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Quote by Missy
why wear any undies??? sexy or not rolleyes

Because, and I don't care who says it ain't true, I do more fanny farts with no knickers on :undecided: redface
Not sure if its actually fanny farts tho dunno Think it might just be a combination of when I sit down, my legs and fanny all kinda squeeze together and any air that was in the gap between fanny and legs, gets squished out - making a fanny fart type of noise cos it makes me legs wobble and slap together :dunno: Bit like when you used to do that underarm farty noise, by pumping your arm against your hand thats in yer armpit confused Doesn't happen all the time tho, just more often than when I'm knickered up, cos for some reason it doesn't happen then :dunno:
Unless I just walk funny and catch air in me lou lou :undecided: :dunno:
Anyway, sorry, sidetracked surprisedops: back to the original debate......
Oh my God Missy rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by Missy
A lady is sexy undies is wonderful but I like them to take them off most of all,I love nudity best.

Well helloooooo you!! Let me serenade you with me tuneful lou lou cool confused
Missy - queen of chatup :smug:
OMG rotflmao :rotflmao: I've just had a vision of you sitting down in the pub to an accompaniment of a lou lou solo of the Blue Danube.
It'd make the locals sit up and take notice at least!
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Quote by H-x
Sorry but I don't possess anything other than thongs etc, I find them far more comfortable to wear and they make me feel good.
H.x

Why are you saying sorry?
:inlove: :lickface: 69position passionkiss
Personally i'm not a sexy under wear wearer, i don't really think i have the body for sexy undies so i don't bother, but i think women like wearing them cause it makes them feel famanine and they know it turns men on wink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I wear thong shorts - bit like lacey shorts but with a thong back. Very sexy and very comfy. I love wearing sexy undies, they make me feel good wearing them, basques, stockings, matching sets, thongs, you name em I've probably got em. wink Some women buy shoes, I buy undies. I sorted through my 4 ( yes honestly ) undies drawers the other week and counted 21 bras :shock:

For me it is not an either/or regarding shoes and undies.
I love shoes, but I also have 8 drawers in my bedroom - 7 of which are undies redface
OK - here are the two sides of the debate from last night....
Women wear sexy undies to please men. That is it. Full stop. Any excuse about what enjoyment they get from wearing sexy undies is just a front to hide the fact they are desperate to keep a man happy and do what men want. It is yet another sign of their weakness and conditioning to be submissive to men blar, blar, blar, blar... followed by more male bullshit lol
The alternative opinion....
Women enjoy wearing sexy undies for a variety of reasons, but mainly because it alters how they feel.
Women may wear sexy undies to flatter their assets - which in turn makes them feel good about themselves - which in turn makes them feel more relaxed - which in turn can lead to more pleasure from sex.
It could be to feel more sexual - and when you feel sexual you become more sexual.
What you wear can alter moods and mindsets. I know for a fact that there have been occasions where I have been in two minds as to whether I wanted to go out or not - and just putting my undies on changed all of that .... I have found myself becoming aroused (on one occasion I can think of - this was so much so that I needed to change my undies again redface ) just from selecting and putting on my undies. I also know wearing slutty underwear (and thigh-length boots etc) always enhances my filth-factor and puts me in the mood for more adventurous things.
Exciting men is not always the end product. Knowing you are exciting men has its own esteem benefits - it can be an ego-boost or power-rush.
And let's not forget - it is not always just men that we are putting them on for wink
Wearing sexy undies is just part of the human courtship dance... a woman can feel sexier and the man often appreciates the emphasised femininity.
I was thinking of starting a thread on make-up for similar reasons... why don the paint and lacy bras? But at the end of the day it's pretty obvious really.. to make oneself more attractive by emphasising the erogenous zones!
I have all sorts.. some pretty, some sexy and some practical... just depends on my mood, though I do like to go out for an evening in a dress, high heels and no knickers... makes me feel very naughty!
And talking of panties (I love that word!).... what about the fellas?? Do you make any effort in the pants department? Got any special lucky ones? Any tiger fur thongs out there boys?? lol
Also ladies, be warned the police are now suggesting standards regarding your knickers when completely rat arsed (yesterday's Telegraph) :
Quote by PoloLady
Women enjoy wearing sexy undies for a variety of reasons, but mainly because it alters how they feel.
Women may wear sexy undies to flatter their assets - which in turn makes them feel good about themselves - which in turn makes them feel more relaxed - which in turn can lead to more pleasure from sex.
It could be to feel more sexual - and when you feel sexual you become more sexual.
What you wear can alter moods and mindsets. I know for a fact that there have been occasions where I have been in two minds as to whether I wanted to go out or not - and just putting my undies on changed all of that .... I have found myself becoming aroused (on one occasion I can think of - this was so much so that I needed to change my undies again redface ) just from selecting and putting on my undies. I also know wearing slutty underwear (and thigh-length boots etc) always enhances my filth-factor and puts me in the mood for more adventurous things.
Exciting men is not always the end product. Knowing you are exciting men has its own esteem benefits - it can be an ego-boost or power-rush.
And let's not forget - it is not always just men that we are putting them on for wink

Totally agree cool (especially the last line!)
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I wear thong shorts - bit like lacey shorts but with a thong back. Very sexy and very comfy. I love wearing sexy undies, they make me feel good wearing them, basques, stockings, matching sets, thongs, you name em I've probably got em. wink Some women buy shoes, I buy undies. I sorted through my 4 ( yes honestly ) undies drawers the other week and counted 21 bras :shock:

