Quote by Calista
i wouldn't complain if you did !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
Who says I'm wearin any to throw? :twisted:
you are in your photo hun, any photos to prove otherwise?? ;)
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Quote by McGuinness
i wouldn't complain if you did !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
Who says I'm wearin any to throw? :twisted:
you are in your photo hun, any photos to prove otherwise?? ;)
TOUCHE!
Erm ... second one down in the www section will have to do :twisted:
Too ill to find a camera at the mo ...
Quote by Calista
i wouldn't complain if you did !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
Who says I'm wearin any to throw? :twisted:
you are in your photo hun, any photos to prove otherwise?? ;)
TOUCHE!
Erm ... second one down in the www section will have to do :twisted:
Too ill to find a camera at the mo ...
thank you ermmmm second one down ermmm does a lot for me thank you
Sex God
I completely understand what your saying Red. We have had various ads up over 2 years now, and have had only a handful of meets, mainly because we prefer quality not quantity, we have to have the 'click' happen between a couple and dont just do it for the sake of it! So although its frustrating with all the Stop/Start emails, we have happy enough because the meets we have had have been brilliant.
Would like to meet some of you guys thou, and we are coming to Satins party!
Would like to meet some of you guys thou, and we are coming to Satins party!
Being new to the scene I can't bring a lot of experience to the post, but what i can say is to start off nerves do get in the way of arranging meets but we have taken the first step and gone clubbing, so hopefully the rest will follow nicely. I think going to a munch would help as there is no pressure (and we're going to one next year), but saying that by the time we come to the munch we should be well on our way. The other problem as some of you so rightly say is sitters, when you only have one a fortnight (mother-in-law) its hard to arrange to go anyway with such a small window of opportunity and if something goes wrong its blown for another 2 weeks.
The final thing before i quit rambling......... is money, swinging is an expensive business especially to start off.
Anyway 'blue' ure one couple i'd especially like to meet, love the photos,
hows that for honesty and being upfront
kaz
The final thing before i quit rambling.........
is money, swinging is an expensive business especially to start off.Anyway 'blue' ure one couple i'd especially like to meet, love the photos,
hows that for honesty and being upfront
kaz
Sex God
Just going back to what Northwest-cpl said about Partners.... yes, I think those types of nights are a good idea, cos like the munches they give people the opportunity to get to know each other a bit better. If you meet another couple at a club and you don't hit it of it is a lot less hassle cos you can just make your excuses and move on! I think there is less pressure in a club situation, especially when people have gone to the trouble of getting babysitters and are trying to make it a good night. Long may the Partners night continue! We've only been to one but it was fun and we are intending to go to many more, so hopefully meet some more of you there!
I think what Judy says is also true. It is not just couple to couple meets, there are problems whoever you try to meet one way or another
And Kazswallows, look forward to meeting you some time soon :lol: :lol:
I think what Judy says is also true. It is not just couple to couple meets, there are problems whoever you try to meet one way or another
And Kazswallows, look forward to meeting you some time soon
:lol: :lol: Quote by JudyTV
Hi never ceases to amaze me how even the most enthusiastic responses to my ad fade into nothingness as the arrangements are being firmed up. I can now tell quite early on in the arrangements whether the person is going to go through with it all or not. It becomes something of a pattern and I spot it quickly now.
Judy, I agree of course but would go further in saying that even if you meet someone face to face, 9 out of 10 people will say "Yes, it would be great to meet for some fun..." but this is because they don't have the courage to be honest with you to your face. You ring/email them a couple of days later to make a definite arrangement, but then its "Well, I/we aren't so sure...". So whether it is an ad response or a face to face meeting, I try not to get my hopes up (well I try anyway), but so frequently I am disappointed.
Recently I have had chats over a few nights via MSN & the occasional phone call with two blokes, the first of whom wanted to bring his wife for me to "use" as I wished as long as I was gentle :P :P . However I had to cancel due to ill health, & although he said that the following week would be fine, I've had no response to emails & he has not been online. That was disappointing because it did seem like it would have actually happened. The second bloke wanted a long-term boyfriend for his wife, but I never spoke to his wife & I'm not that surprised that he also disappeared, no response to emails or online again.
