A friend of mine from Denmark admitted to me last week that she had paid for a night of "entertainment" with a professional gentleman back in her home city (and it wasn't just dinner). I was a bit taken aback only inasmuch as I never thought there would be much of a market for guys in this area as any woman I know (including her) are confident enough to take the initiative and find a man for fun without the need for any payment.
Her view was that she didn't want any commitment at the time and also it was bit of a fantasy for her.
Have any ladies here ever harboured the same fantasy and acted on it?
Maybe the Scandinavians have a different attitude to us, but I'm thinking of a new career move to Copehagen (only joking).
Its up to the individual whether women want to pay. Why shouldn't we though some of you guys pay
Not sure he would like me telling but I know a guy local to me who has been a male escort for ladies for about 8 years now.. he is always busy and though makes good money its not always just for sex.. sometimes its just the company on a night out to a casino or something.. one lady so he tells me just likes him to accompany her on holiday just so others think she is attached..
Good money and great conditions if you ask me lol...
Mike xx
It's nothing new either: When my father was at Uni back in the 60's, one of his classmates was a male escort - he made so much money that he used to drive into University each day in a sports car.
I agree with Little gem about Denmark.
I seem to have been reading articles about male gigolos or escorts for years. And that film with Richard Gere was made about 1980.
Mike.
This has happened to me twice in my younger days. In my early twenties, I met an older woman who was 'generous' in that I never had to pay for anything when we went out dating and sexing. She did make it obvious that sex was expected but not unconditional. A few years later with a divorcee from a wealthy family. She supplied me with many home items, short holidays and a couple of cars. However her interests were long term and involved children.
The first woman knew about the gigolo business in the south of France and suggested I try my luck down there. Which I did for a season, but subsequently met a chic young Parisian girl and lived with/off her for a month in Paris.
Male prosititutes work troughout the world sucesfully with men and women, its nothing new in some countries. But can get a sudden profiling where laws are relaxed and its taken up by the local population. eg recently in Australia.
So there are less women who 'pay' because there are proportinately more men who pay. And whereas men are happy to do the business part all up front, women will often prefer to have an agent or a more subtle/indirect way of making a payment.