Just talking to a friend and somehow got onto a quick subject about faking an orgasm. We were just joking about but he said if he was a woman he would just fake it. I said I never have I wouldn't let a man think he is that good. But jokes aside I would think by faking you are both missing out. He said put a thread up and ask! So would you ever fake an orgasm?
I haven't 'faked'... though have 'orgasmed' without noticably ejaculating... i guess if needs be that could be used as way of faking should one choose... though I haven't, honest. lp
Quote by __random_orbit__ I haven't 'faked'... though have 'orgasmed' without noticably ejaculating... i guess if needs be that could be used as way of faking should one choose... though I haven't, honest. lp
:shock: Is that the same as a woman having an orgasm without any sign of moistness? Can that happen, I really dont know It has never happened to me.
Yes I have and depending on the situation, would again. I'm talking about playing, I've never faked with Jay and would not feel the need to, it's easier to say I haven't got there than to lie. For meets, I think it's easier to fake than upset them, it would take too long for them to get to know my little quirky ways. I'm only talking rare here mind, nearly all meets have been fine in that department.
I have and I do. As I have said in a previous thread, sometimes I find it very hard to orgasm. That does not mean, however, that I am not thoroughly enjoying the sex I am having. But other people don't always see it like this and over-enthusiastic "you will come, just wait and see" ministrations sometimes lead to painful chafing and soreness. I prefer, in that instance, to save my delicate bits any further horror and come over all am-dram and Meg Ryan-esque. There are other times I would consider doing the same but for different reasons. No big deal really.
I haven't and I don't think I would, but it sometimes does take a bit of ego-stroking and careful explanation of how just because I don't come doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it - to avoid the determined 'ministrations' Nola mentions AND avoid hurting anyone's feelings (as I suppose I might feel a bit inadequate too if I failed to make a bloke come). Sometimes it would be easier to just fake it and keep em happy - but sod it, I'm stubbornly honest!!
I as a bloke used to fake it with an ex - she got quite wet and i could get away with saying I had then waiting for a while and finishing myself off with a decent head fantasy and a w*nk But then we were incompatible she being horrible and the sex being duty shag and me? Oh if i'm honest probably not dissimilar to her, Thank god we did seperate.
when you find ya self doing ya shopping list in ya head during a particularly dull and dreary shag where he could go on for ever and you wouldnt notice its time to FAKE it and get outta there
I think anyone who does fake an orgasm, is a " fake " themselves. Why put up with faking? Why not just be honest and tell the other person, that they are shite and do something about it? Never understood why people would lie there and pretend. Thats called shit sex, and nobody should have to put up with that, and if they do then they are the losers.
Quote by kentswingers777 I think anyone who does fake an orgasm, is a " fake " themselves. Why put up with faking? Why not just be honest and tell the other person, that they are shite and do something about it? Never understood why people would lie there and pretend. Thats called shit sex, and nobody should have to put up with that, and if they do then they are the losers.
Quote by DeeCee I think anyone who does fake an orgasm, is a " fake " themselves. Why put up with faking? Why not just be honest and tell the other person, that they are shite and do something about it? Never understood why people would lie there and pretend. Thats called shit sex, and nobody should have to put up with that, and if they do then they are the losers.
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I thought I would take a leaf out of your honesty book Deecee.
Quote by kentswingers777 I think anyone who does fake an orgasm, is a " fake " themselves. Why put up with faking? Why not just be honest and tell the other person, that they are shite and do something about it? Never understood why people would lie there and pretend. Thats called shit sex, and nobody should have to put up with that, and if they do then they are the losers.
Losers??? Have you thought maybe it could be a confidence issue, rather than being called a loser?
Quote by Theladyisaminx I think anyone who does fake an orgasm, is a " fake " themselves. Why put up with faking? Why not just be honest and tell the other person, that they are shite and do something about it? Never understood why people would lie there and pretend. Thats called shit sex, and nobody should have to put up with that, and if they do then they are the losers.
Losers??? Have you thought maybe it could be a confidence issue, rather than being called a loser? I agree. The last thing someone with low confidence or self-esteem needs is to be told they're shite. A little fake orgasm could go a long way to making them feel better about themselves. Not everything is black and white in this world. It would be easier but far less interesting if it were.
Ermmm....... To quote somebody who has replied on this thread " I have - lots. I was young and had never actually had good sex ". Or as somebody else has said " yup... many times. Needs must when the people are pap and all that ". Would one say that is a confidence issue? Minxy whilst it is very easy for you to say it could be a confidence issue, as you have already stated, it has not happened to you, so with respect how would somebody know if it has not happened to them. Or would that be a guess?
Quote by kentswingers777 Ermmm....... To quote somebody who has replied on this thread " I have - lots. I was young and had never actually had good sex ". Or as somebody else has said " yup... many times. Needs must when the people are pap and all that ". Would one say that is a confidence issue? Minxy whilst it is very easy for you to say it could be a confidence issue, as you have already stated, it has not happened to you, so with respect how would somebody know if it has not happened to them. Or would that be a guess?
Quote by Theladyisaminx Ermmm....... To quote somebody who has replied on this thread " I have - lots. I was young and had never actually had good sex ". Or as somebody else has said " yup... many times. Needs must when the people are pap and all that ". Would one say that is a confidence issue? Minxy whilst it is very easy for you to say it could be a confidence issue, as you have already stated, it has not happened to you, so with respect how would somebody know if it has not happened to them. Or would that be a guess?
No guess, lets just say ladies talk! :wink: Is that another form of verification?
Quote by kentswingers777 Mind you which one of these are " FAKING IT "
Exactly so how do you know you have never been duped? If you had met me, you would not need to ask that question. :wink: :wink: I might just fake it, if I did! Just to show it can be done :wink:
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