On a slightly related subject, over the last 18 months or so we've used both ISPQ and ICUii to 'chat' with other couples ( however the 'thrill' of playing on cam in a 320x240 pixel screen wears thin very quickly by the way! lol). On 9 occasions we've felt we've got to know the other couple sufficiently to either meet up or invite them to our home. On most of the occasions it's been a bit of a disaster one way or another. When you actually get to meet them in the flesh we've found there's that "something" that you were never able to spot and you find yourself figuring how to extract yourselves from the situation.
Summary for us was that 'online' contact still has a long way to go although undoubtedly it will be the way of the future. It's primarily what made us take the decision to dump the above and become members of 'Liberation'. It seems like there's not yet a good substitute for actually chatting face to face to get to know people.
X
Summary for us was that 'online' contact still has a long way to go although undoubtedly it will be the way of the future. It's primarily what made us take the decision to dump the above and become members of 'Liberation'. It seems like there's not yet a good substitute for actually chatting face to face to get to know people.
X
Quote by Calista
Yep similar reasons here ... we like to get rid of the children completely rather than just babysitters and it's getting increasingly difficult to justify to parents why we suddenly need overnight babysitters so much.
You hit the nail on the head for us there Calista.... We only have my mother who can have the kids overnight, and trust me I have come up with more excuses than you can imagine.... The most recent was that we had been invited to a halloween party (Trying to get to the Notts munch) only to be asked "well why are kids not allowed??"..... Turns out she is doing something that weekend so cant have the kids anyway... :cry: :cry:
I wouldn't mind but we live 30 miles away from them and they dont get to see their grandkids as we spend so much time away at weekends in the summer with our other hobby.... We only ask about 3 times a year for them to have them, and then I feel like I have to get on bended knees everytime...
It's the most fustrating thing, having kids and wanting to swing...
Shireen
xxx
Orgasminator
Well if i ever get this house renevated i'll thow a party,............... next summer i reckon i could fit about 60 people in, and put a marquee up in the orchard, there would be room for caravaners too, hey the orchard is big enough for dogging aswell !!!!!!
Not sure what the overlooking neighbours would say but it would make me the talk of the village!!!!!!
If anybody wants to help me finish this money pit so we can have the party the help would be greatly appreciated. (joke) :D :D :D
Not sure what the overlooking neighbours would say but it would make me the talk of the village!!!!!!
If anybody wants to help me finish this money pit so we can have the party the help would be greatly appreciated. (joke) :D :D :D
Sex God
Hi Red and everyone else,
Got to say as a single guy, that perhaps the best purpose of this site is to use the Forums to get to know people, then to attend the functions like the Munches to meet those that you have talked with here. I think that there are too many single males posing as couples, when I still had a partner, we had the same problems, and not just this site, but many others. It is probably more fun in the Clubs anyway.
John
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Got to say as a single guy, that perhaps the best purpose of this site is to use the Forums to get to know people, then to attend the functions like the Munches to meet those that you have talked with here. I think that there are too many single males posing as couples, when I still had a partner, we had the same problems, and not just this site, but many others. It is probably more fun in the Clubs anyway.
John
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
well its worse than a needle in a haystack so much shit and time wasters and train spotters on the net who far more instrested in slateing some one with there negative views (yes you lot i have nt done with you lot yet lol) see my posting dead in the water to see what i have about too good replys but that should tell you about some of the people that are on here. but thats not everyone.
FFS!! are you still here???
:x :x I don't know why you bother - you don't have one good word to say about the site or the people that use it and just spend all your time bleating on about how crap it is here.
:roll: :roll: :roll:There there Sarge come here and let me kiss all that crap off you
now take a deep breath put on some knickers and remember that sometimes its just best to ignore bleaters as it only gives them further fuel for their fire. Right feeling better.???? No :shock: :shock: then go and read the men seeking women ads :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: 