encouraged to french kiss his wife in front of him in a public place at the first meet. I have never felt such an electric and erotic feeling, as I kissed and ran my hands all over his gorgeous and willing wife. We discussed this a little later back at the hotel room and they confirmed that the feeling was just as intense and electric for them. The wife shared that her orgasms were incredibly powerful when her hubbie was watching and masturbating over her as she enjoyed another cock.

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Hubby - would like to watch me with a work colleague (John) he has given me a free pass to shag him first and then introduce him one weekend - your thoughts, Alison

Do it I have given my partner permission to do it, but she won’t if you want to go and fuck somebody else go and do it yours but we love it

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Why is it such a turn on watching our wives with other men.

Because she’s beautiful and seeing her losing herself completely to lust is the most amazing thing to witness.

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Why is it such a turn on watching our wives with other men.

Submission

It's such a massive turn on watching my wife cummin with another man and her loosing control.

Thanks everyone for the messages back would love to hear more.

I think its a fact that us men enjoy watching our wives get pleasured by another man and we find it erotic. My wife and I are in fact thinking of doing the same as I want to have pleasure of seeing her get pleasure from another guys cock.

Because you know we can deliver what you just can't ;-)

How can I persuade my girlfriend to try swinging she is very sexy and loves sex so I'm sure she'd enjoy other men

Its not just the sex for us, its also the 'first date' feeling, the nervousness, anticipation, excitement, butterflies that is missing in a long term relationship. That first kiss, then the discovery and exploration of someone new.

I really don’t know how I would react, but my fantasy is to have like two blokes me make my wife airtight blindfold loud down pleasure for until she can’t bear anymore, ripping off her blindfold to see that I am not one of the 3 chat giving her one percent attention!

Every time I play with her Pussy and whisper this and breathe heavily into her like a someone has set a sprinkler off.

I need her to let herself experience the flesh of young Chaps straying their seed all over her!

I know it might sound weird but they have to be younger, taller, better shaped, than me, oh still have hair, Otherwise I would just think what is the point,

I might be deluded but I want to see her in sexual heaven with Adonis!!!

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Its not just the sex for us, its also the 'first date' feeling, the nervousness, anticipation, excitement, butterflies that is missing in a long term relationship. That first kiss, then the discovery and exploration of someone new.

Absolutely bang on (if you’ll pardon the expression!). I think you’ve hit the nail squarely on the head there.

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Why is it such a turn on watching our wives with other men.

Just erotic... Seeing him enter her, thrust and then cum inside her. Amazing!

I just loved watching her guide him in, then riding him hard while never losing eye contact with me. You can’t beat that sensation

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Hubby - would like to watch me with a work colleague (John) he has given me a free pass to shag him first and then introduce him one weekend - your thoughts, Alison

All, I did take up the offer from my Hubby with the free pass to shag my work colleague John, not straight away only a few weeks back, I have told hubby everything we did, our sex live has been great since. John has not met hubby as yet. Alison.

All, I did take up the free pass offer from my hubby to shag my work colleague John, not straight away, it was only a few weeks back, I told hubby everything we did, our sex live has been great since, John has not met hubby as yet. Alison


I will probably introduce the to each other if they both agree at a Christmas do. Alison xx

I admit it is more fun hearing Lisa enjoying a cock while enjoy his wife, but if there is only a man we share him.