Impressive :twisted:
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<I definately wear underwear to turn men on and to ensure that I remain subservient to the male ego and overarching prowess.
or I can just put it on cos I like it and think that it is pretty and sexy... without thinking too hard about social conditioning and my upbringing.
I like it. the people I have sex with like it. I can't wear it everyday as I get thrush if I don't wear 100% cotton... so for day to day wear I have cotton thongs. I never have to wear big panties (don't have a time of the month) so for me it is either lacy sexy underwear or cotton thongs... and I have 3 large drawers full of underwear.
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
ffs... off to the loo to change again- I should not log in when I am at work
Quote by PoloLady
I know for a fact that there have been occasions where I have been in two minds as to whether I wanted to go out or not - and just putting my undies on changed all of that .... I have found myself becoming aroused (on one occasion I can think of - this was so much so that I needed to change my undies again redface )

Blimey, not back into your 'non sexy, don't want to go out' ones I hope :shock:
Underwear, to me, is on the the same basis as clothes - I don't wear the same clothes out that I wear to do the housework/gardening. I dress up to go out, make the most of my assets and minimise the not so good points. I do it to look better, feel better.
Noway would I do my housework in an off the shoulder cocktail dress, just not practical, so on goes me comfies. By the same token, I certainly wouldn't turn up to a cocktail party in me combats n t-shirt with bleach all down the front confused Same with underwear, noway would I turn up to a swingers club in me grey baggy 'ol faithfuls'. The same as I wouldn't do me housework in my sexy underwear - mind you, that could be more of a price thing, and the fact I don't want my 'sexys' to be turned into 'old fadeds' any quicker than necessary!!!
So are clothes/underwear a part of a social uniform? dunno Yes I do feel a lot better/sexier when dressed up in all me finery, different bits n bobs are both hidden and emphasised. And when it boils down to it - yes I s'pose it is purely to look more pleasing to the eye :? Knowing you look more pleasing to the eye is a sexy feeling, a confidence thing too ........ oh I dunno, and I can see me PM box flashing so not pondering any more :?
PL - you always give me headache with yer posts!!!! Start off with definite thoughts/opinions, then when I think about em some more, they change into a scrambled mess :?
Quote by Missy
PL - you always give me headache with yer posts!!!! Start off with definite thoughts/opinions, then when I think about em some more, they change into a scrambled mess confused

That is one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me - thank you passionkiss
Isn't it great to think deeper than the surface thoughts - to consider why you think and feel certain ways - to really start to understand yourself?
Even if you realise you are now lost on a road you thought you once new - is it not an exciting journey?
The answer is simple, nice undies just makes you look smart, unresistable and successful!
Quote by splendid33
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:inlove:
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Quote by Kiss_Me
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:inlove:
redface
Isn't it just a wonderful filthy feeling just having something thin and lacey pulled to the side :twisted:
Quote by PoloLady
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:inlove:
redface
Isn't it just a wonderful filthy feeling just having something thin and lacey pulled to the side :twisted:
it depends if you are doing the pulling polo.... come over here and I will give you my honest opinion. wink
Quote by splendid33
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:inlove:
redface
Isn't it just a wonderful filthy feeling just having something thin and lacey pulled to the side :twisted:
it depends if you are doing the pulling polo.... come over here and I will give you my honest opinion. wink
Is there a fainting emoticon?
Phew... it's getting warm in here!
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Quote by Kiss_Me
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:inlove:
redface
Isn't it just a wonderful filthy feeling just having something thin and lacey pulled to the side :twisted:
it depends if you are doing the pulling polo.... come over here and I will give you my honest opinion. wink
Is there a fainting emoticon?
Phew... it's getting warm in here!
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Very warm indeed Kiss_Me!!... I'm the first to say... "Not yet!!!"... when the ol' knickers are getting tugged down my thighs! HUGE turn on left (almost) intact!!!
:twisted:
My fav's are my AS open crotch frilly things (though what sort of crotch two thin strips of lace are ment to make I don't know). But there is something about the moment when the two strips are pulled appart :twisted: knowing your pleasure purse is exposed and perfectly framed in lace - oooowwwwwwwwwwww it gives me a shiver down my back just thinking about it.
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Personally i'm not a sexy under wear wearer, i don't really think i have the body for sexy undies so i don't bother, but i think women like wearing them cause it makes them feel famanine and they know it turns men on wink

I have few nice sets which i love to wear for myself as i feel sexy & femini. I don't wear them for men, that is just an added bonus.
Problem is that skinny or average ladies have an advantage as you have hundreds of sexy bras,basques etc to choose from but larger ladies don't we are more limited & the larger you are the bigger the cost so guys Noooooooooo wripping them off rolleyes
Quote by Saffy
. . . the larger you are the bigger the cost so guys Noooooooooo wripping them off rolleyes

redface
That's how I got my first "HLB finger wag"
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Quote by splendid33
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<I definately wear underwear to turn men on and to ensure that I remain subservient to the male ego and overarching prowess.
or I can just put it on cos I like it and think that it is pretty and sexy... without thinking too hard about social conditioning and my upbringing.
I like it. the people I have sex with like it. I can't wear it everyday as I get thrush if I don't wear 100% cotton... so for day to day wear I have cotton thongs. I never have to wear big panties (don't have a time of the month) so for me it is either lacy sexy underwear or cotton thongs... and I have 3 large drawers full of underwear.
I like having sex still wearing my underwear and I love taking off a womans underwear.... esp with my mouth... or having sex with her still wearing it. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
ffs... off to the loo to change again- I should not log in when I am at work

Me too hun :sad:
Love
Fire xx