Hi.
Could someone please tell us how to view who has winked us? A friend said that they had sent us a wink, but we cannot see it.
Thanks. J&J two_of_us_2009. xx
If you have winks enabled, it will come to your inbox as a message. If you have winks disabled, you won't receive it and an automatic response will be sent to sender asking them to message you instead.
Check in your 'Settings' on the 'wink' tab to see what you have enabled.
On the subject of winks. I do find a lot of people see them as a waste of time and rarely respond to them anyways..
I quite like them as a way of breaking the ice. If you want someone to flesh out their 'wink', is it too much trouble to ask them. You expect them to send you more than a one-liner, but maybe you should remember back to when you were a newbie and perhaps were a bit nervous about how your initial approach might be received. Someone would be much more grateful for a quick personal reply asking for further information, and it sets a better example, than a lazy auto-responder. Personally, I'm not flooded with winks so it could be that I have not become jaded towards the concept yet.
We don't mind winks but would prefer a message. Our winks settings says we received 29 winks and sent 1. Not in our books, may just turn them off and wait for mail (much better). nice profile funlovers. x