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We both love sex outdoors, the sun and the breeze on your ass (and of course the occasional bird shit on your back rolleyes ) and the thrill of being caught redface has always been a big turn on for us. Now as the winter nights are upon us and days are shorter and colder.
Does your sex drive suffer or are you more rampant to keep warm confused: :?: :?:
I don't know what it is actually, but since the clocks changed last week and this is probably a total coincidence, I've just gone off the boil. I really have not fancied sex at all this week.. last Sunday we had a day of it and nothing since.
I've heard the the change in the hours can totally mess up your system and wondered if this is something to do with it, I feel tired and totally down in the dumps.
Also wondering if the total stress of the build up to you know what has something to do with a dip in sex drives?
Can't really be the weather Lilac esp today, it's goooorgeous! lol I just lurve autumn wink
My willy doesn't know the difference between one season and the next......so the answer is no..... rolleyes
I'd heard it starts to droop in conjunction with the autumn leaves rolleyes
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I'd heard it starts to droop in conjunction with the autumn leaves rolleyes

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My willy doesn't know the difference between one season and the next......so the answer is no..... :roll:

So you don't put a woolly hat on it then??
Haha yeah ok guys.. but what I'm trying to say is it pyschological that because the clocks changed, it became darker, it became more wintery feeling so we tend to go into hibernation mode?
Well I have this week anyway, but in my case it's prob more what's going on in my life rather than the season.
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I'm not sure about this Mar because all of my children bar two were conceived in January blink
Mind you there is a definite difference in my daily mood when there's no sun :cry:
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I'm not sure about this Mar because all of my children bar two were conceived in January blink
Mind you there is a definite difference in my daily mood when there's no sun :cry:

Nah.. that would have been the New Year champas! drinkies passionkiss hump lol
I seriously think once the clocks go back we start thinkin about christmas approaching fast and consiously or subconsiously start to fret a little about everything being ready, pressies food bank balance etc any form of stress puts a damper on my sex drive i think its this rather than dark nights etc that that effect me.
Well i allways feel crap this time of year and to top it off i have had more upset now my mothers headstone was installed this week so an all round downer anyway but it will turn around.
Sorry to hear that, Goosey x
i get more horny at this time of year the cold weather is a good excuse to snuggle up and play oin a more romantic way i usually get the blues beginning october by nov its turned into excitement of xmas
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I seriously think once the clocks go back we start thinkin about christmas approaching fast and consiously or subconsiously start to fret a little about everything being ready, pressies food bank balance etc any form of stress puts a damper on my sex drive i think its this rather than dark nights etc that that effect me.

I couldn't agree more... on GMTV this morning, they've been saying how much the clock change DOES affect people's moods and with a little self help we can over come it.
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Well i allways feel crap this time of year and to top it off i have had more upset now my mothers headstone was installed this week so an all round downer anyway but it will turn around.

kiss I know that feeling also - not with my mother but my grandparents xx
Its so true, its something about needing light to activate a hormone (that makes you happy and alert) so its normal to feel more sleepy and a bit down. See SAD (seasonal affective disorder - apparently pets can get it too!)
But saying that nothings gonna stop my sex drive, light or dark!! I'll just turn on a few more lights!