Then go and see how many women seeking men ads and couples seeking men ads there are..
Should give you sone idea of the size of the task in hand....
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Why no take up?
I've just had a quick look at your ad, it sounds pretty reasonable, but hasn't been updated since May. This means that anyone doing a search won't see you, unless they scroll down pages and pages - so you could try to refresh it reguarly, and keep it at the top of the search listings.
You could also try to boost your expose by joining in the forum and getting to know more people that way.
Les x
You could also try to boost your expose by joining in the forum and getting to know more people that way.
Les x
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Just feeling a bit sorry for myslf I guess but I'm a nice looking sexy guy looking for just about anyone who is up for some nsa fun but despite everything I cant seem to get to first base. ladies, couples, dogging, voyeur opportunities - you name it but nought! So is the site true or just so much buncum?? Anyway ladies/couples etc looking for a reasonable and genuine guy please say so and restore my faith in the system!!!!!!
It depends on how you've been looking the photo ads can be hard work for single men as you are just one of a vast number looking for the same with only a brief bit of text and a few pics to make you stand out. But the advice banded about is to join in in the forum let people get to know you and your personality a bit and all will come good
it did for me :D 
Some pictures might help too, if you are comfortale having them, as it is possible to search for ads with pics only. Stay away from genital shots though (there is a thread near the top of the page which will explain why lol), I think the general consensus is women prefer clothed or semi clothed pics possibly with face blurred or cropped if you want anonyminity.
Les x
Les x
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welcome to the site...
as you will keep hearing in the advice.. you get out what you put in...
since this is your only your 2nd foray into the forum.... how much would people have known about you here???? until today... nothing!!!
not everyone uses every part of the site... after all...you have come in here twice and you have been here 2 years!!!
another thing.... in the what you are looking for box.. are you really looking for a "gay single female" or a "gay female couple" or more importantly are they going to be looking for you???? it can appear that you have just hit every box that might have a woman in it, what may that say about you???.... little details like that can make a difference... think about it...
sean
as you will keep hearing in the advice.. you get out what you put in...
since this is your only your 2nd foray into the forum.... how much would people have known about you here???? until today... nothing!!!
not everyone uses every part of the site... after all...you have come in here twice and you have been here 2 years!!!
another thing.... in the what you are looking for box.. are you really looking for a "gay single female" or a "gay female couple" or more importantly are they going to be looking for you???? it can appear that you have just hit every box that might have a woman in it, what may that say about you???.... little details like that can make a difference... think about it...
sean
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ok...i'm going to be blunt.....you get back what you put it.....and what have you put in..nothing.....no pics,below average ad......second post in the forums...want me to go on?
Take note of this and what Steve_mids said. I been here since December and have only just arranged a soial meet up. Just chill and be as nice to people as you can this will bring something. The females have to be careful here beacause of various things and need to get to know poeple before going any thurther.
Like has been said i don't know figures but i would guess men out number women here by between 5 and 10 to 1 if not more and bare in mind lots of the single fems are looking for other single fems.
A few nice pictures of yourself wouldn't go amis but make them nice posed type shots and you can blank out face via SH if you wish.
Just be your self and get to know folks here and be paitent.
I just looked at your profile to see if I could ad anything useful to help answer your questions, but I was a little surprised to see you had written "Accused of not putting photo on profile but if you ask will provide but discretion important...".
If that comment was directed at this thread then I feel that it is more than a little unfair as folk are only trying to help you and are taking their own time to give you advice, which you asked for.
As others have said... there aare a heck of a lot more guys on here then there are females so you have to get to know people and stand out. If I had a to choose between two profiles and one man had added pictures, I would nearly always gravitate towards the one that had pictures.
If that comment was directed at this thread then I feel that it is more than a little unfair as folk are only trying to help you and are taking their own time to give you advice, which you asked for.
As others have said... there aare a heck of a lot more guys on here then there are females so you have to get to know people and stand out. If I had a to choose between two profiles and one man had added pictures, I would nearly always gravitate towards the one that had pictures.
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I just looked at your profile to see if I could ad anything useful to help answer your questions, but I was a little surprised to see you had written "Accused of not putting photo on profile but if you ask will provide but discretion important...".
If that comment was directed at this thread then I feel that it is more than a little unfair as folk are only trying to help you and are taking their own time to give you advice, which you asked for.
As others have said... there aare a heck of a lot more guys on here then there are females so you have to get to know people and stand out. If I had a to choose between two profiles and one man had added pictures, I would nearly always gravitate towards the one that had pictures.
your right.....that has just been added.....you haven't been accused of anything....certain things have just been pointed out.....going to be blunt again.....your one out of tens of thousands of guys on here.....what makes you special.....nothing at all.....in all honestly no one will ask you for a pic ,when they can choose from the hundreds who have provided them......if you want to stand out do something about it rather than whinging about it......also your profile is nothing but lazy......what could you poissibly want with a gay female couple,single gay female,straight guy of even a couple with bi female....if you can't even be bothered to sort that little section why should we take you serious....you want to stand out.....do something about it!
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Need to say a little and thats always difficult. Accused of not putting photo on profile but if you ask will provide but discretion important.
If you are worried about discretion it doesn't need to be a face pic look at my profile pic (the one on the right) you can't tell what I look like apart from the fact that at the time I needed a bloody good stint on the electric beach
No one has accused you of anythign more so offered good and helpfull advice that as members who have had some success with the site know that it works
Sex God
Its a conspiracy against him I reckon . The Illuminati are involved somewhere and I expect The Brotherhood of Scion as well !! The swines
Orgasminator
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ok...i'm going to be blunt.....you get back what you put it.....and what have you put in..nothing.....no pics,below average ad......second post in the forums...want me to go on?
Agree :thumbup:
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So that some of us don't look like loonies.....he has now updated his profile a little better than before.......although he's still relunctant to put up a pic.....he has his reasons i suppose.
Prehaps we have a celebraty in our midst hence the reluctence to post a pic :shock:
Now all we need to do is to think of a 50yo muscular celebraty, I'll go with Dale Winton
