Quote by H-x
OOOO I hadn't thought of that!
A captive audience.
thanks sweetpea
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I don't whether to
or :cry: at that comment H! 
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why dont people reply to replies .....................
Quote by Gryphon
Don't worry my love - I'm sure we can find you a pen pal or two!
Hang on a minute...
If I was writing to myself, how come no-one ever bothered to reply?! :shock:
The bastard!
You mean you never received a reply to the reply you wrote to yourself after not getting a single reply?
I'd smack 'im up-side-the-head if I were you!!
:P
Sexpert
I think this post should be the last reply, in relation to the above reply, and all the replies prior to that.
Quote by Rising
I think this post should be the last reply, in relation to the above reply, and all the replies prior to that.
Are yu suggesting that this thread has gone a little off subject?
To be serious for a moment (cos that's my limit) I don't reply to replies unless I'm interested in them, I quite clearly state this in my ad. I don't see the harm in this.
H.x
Sex God
Nothing to add, i just like standing behind H
Sexpert
Quote by essex34m
why is that?
Seemed the best reply at the time, to all the other replies
Sex God
Quote by H-x
Don't just stand there!
Wriggle.
H.x
i'm kneeling down now, you wriggle
Sex God
Quote by Abilene
I do make a point of emailing everyone even if its to say 'thanks but no thanks' However, there are exceptions to this and they are:
Winks.
Profiles with NO info at all.
Profiles with ONLY cock shots/pussy shots.
Emails that are crude and nasty.
Emails that ask questions which prove you havent even read my profile.
Emails from my boss telling me to do some damn work.
We'd agree with that.
This question often comes up. There are thousands of responders out there who would love to know what works. Whilst its easy to say that hundreds of responders were completely off the mark, this offers little helpful information or advice. What about those who came close or even made it? What was it that they did?
My own experiences did not involve much in the way of email exchanges, or even pre meetings. Most were direct invites to the homes and beds of the responders. I met one woman at 2am in the morning at her home for the first time. Nothing other than a few phone women and men involved were happy to be as discreet and anonymous as they wanted.
So really I don't expect a great deal of email shuffling or pre emptive meetings.
However the dating scene is often full of lengthty exchanges and all sorts of intriguing protocol, which can be quite interesting or extremely tedious. But it goes with the convention.
So why don't they reply ? Its because they just don't find the responder lights their bonfire. So there's no point sending a verbose apology, although some do offer a decent short no thanks, which is fine.
My own experiences did not involve much in the way of email exchanges, or even pre meetings. Most were direct invites to the homes and beds of the responders. I met one woman at 2am in the morning at her home for the first time. Nothing other than a few phone women and men involved were happy to be as discreet and anonymous as they wanted.
So really I don't expect a great deal of email shuffling or pre emptive meetings.
However the dating scene is often full of lengthty exchanges and all sorts of intriguing protocol, which can be quite interesting or extremely tedious. But it goes with the convention.
So why don't they reply ? Its because they just don't find the responder lights their bonfire. So there's no point sending a verbose apology, although some do offer a decent short no thanks, which is fine.
It would be nice that when you respond to other peoples replies to your ad, taking into account of answering all their questions from their reply,ad,profile and including facial photos, that they at least had the courtesy of replying with not interested/no thanks.
An idea may be to have a simple no thanks button on the individual email page which does an automated reply and deletes the email straight away.
It would be nice if timewasters/photo collectors could be weeded out.
Guess I'm dreaming.
Simon
An idea may be to have a simple no thanks button on the individual email page which does an automated reply and deletes the email straight away.
It would be nice if timewasters/photo collectors could be weeded out.
Guess I'm dreaming.
Simon
Sexlightened
To all the GENUINE people out there who do reply in a positive nature or a polite no thank you i can assure you that , in my case anyway, all replies are respected and if an answer is required then sent
I do agree with all comments though that ,yes people do have busy lives and. sometimes cannot be asked to sit and digest numerous emails one at a time .
I have learnt over the time on SH that the genuine people who do like what you have sent will reply and paicence is upmost
and if a button could be added saying will be in touch i think that would help
robbie
I do agree with all comments though that ,yes people do have busy lives and. sometimes cannot be asked to sit and digest numerous emails one at a time .
I have learnt over the time on SH that the genuine people who do like what you have sent will reply and paicence is upmost
and if a button could be added saying will be in touch i think that would help
robbie
Hi - newbie here - I must have struck lucky as I got a reply when I wrote to someone regarding their ad...
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
Quote by ironman
Hi - newbie here - I must have struck lucky as I got a reply when I wrote to someone regarding their ad...
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
OMG ! :shock: Someone's actually got it ! :bounce:
Welcome to the Cafe btw ironman. Hope you find what you're looking for :thumbup:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Hi - newbie here - I must have struck lucky as I got a reply when I wrote to someone regarding their ad...
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
OMG ! :shock: Someone's actually got it ! :bounce:
Welcome to the Cafe btw ironman. Hope you find what you're looking for :thumbup:
something tells me he will.....
Quote by essex34m
Hi - newbie here - I must have struck lucky as I got a reply when I wrote to someone regarding their ad...
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
OMG ! :shock: Someone's actually got it ! :bounce:
Welcome to the Cafe btw ironman. Hope you find what you're looking for :thumbup:
something tells me he will.....
Hmmm a swimmer, and here's me living right be the coast.......
H.x
Quote by essex34m
Hi - newbie here - I must have struck lucky as I got a reply when I wrote to someone regarding their ad...
