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why do women nag?

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Don't think women nag as such, they just have different priority set-ups than men.
So something which is top of a womans to-do list may be way down a mans to-do list, its a mis-match, but neither can see the common ground.
John
PS, just off to solve the Middle-East conflict.
Hmm its a mixed bag. On occasion I tell Mrs Tweeky the more she nags the longer it will take me to do it. On other occasions though it yields results for her. Take yesterday as an example. I bought a brand new LCD tv, I could have got a superior one cheaper from contacts I have but it may have taken 2 days too a week. Instead of listening to two days to a weeks worth of "how long do I have to watch this fucking poxy small spare TV for" followed by "you wont ever get one, it will take all year" I just bought a new one.
And there you have the answer, cus sometimes it works. :twisted:
I don't have this problem lol
Do an emotional intelligence course Brucie. Its all about thinking and feeling and expressing both as a way to avoid conflct and to put yourself in the other persons shoes and then you will stop with the word nag.
Thats what women do naturally, they express themselves but men are from mars so they dont 'get' it lol
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Do an emotional intelligence course Brucie. Its all about thinking and feeling and expressing both as a way to avoid conflct and to put yourself in the other persons shoes and then you will stop with the word nag.
Thats what women do naturally, they express themselves but men are from mars so they dont 'get' it lol

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why do women nag?, seriously, do they think it going to achieve anything except more resistance and resentment?

Not all "women" nag :-)
Tony wink
women wouldnt nag if men did as they are told in the first place lol sure they delay things to wind us up deliberately!!! thank my lucky stars im single now xx
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seriously, do they think it going to achieve anything except more resistance and resentment?

If you look at the definition of nagging: "to bother persistently with trivial complaints" then I would argue that it's probably not gender specific... certainly not in this forum anyway, hey brucie?
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seriously, do they think it going to achieve anything except more resistance and resentment?

If you look at the definition of nagging: "to bother persistently with trivial complaints" then I would argue that it's probably not gender specific... certainly not in this forum anyway, hey brucie?
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Nola, Nola, give me your answer do... where've your knockers gone?
Would apologise for the hijack but, well, it's brucie! :giggle:
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... where've your knockers gone?
Would apologise for the hijack but, well, it's brucie! :giggle:

I thought she'd put that new one up by way of swearing allegiance to the lovely flower innocent
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... where've your knockers gone?
Would apologise for the hijack but, well, it's brucie! :giggle:

I thought she'd put that new one up by way of swearing allegiance to the lovely flower innocent
What's happened to her standards?! dunno
I'm being spring-like and summery... rolleyes
Why do women nag??
Well if you know how to treat a woman ,they wouldn't nag you.
Well for one when my other half asks me to do something and i forget to do it,that isn't naggung,it is her reminding me to do something she asked me to do.
And if i can't do something for her,believe it or not we do talk about it and come to a compromise and work out a way to do what has been asked of me.
So Brucie believe it or not there are blokes out there who don't think they are being nagged when they are asked to do something.
So please don't tar all blokes with your narrow minded brush...
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oops sorry, was a typo, meant to ask why do women gag?

Because your 'nice' dick is so massive? dunno
What a load of old BS rotflmao Woman nag from my Nan to my Mum to Mrs Tweeky to the line manager at work.
worship To all the Utopian relationships out there, congratulations on being so great :sarcastic:
Anyway, where would we be without nagging mother in law jokes, a fate worse than death.
Secretly us guys dont actually mind it!!.. It gives us something to moan about then too!.. There is "Nagging" and then there are "issues", id rather a nagging girl than a girl with isses any day! lol
A request becomes a nag when it's made twice. If you don't want to/can't do something, say so, and you won't be asked again. And that goes for women as well as men. :thumbup:
Brucie have you had very bad experiences in your life? Do you need to talk about them? Come and sit in this chair .............
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Brucie have you had very bad experiences in your life? Do you need to talk about them? Come and sit in this chair .............

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women do nag. its a particular form of behaviour. but men can do it to. its just a question of finding out the best way to retaliate. then peace will follow.
Oh dear, oh dear, someone just had to bring it up again. This topic is as old as the hills and I just don't want to go there.
Plim lol
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the mercy seat is calling me.
name that tune lol :lol:
I dont nag, not ever, ask Silversmith, and if he says I do, his life won't be worth living lol
I don't nag. Ever. But then I don't exhibit quite a few 'common' female behaviours. I'm less likely to ask in the first place - let alone nag if something isn't done in the first place. I mostly do things myself - or don't mind if they don't get done. LOL. If I were that bothered I would do it. dunno
Seriously - I thought the concept of a nagging woman was a comedian's construct.
Oh, and a relationship where people actually talk about stuff (including 'issues') isn't some mythical utopian nonsense to be mocked and disbelieved. It's what some people have.
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I don't nag. Ever. But then I don't exhibit quite a few 'common' female behaviours. I'm less likely to ask in the first place - let alone nag if something isn't done in the first place. I mostly do things myself - or don't mind if they don't get done. LOL. If I were that bothered I would do it. dunno
Seriously - I thought the concept of a nagging woman was a comedian's construct.
Oh, and a relationship where people actually talk about stuff (including 'issues') isn't some mythical utopian nonsense to be mocked and disbelieved. It's what some people have.

I know! I knew lots of these people ten years ago before Mrs Tweeky and I were married. They are all divorced minus one and they hate each other and are in it for the kids. I'll give em another 4 years til the youngest hits 6-7 ish.
Out of all my friends that started relationships within 1 year either side of us only that one couple is still together. Including similarly aged relations think thats about 8 divorces/relationship split up with kids. You never know what goes on behind closed doors.
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This thread has made me think of the pub in Rochester......The landlord had a a new sign made to hang on the front of the pub...
It was a portrait of his wife ....
Aww how sweet I hear you cry lol
The name of the Pub ???
"The Nags Head" of course :giggle:

is that a 'me' post flower......do you have to start posting in the 3rd person to avoid confusion :giggle:
I know that Pub flower.
Good point well made Foxy I've never been nagged by any of the womwne I have spent my life with.
i don't nag
i gently remind
regularly