In the light of Stephen Gateley's death at such a young age, if you knew when u were gonna die, would you do things differently, for example, if the doctor gave you the bad news you had one year to live, what would you do with it.
Would you spend time with the family, tour the world, get loads of debt and stuff the consequences, do all the things you dreamed of doing?
I ( mr secksy )have a few places i,d like to visit, Las Vegas, Monte Carlo, Rome(a place i aint been to yet), watching the bears catching salmon in Canada, seeing a polar bear in its natural environment, tigers i just love them
you're going to die one day, so why not have that attitude your whole life??
Im already working on the debt option
lp
I have been there when one person found out the news that he didnt have long left to live. He'd spent 2 years fighting cancer and his greatest wish was to see my youngest born and hold him. He had 2 wonderful years with my son.
His wish was to spend whatever time he had left with my children, his grandchildren. It was an emotional time, every morning when he woke up and he saw my son toddling into his bedroom going "grandad" both their faces would like up. The saddest part was when he finally died and the morning after my son walked into the bedroom and said "no grandad gone". I think that was probably the saddest time of my life as my son was just too young to understand.
I guess we would all do different things, I guess I wouldnt change anything I do now, I take each day as it comes, who knows when it will be your last.
spend it with my kids ......
trav..
Make sure my will was in order so that everything went to people I want it to go to, and not to anyone I don't want it to go to. Then I would just carry on as normal.
i have no sodding idea, as the things i think i would be likely to do are more than likely nothing like what would happen, its a hard thing to consider without being in that situation, but am happy its not somethingi have to consider at this time
I think i'd like to spend some time on my own in a place over looking the sea for a while. I know it sounds corny but sort of communing with nature and coming to terms with who i am and what was going to occur shortly. Then I'd like see the last little while with my kids and most importantly the woman I love and worship and spend it showing them all how proud of them I am.
) have the mother of all parties surrounded by people who are dear to me and go to my grave with many happy memories of good times spent 
