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why is this swinging lark not straightforward
Quote by Choochie
Why is this all so complicated, why do men not read profiles, why do men often arrange to meet then cancel at the last minute ... answers on a postcard please!
It is very straight forward if you want to meet any old (or young) Tom, Dick or Harry!
If however you want things to be the way you want them to be, it all takes a bit of time.
We have found out over a period of time, that what you think you may want is not actually the best out there, our wants and needs have changed since being on here.
The two guys we meet with now (not both at the same time
) are not on any swinging site at all, and have never been.We just sort of bumped into them........long story!!
Anyway Coochie, hang on in there, there are some lovely folk on this site.
Quote by Lucyandmike7
Why is this all so complicated, why do men not read profiles, why do men often arrange to meet then cancel at the last minute ... answers on a postcard please!
It is very straight forward if you want to meet any old (or young) Tom, Dick or Harry!
If however you want things to be the way you want them to be, it all takes a bit of time.
We have found out over a period of time, that what you think you may want is not actually the best out there, our wants and needs have changed since being on here.
The two guys we meet with now (not both at the same time
) are not on any swinging site at all, and have never been.We just sort of bumped into them........long story!!
Anyway Coochie, hang on in there, there are some lovely folk on this site.
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Sorting meets can be difficult.
Why do the kids get sick?
Why does ya mom turn up just as u getting ready for a meet?
Why does ya hubby get stuck at work the night you wanna play?
Why does ya period start a week early?
Why does the tank in the loft spring a leak and the ceiling ends up on the floor?
Will i still be horny this time next week?
Will the car break down?
Will i just be tooooo knackered to play?
This is life. Things get in the way. Dissapointing i know. But s**t happens.
This is why we like clubs. You dont let anyone down, no one lets u down. If a tsunami happens the day before no one calls u a time waster.
Why do the kids get sick?
Why does ya mom turn up just as u getting ready for a meet?
Why does ya hubby get stuck at work the night you wanna play?
Why does ya period start a week early?
Why does the tank in the loft spring a leak and the ceiling ends up on the floor?
Will i still be horny this time next week?
Will the car break down?
Will i just be tooooo knackered to play?
This is life. Things get in the way. Dissapointing i know. But s**t happens.
This is why we like clubs. You dont let anyone down, no one lets u down. If a tsunami happens the day before no one calls u a time waster.
well...lets get a few things out the way......just as many women and couples...don't read profiles..and cancell at last minute. The answer is generally to pick better !! Maybe choose the ones you may have met at a social before . That way if they have taken the trouble to attended there, they are genuine. Also that way, you can be sure that they look like the pic, they have sent, and hopefully would have an idea of what they were like as people. Single guys, Single Ladies, Couples...is all the same.....from time to time things do happen, and stop a meet. I still believe that 99% of people on here are genuine.
Quote by Choochie
Why is this all so complicated, why do men not read profiles, why do men often arrange to meet then cancel at the last minute ... answers on a postcard please!
I agree that there are a few burks out there, not all are men though. It isn't hard to imagine that some "couples" are really single fellas, some "women" are just men in drag, and some "swingers" are Walter Mitty types who talk the talk, but wouldn't dare even try and walk the walk.
Good luck, whatever has happened so far remember that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. And keep a wally list to avoid making the same mistake twice.
Sexlightened
It's not just swinging, it's life in general...in Britain anyhow...nothing is easy or straightforward anymore. Too many people are inadequate and have a lack of manners and good grace.
I agree with all that has been said but I also think that there are some people (all genders) that just like "the chase". And once the flirting, teasing, chatting or whatever, is done and a meet is arranged, the chase is over and so is the thrill.
I have had some fantastic meets and have been let down too, but have also had to call off a meet when life takes over!!
I think its all just part and parcel of this "lifestyle" as in any pastime (!!) and don't let it get you down hun.
Wench xxx
I have had some fantastic meets and have been let down too, but have also had to call off a meet when life takes over!!
I think its all just part and parcel of this "lifestyle" as in any pastime (!!) and don't let it get you down hun.
Wench xxx
Quote by Buxom_wench
I agree with all that has been said but I also think that there are some people (all genders) that just like "the chase". And once the flirting, teasing, chatting or whatever, is done and a meet is arranged, the chase is over and so is the thrill.
I have had some fantastic meets and have been let down too, but have also had to call off a meet when life takes over!!
I think its all just part and parcel of this "lifestyle" as in any pastime (!!) and don't let it get you down hun.
Wench xxx
I so like that Wench......."the chase", I think you have hit the nail on the head there!
Sex God
Quote by Buxom_wench
I agree with all that has been said but I also think that there are some people (all genders) that just like "the chase". And once the flirting, teasing, chatting or whatever, is done and a meet is arranged, the chase is over and so is the thrill.
I have had some fantastic meets and have been let down too, but have also had to call off a meet when life takes over!!
I think its all just part and parcel of this "lifestyle" as in any pastime (!!) and don't let it get you down hun.
Wench xxx
Wise words! Totally agree with you there.
Sex God
if it were straight forward blokes would be good at it but like everything women are involved in its complicated
Sex God
its a damn site easier than trying to make orange juice !
Swinging is wat you make ov it. Yes there are definatley disappointments, but there are also some real nice suprises to be had by all. You can make it as simple or as complicated as you like, but only you can decide wat you want & how you want to play it. Remember patience is a key factor, but if ur in it for the wham bam, thank you mam, then try the swinging clubs, they can be great fun, but on some occasions nothin may happen. Patience is a virtue as they say................I hope you have some real nice happy swinging experiences, just be patient they will happen.
