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Can any one tell me why people respond to ads and then fail to reply when we mail them back. You started it. We did not contact you. We always reply, even if with the occassional no thanks. More often than not we send pics and phone numbers then get -NOTHING. What is the point? Have you nothing better to do. We certainly have. It would be polite to reply even if you ve changed your mind.
Calm down there matey!
Don't give out too much info in your replies, 'till you know they're genuine. Think how many people now have your photo and phone number! (it's one right?) :-)
Take it easy and give it a chance. Come in here more often and get known. It works so much better and is fun.
Best of luck
There's a lot of picture collectors out there.
*goes off to look through picture collection*
I have no idea why this is, but if Easy's right then I pity the poor souls who're so desparate they need to collect my pictures...
Certainly one way to deter the pic collectors, of which there seem to be many, is to post just (semi)clothed pix........ We also make it clear in our ad that we do not send out gynae shots ...... As for phone numbers, we are very chary indeed of giving those out until genuinely required to progress.
I email loads of women & couples, & I really appreciate it when I get a reply, so I always respond. As Vix says though, I don't give my phone number out until I know a little more about them. Are you sending out erotic pics? That could be all they are after, sad blokes. Part with the pics only when you are sure, & they have sent some of their's.
We were quite disappointed when we sent pics as requested and then heard nothing else - a simple sorry you're not what i am looking for would have been nice - wouldn't have upset us or anything - just would have been nice to know.
I think most people would feel the same - and it doesn't hurt to say no thanks politely. :cry:
Kez and Suff .... probably because the respondents just wanted to add to their collection of pix.
Chrisx2 ...... answer similar to the above; and perhaps because you seek a bi-girl and the one in question isn't really ...... just her partner wishes she was!
Evening folks,
I always read the advert fully, only email if I fit the bill and can meet the conditions specfied. Of course that always rules me out of the following:
- young
- vvwe
- over 10inches
- fit
- muscular
But I do score points on:
- Bisexual
- over 40
- average build
And if asked for a reason why I should be considered, I always create masterpeice of artisitc prose.
Now, what was the question?
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