Sent 20 more since and not had a reply, but thats life I guess. I do read all ads and send a full account of who I am and what I am looking for. I don't bother sending anything unless they say in their ad trhey are lookig for a single (maybe bi) bloke.
Hopefully meeting up with said person who replied.. I was due there Sunday, but due to an ilness in the family I had to cancel.
Use your imagination and couples wan tto know about you, your likes/dislikes and what you are about. One liners saying 'I've got a big cock and know how to use it' just wont cut the mustard
dave
OMG ! :shock: Someone's actually got it ! :bounce:
Welcome to the Cafe btw ironman. Hope you find what you're looking for :thumbup:
something tells me he will.....
With that attitude, he just might. Nice to see too
There is nothing worse than trying to extract information from someone who's idea of a reply is giving you a run down of thier physical attributes. I'm not buying a car here, I'm trying to get to know people, if the only information they think is important is the size of their manhood I'm not going to want to know.
H.x
H.x
OK - it is one of those days today.......
Sometimes I read PM's and find myself thinking one of the following:
1 - this is a cut 'n' paste job
2 - yeah sure I want to meet you just because you have told me you love licking and what size your nob is
3 - oh god it's another one who thinks swinging is meeting any fucker who offers and having a quick shag
4 – ffs don’t they read anything!
5 – you are a couple ffs – why is there only a photo of your wife’s kebab?
6- if you are starting the fucking message with " I know I am not what you said you were looking for but..." then don't you already know what the reply is?
And to be honest - sometimes when I feel like that, I just can't be arsed to send a reply.
If someone then ends up thinking I am not 'GENUINE' well basically... so fucking what! They shouldn't have sent such a piece of crap to my PM box.
Most days I can laugh stuff off - some days I just get so pissed off with arseholes, tourists, easy shag hunters and part-time swingers - I just really can't be bothered to reply to anyone.
May be sometimes that means I miss out on meeting people I may well really get along with - but hey-ho . it's a pretty safe bet I have also missed out on a bunch of morons in the process.
Sometimes I read PM's and find myself thinking one of the following:
1 - this is a cut 'n' paste job
2 - yeah sure I want to meet you just because you have told me you love licking and what size your nob is
3 - oh god it's another one who thinks swinging is meeting any fucker who offers and having a quick shag
4 – ffs don’t they read anything!
5 – you are a couple ffs – why is there only a photo of your wife’s kebab?
6- if you are starting the fucking message with " I know I am not what you said you were looking for but..." then don't you already know what the reply is?
And to be honest - sometimes when I feel like that, I just can't be arsed to send a reply.
If someone then ends up thinking I am not 'GENUINE' well basically... so fucking what! They shouldn't have sent such a piece of crap to my PM box.
Most days I can laugh stuff off - some days I just get so pissed off with arseholes, tourists, easy shag hunters and part-time swingers - I just really can't be bothered to reply to anyone.
May be sometimes that means I miss out on meeting people I may well really get along with - but hey-ho . it's a pretty safe bet I have also missed out on a bunch of morons in the process.
Quote by PoloLady
OK - it is one of those days today.......
Sometimes I read PM's and find myself thinking one of the following:
1 - this is a cut 'n' paste job
2 - yeah sure I want to meet you just because you have told me you love licking and what size your nob is
3 - oh god it's another one who thinks swinging is meeting any fucker who offers and having a quick shag
4 – ffs don’t they read anything!
5 – you are a couple ffs – why is there only a photo of your wife’s kebab?
6- if you are starting the fucking message with " I know I am not what you said you were looking for but..." then don't you already know what the reply is?
And to be honest - sometimes when I feel like that, I just can't be arsed to send a reply.
If someone then ends up thinking I am not 'GENUINE' well basically... so fucking what! They shouldn't have sent such a piece of crap to my PM box.
Most days I can laugh stuff off - some days I just get so pissed off with arseholes, tourists, easy shag hunters and part-time swingers - I just really can't be bothered to reply to anyone.
May be sometimes that means I miss out on meeting people I may well really get along with - but hey-ho . it's a pretty safe bet I have also missed out on a bunch of morons in the process.
being a single male, i dont get that crap, i have finally found a good reason to be single lmao
Quote by PoloLady
OK - it is one of those days today.......
Sometimes I read PM's and find myself thinking one of the following:
1 - this is a cut 'n' paste job
2 - yeah sure I want to meet you just because you have told me you love licking and what size your nob is
3 - oh god it's another one who thinks swinging is meeting any fucker who offers and having a quick shag
4 – ffs don’t they read anything!
5 – you are a couple ffs – why is there only a photo of your wife’s kebab?
6- if you are starting the fucking message with " I know I am not what you said you were looking for but..." then don't you already know what the reply is?
And to be honest - sometimes when I feel like that, I just can't be arsed to send a reply.
If someone then ends up thinking I am not 'GENUINE' well basically... so fucking what! They shouldn't have sent such a piece of crap to my PM box.
Most days I can laugh stuff off - some days I just get so pissed off with arseholes, tourists, easy shag hunters and part-time swingers - I just really can't be bothered to reply to anyone.
May be sometimes that means I miss out on meeting people I may well really get along with - but hey-ho . it's a pretty safe bet I have also missed out on a bunch of morons in the process.
I love it when you get arsey :twisted:
Quote by Rising
Because, people are picky, choosy, and probably not that genuine. Im going to go to the next social in my area, as I think its a better way hopefully to meet the people who are hopefully none of the above.
And I love that bit
Yes you are so right... genuine people are not picky or choosy at all - genuine swingers fuck anyone
Where as 'fake' swingers are much poorer quality and fall apart in the wash
