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Why do you think so many new members are too shy to say hello in the cafe?
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Why Don't New members - say hello
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How do you know that there are new members that aren't saying hello in the cafe if they don't come in and say hello? 
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Not all use the forum, or just like to read it or are nervous. Took me 3 months to post here.
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Um got me there 
Well, as I prowl the Women seeking Men ads, I have written and suggested that I think it is good idea for them to do it but none seem to.
When I write this done I think I sound a bit too sinister, perhaps that's why?
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Well, as I prowl the Women seeking Men ads, I have written and suggested that I think it is good idea for them to do it but none seem to.
When I write this done I think I sound a bit too sinister, perhaps that's why?
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Um got me there
Well, as I prowl the Women seeking Men ads, I have written and suggested that I think it is good idea for them to do it but none seem to.
When I write this done I think I sound a bit too sinister, perhaps that's why?
No.. just honest!
Some people just prefer to use the chat rooms, others the adverts and some of us the forum.
Warming the Bed
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Yeah took me a while to post in the forums and I still havent much, am in chat loads. Not sure why it took me so long cos usually i love putting my opinion across hehe
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Why do you think so many new members are too shy to say hello in the cafe?
:twisted:
I was not shy. I shouted HELLOOOOOOO to you from my caravan going at 51mph overtaking you in the slow lane.
Phredd
Sexlightened
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It's not only new members who will not post in the various places available to them upon reading the contents of certain topics. It only needs one or two "sarcastic" comments directed at a particular posting or poster from other users which lets be honest is hardly infrequent on here? Little wonder they'll not want to put their fingers to a keyboard if that's the sort of reply that could be forthcoming to them. Some of us are gentle souls you know? -
Happy August.
Happy August.
Warming the Bed
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It's not only new members who will not post in the various places available to them upon reading the contents of certain topics. It only needs one or two "sarcastic" comments directed at a particular posting or poster from other users which lets be honest is hardly infrequent on here? Little wonder they'll want to put their fingers to a keyboard if that's the sort of reply that could be forthcoming to them. Some of us are gentle souls you know? -
Happy August.
So true, and exactly what I was going to say, but far more diplomatic than my input would have been!
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
Sexlightened
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
That would be a bit "cheesy" and the fact that it's someones first posting should make other people aware that they are new and feeling somewhat trepidated.
Sexlightened
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It's not only new members who will not post in the various places available to them upon reading the contents of certain topics. It only needs one or two "sarcastic" comments directed at a particular posting or poster from other users which lets be honest is hardly infrequent on here? Little wonder they'll not want to put their fingers to a keyboard if that's the sort of reply that could be forthcoming to them. Some of us are gentle souls you know? -
Happy August.
So true, and exactly what I was going to say, but far more diplomatic than my input would have been!
Thank you.
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It's not only new members who will not post in the various places available to them upon reading the contents of certain topics. It only needs one or two "sarcastic" comments directed at a particular posting or poster from other users which lets be honest is hardly infrequent on here? Little wonder they'll want to put their fingers to a keyboard if that's the sort of reply that could be forthcoming to them. Some of us are gentle souls you know? -
Happy August.
So true, and exactly what I was going to say, but far more diplomatic than my input would have been!
:gagged:
Sexlightened
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Or fingers bound together!
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
Actualy i looked at my post history nor did i
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
Actualy i looked at my post history nor did i
Me either acutally! I just checked and my first post was in the LMU! :shock:
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
Actualy i looked at my post history nor did i
Me either acutally! I just checked and my first post was in the LMU! :shock:
:shock: No time like the present they say
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True indeed!
True indeed!
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Why do you think so many new members are too shy to say hello in the cafe?
Cos certain people put them off with their putdowns etc IMO
This happens more to single males than anybody else
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Why do you think so many new members are too shy to say hello in the cafe?
Cos certain people put them off with their putdowns etc IMO
This happens more to single males than anybody else
I personally find this untrue. When I first joined the forum I made errors, asked questions that had been asked 1000 times before and had the right royal p*ss taken out of me on many an occasion. (I still do at times
). If when somebody said to me "It happens, get over it" I had taken it to heart I wouldn't be here now. I would have left and missed out all the fun!
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
That would be a bit "cheesy" and the fact that it's someones first posting should make other people aware that they are new and feeling somewhat trepidated.
Actually I don't think it is 'cheesy' in the slightest - lots of people do it and get plenty of 'welcomes' in return. Just because it was not my way of making an entrance, I would not degrade it as a method for dipping ones toes if it suites other people.
Sexlightened
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Quote by PoloLady
To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
That would be a bit "cheesy" and the fact that it's someones first posting should make other people aware that they are new and feeling somewhat trepidated.
Actually I don't think it is 'cheesy' in the slightest - lots of people do it and get plenty of 'welcomes' in return. Just because it was not my way of making an entrance, I would not degrade it as a method for dipping ones toes if it suites other people.
You have missed the point by only picking up on the "cheesy" quote.
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To the best of my knowledge - I have never posted a 'hello I'm new' thingy.
That would be a bit "cheesy" and the fact that it's someones first posting should make other people aware that they are new and feeling somewhat trepidated.
Actually I don't think it is 'cheesy' in the slightest - lots of people do it and get plenty of 'welcomes' in return. Just because it was not my way of making an entrance, I would not degrade it as a method for dipping ones toes if it suites other people.
You have missed the point by only picking up on the "cheesy" quote.
You're right - I must have missed the point
- I thought that was your point that it is 'cheesy' for people to say 'hello I am new' as we should be able to work that out for ourselves 
Orgasminator
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OK...feeling really stupid now because my first post WAS that I was new and was to ask some questions. **going to stand in the corner now ** lol
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OK...feeling really stupid now because my first post WAS that I was new and was to ask some questions. **going to stand in the corner now ** lol
Thats not stupid it's what lots of people do.
Forum Virgin
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i am new and saying hello how is every 1
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i am new and saying hello how is every 1
Hello and welcome to the madplace.
Try sticking it in a new post get more visible.
Sex God
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Hello Sheffieldmale 
and dont believe some of the complete bollox some people post about the cafe
Welcome
walks off muttering obscenities about comments from people with a chip on thier shoulder & who dont use the cafe but will come in here and put newbies off with their right royal bollox just because they didnt stick around long enough to find out for themselves
and dont believe some of the complete bollox some people post about the cafe
Welcome
walks off muttering obscenities about comments from people with a chip on thier shoulder & who dont use the cafe but will come in here and put newbies off with their right royal bollox just because they didnt stick around long enough to find out for themselves
Warming the Bed
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maybe it works like this...
join..
spend a month perving the profile pics, spend a month lurking in chat... if there still here in 2 months they discover the forum!
join..
spend a month perving the profile pics, spend a month lurking in chat... if there still here in 2 months they discover the forum!
Forum Virgin
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Hiya, we are new memebers!
We are a young Birmingham couple (bi-curious female 21 and male 22) who are looking for a friendly female for some fun times.
You will find our photos on our profile and more can be sent if requested. Also have cam.
We are fairly new to this but are serious about a meet, just looking for the right person.
We consider ourselves to be very approachable, friendly and easy going.
We are a young Birmingham couple (bi-curious female 21 and male 22) who are looking for a friendly female for some fun times.
You will find our photos on our profile and more can be sent if requested. Also have cam.
We are fairly new to this but are serious about a meet, just looking for the right person.
We consider ourselves to be very approachable, friendly and easy going.
