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Why does he always always fall asleep??
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Quote by Suze43
I know we have problems and after being together for almost 22 yrs we do love each other but everytime i bring the problem up he ignores me. He has suggested we go to Utopia and i said "u could never do that, how could u shag someone else, a stranger, when u cant shag me". He didnt answer so i have had to resort to other measures suffice to say. Its now am, i cant sleep, and this is getting a bit too heavy for this time of night so ill leave it there xx
But Suze. If you both go to Utopia will YOU care what he gets up to (or more likely doesn't get up to) 'cos you might be too busy enjoying what he can't give you from someone else.
As long as you're happy, eh?
Sex God
Quote by Suze43
Suze,
I can see you're attractive (if that's you in the avatar), I don't doubt you're fun but how many Saturdays has this happened - you only joined on Wednesday?
Of course its me, i joined SH about a month ago but only started posting on Wednesday smart arse!!
No need to be rude to anyone Suze
Why are you thinking about swinging if you aren't even having sex together?
I know we have problems and after being together for almost 22 yrs we do love each other but everytime i bring the problem up he ignores me. He has suggested we go to Utopia and i said "u could never do that, how could u shag someone else, a stranger, when u cant shag me". He didnt answer so i have had to resort to other measures suffice to say. Its now am, i cant sleep, and this is getting a bit too heavy for this time of night so ill leave it there xx
Yes, your probably right to leave it there!! 22 years is a long time with someone and I don't think jumping into bed with someone else is necessary the answer. Yeah, it could be argued that your on here - like many others - in the journey of having nsa fun etc, but I think that there are many ppl on here who have not gone down that journey! Think it goes much deeper than that. But hey, i'm no counsellor/expert so I could be wrong!
Think there is a lot of sorting out to be done between the two of you so good luck and I hope you both get it sorted.
Yes, your probably right to leave it there!! 22 years is a long time with someone and I don't think jumping into bed with someone else is necessary the answer. Yeah, it could be argued that your on here - like many others - in the journey of having nsa fun etc, but I think that there are many ppl on here who have not gone down that journey! Think it goes much deeper than that. But hey, i'm no counsellor/expert so I could be wrong!
Think there is a lot of sorting out to be done between the two of you so good luck and I hope you both get it sorted.
Hi Suze,
A common problem amongst couples of any age..and not just couples may I add!
A relationship needs to be worked on at every turn..from the bedroom to the kitchen..know what I'm saying?
Take me..I work hard and play hard and no matter what type of woman I end up with I have my faults..but one thing is I'm never boring!
So its upto you..you both either start doing something together or you both start to lead separate lives..its that simple.
Well best of luck.
Regards
Al
A common problem amongst couples of any age..and not just couples may I add!
A relationship needs to be worked on at every turn..from the bedroom to the kitchen..know what I'm saying?
Take me..I work hard and play hard and no matter what type of woman I end up with I have my faults..but one thing is I'm never boring!
So its upto you..you both either start doing something together or you both start to lead separate lives..its that simple.
Well best of luck.
Regards
Al
Sex God
Hes tired
Yeahhhhhhhh i think its cause you get comfy with each other, don't mean he don't love you or find u attractive but when u have been together a while u start taking each other 4 granted i think we all guilty of it 2 a extent.
Some times we have to take time out to make a effort, hark at me don;tlet paul real this he'll be expecting me 2 make a effort ffs lol
Some times we have to take time out to make a effort, hark at me don;tlet paul real this he'll be expecting me 2 make a effort ffs lol
Quote by Al_mighty
Hi Suze,
A common problem amongst couples of any age..and not just couples may I add!
A relationship needs to be worked on at every turn..from the bedroom to the kitchen..know what I'm saying?
Take me..I work hard and play hard and no matter what type of woman I end up with I have my faults..but one thing is I'm never boring!
So its upto you..you both either start doing something together or you both start to lead separate lives..its that simple.
Well best of Al_mighty luv, think we are already leading separate lives already!!
Regards
Al
Orgasminator
Suze, make him realise you have needs and if he can't / wont help then just be open and honest and let him know you might have to go elsewhere for your pleasures.
It might kick start him into life or he might let you go off and enjoy yourself.
You can't make him so just do the best you can, with or without him.
YOU need your fun.
It might kick start him into life or he might let you go off and enjoy yourself.
You can't make him so just do the best you can, with or without him.
YOU need your fun.
