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Warming the Bed
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are there many ladies who have or would like to F*** a guy in the ass with a strap on.
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know u speaking my kinda language lol
i love using stap ons on men, and double ended dildos, i have a m8 that goes to a club i go to and he loves anal and quite willing 2 let me use all kinda toys on him wink
have to say tho u don't find many willing men on this sunject sad
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Depends where you look! ;)
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Warming the Bed
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evil would love to have a go myself, got to be better than doing it yourself.
Sex God
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find it a bit of a pain in the ass ..no thanks
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It depends how much lube she uses! lol
Omg, I'm in an evil mood today. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
There is something about the role reversal that appeals to me. I simply love to play boy and it does give me a sexual kick even though I don't feel much friction when I'm doing things like this. Its deffinately a mental turn on and actually feels quite natural to have a cock. It gives you a hell of a lot more respect for the amount of effort a guy puts into thrusting too! :lol:
kiss
Gem. x
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are there many ladies who have or would like to F*** a guy in the ass with a strap on.

welcome to swinging heaven cough!!! i mean strap on heaven :twisted: lol
i love this site wink
Sexlightened
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Quote by maxboyce
are there many ladies who have or would like to F*** a guy in the ass with a strap on.

Plenty on this board, sure enough, and plenty of guys wanting to take it up the arse too. Have a look at the thread at:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/15626/20.html
for example. In particular see Spitfire Sal's posts, on pages 2 and 3. Sal did post some pics of a quite ginormous strapon she uses on her hubby, but sadly these seem to have disappeared. If you're reading this thread, Sal, how about putting those pix back online?
Mr Licks
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I tried a proper strap-on the other day, and to be honest, I prefer a double-ended dildo. It feels more like an extension of me than the strap-on did, I can feel what's going on better, but even though it works both ways, I felt more dominant regardless.
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Venusturboginaxxx
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i really want to try one, mr kk is up for it as long as a i get a small one
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A female has no real way of completely gauging / understanding your sensitivity when using a stap-on, whereas another guy is more likely to gauge it if he is in body to body contact.
Judy

This is why I prefer the double-ended. If I'm pushing too hard, it'll push back too hard. If the angle is wrong, I'll feel that too. It's not as good as feeling exactly what's going on inside, but it's mirrored inside me, and the nearest I'll get. There's something very profound about being 'protectively aware' of penetration, I could't imagine the same reward if I wasn't trying to be careful.
*sigh* I wish I had a cock. :twisted:
Venusxxx
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Where's Blue when you need her? lol
I personally would love to try a Strap-on with a guy but I'd be a bit worried about hurting him.....although saying that I HAVE tried a dildo on a guy's arse and that was great fun.... wink
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yes i have
and i prefer double ended dildos
i get pleasure and so does he
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Warming the Bed
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an ex of mine wanted to try it and i didnt fancy it at the time, might as well have tried i guess as i've never again been asked or before. opportunity missed maybe.
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Never thought of using a double ended dildo for that purpose before.
The things you learn on this site :shock: lol
*Goes off to buy said dildo and find a willing female*
Sexpert
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find it a bit of a pain in the ass ..no thanks

Confucious, He say "Man who sits on window gets pain in the arse"
Sexpert
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Quote by VenusnMars
*sigh* I wish I had a cock. :twisted:
Venusxxx

With what you DO have, surely you can get as many as you want!
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I think if I thought about it, I would definetly want to try - if only for the experience - but I would like a few drinks to relax first, and someone other than the Mrs ( I feel pussy whipped enough as it is! I won't need to think that she brow beat me with it in the future biggrin )
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Quote by JudyTV
I think if I thought about it, I would definetly want to try - if only for the experience - but I would like a few drinks to relax first, and someone other than the Mrs ( I feel pussy whipped enough as it is! I won't need to think that she brow beat me with it in the future biggrin )

We that do it only do it for the experience anyway honey wink , we don't charge in any way :P . I mean, What else is there except the experience. As for her brow beating you with it then if she does she is using it all wrong she shouldn't be hitting your head with the thing, wrong end of the body dear.
Seriously, if she did brow beat you with it in the future then the whole situation needs a re think and no one should ever feel pussy-whipped anyway, I assume you are just joking though.
Hope you manage to try it and if so, enjoy.
rotflmao :rotflmao: Thank you Judy, as ever wise words. I was joking about the brow beating - but some times she can be a little bit dominating outside the bedroom, and I think what was ( and is ) intended to be a humourous remark, is hi-jacked by a ( possibly irrational ) feeling that she can be over domineering very easily. But in all fairness, there are a lot of times when that feeling is not there. I don't know - could someone dig up old Sigmund Freud, and punt him round to my place, please? lol
Judy
Sexlightened
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id love to try taking it in the ass with a strap on dont think id like it to dry tho little gem lol but im in the nw if you wanna give it a go or anyone else near by can pm me
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Warming the Bed
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Hmmm..I reckon I could be persuaded into losing my cherry to a curious lady.. lol Any girls got a thin little starter pack strappy drop me a line...lol
Sexpert
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The bigger the better I say, any ladies wanting to use one on me are most welcome
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Venus- I have tried that double ender technique and found that I get far too carried away to be able to keep in control.
With practice the strapon becomes part of you and you instinctively know what is good, bad or indifferent (communication from the partner helps greatly though). You don't always have to use it for penetration, if it is realistic looking I do get off on having the other person on their knees taking it.
Its a different persona and attitude when doing this, very dominant and controlling.
The key thing about strapons is that they should fit tightly and NOT invole any elastic in the straps at all. There is one that ann summers sells called the knee trembler, stay away as the strap is made entirely of elastic. It gives less control, makes it harder to use and can get into awkward places! :shock:
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Venus- I have tried that double ender technique and found that I get far too carried away to be able to keep in control.

Slut! rotflmao
Venusxxx
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Venus- I have tried that double ender technique and found that I get far too carried away to be able to keep in control.

Slut! rotflmao
Venusxxx
And??? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
No complaints so far! You're only jealous! :P
duel Tart!
:rotflmao: Gem. xxx
Warming the Bed
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My bf and i tried it a while ago now n he loves it, i love to hear him moan,
I love using my strap-on on both men and woman,
so if there is any1 interested let us no plz ;-)
Sexlightened
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Doesn't float my boat - not sure why...
Of course, I reserve the right to change opinion if we ever try... wink
Warming the Bed
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Strapons are okay but the real thing is better wink
Master of Sex
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mmmmm strapons - never tried it yet - but it forms an integral part of my deepest fantasy (not gonna tell you that on here - if you need to know, you can always ask me in pm wink ) lol