Quote by fluff_n_stuff
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I could use a laff!
You'd certainly get a laff out of mine :lol2:
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You'd certainly get a laff out of mine :lol2:
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would you have regular play friends?
You'd certainly get a laff out of mine :lol2:
I have a lovely guy I've been seeing on and off for a couple of years. We've become good friends and meet socially as well as for fun and he's a real sweetie 
The advantage with having a regular is you get to know how and when to push the right buttons :twisted:
There is an excitement meeting someone new though :rascal:
The advantage with having a regular is you get to know how and when to push the right buttons :twisted:
There is an excitement meeting someone new though :rascal:
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Quote by Mark_Julyhey bloke..an Kate...lol
BIoke! What have you got me involved in now :shock:
:lol2: As for the question, I see Nolas point about anonymity and not being able to re create that but personally I always prefer something more regular as it takes me a while to fully relax around someone and be able to enjoy myself
I love regular playmates as they know exactly what buttons to press and vice versa. It's like having secret access to an instruction manual kinda thing.. I also like to ask people what they like, what gets them hot etc in advance - especially with some bi blokes as there are some instant 'no no's' with some stuff. If something is regular, then you know already. My other half is exactly the opposite and gets a real kick from anonymous stuff but then he's just a sex Neanderthal animal 
I too think the emotional attachment thing is something to be wary of but it's also hard to try and explain the 'connection' thing sometimes I HAVE to feel comfortable with someone before I'll play and if this means spending time in their company over a drink or dinner etc then that's fine.. but it doesn't mean I want to marry them and have their babies.
Again, I've learned from experience that some bi guys find this hard work - I presume it's a conscience thing - i.e. if I do it quickly and get away quickly without speaking then it makes it almost OK.
I once met a guy who warned me that after he'd cum, he'd try and punch me - it was a guilt thing apparently. I politely advised him that that was fine as long as he didn't mind being decked back.. call me fickle but we still played as he was hot. I actually made him make me a cuppa afterwards too just for devilment to see how he coped with the social side of sex :rascal:
I too think the emotional attachment thing is something to be wary of but it's also hard to try and explain the 'connection' thing sometimes
I HAVE to feel comfortable with someone before I'll play and if this means spending time in their company over a drink or dinner etc then that's fine.. but it doesn't mean I want to marry them and have their babies.Again, I've learned from experience that some bi guys find this hard work - I presume it's a conscience thing - i.e. if I do it quickly and get away quickly without speaking then it makes it almost OK.
I once met a guy who warned me that after he'd cum, he'd try and punch me - it was a guilt thing apparently. I politely advised him that that was fine as long as he didn't mind being decked back.. call me fickle but we still played as he was hot. I actually made him make me a cuppa afterwards too just for devilment to see how he coped with the social side of sex :rascal:
Quote by Anoush
... it just turns out that its hard to achieve anything in the sea of horny single men.
It's not - you just need to position yourself correctly so you appeal (and I don't mean to me).. and you're doing a stonking job so far in my opinion :thumbup:
Some people come on here and go about it all the wrong way as they either appear:
1. needy
2. arrogant
3. loopy
4. all of the above
I think it's more about how you do stuff here than what you do. I hope that when I post some of the naughty smut I do that now people 'know' me a little more they realise that my tongue is uually firmly in my cheek as I type. I say things sometimes that I re-read and think OMG :shock: in the cold light of day - i.e. I really wouldn't bounce you off the bedroom rooms (unless you asked of course or kinda hinted) and I'm not that into big knobs (much!) All of us have 'roles' we play here - the same as any social grouping and hopefully they make the place fun, interesting and just a little bit sexy/naughty.
Keep going - if you imagine the worst, it will likely happen and become some self-fulfilling prophecy. If you become a needy single male in a 'sea' of them you'll drown pretty quickly.. don't, and you'll stay afloat :P
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ohh Brucie and BIokes first tif! Can I watch the making up? :lol2: 
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Quote by BIoke
... it just turns out that its hard to achieve anything in the sea of horny single men.
It's not - you just need to position yourself correctly so you appeal (and I don't mean to me).. and you're doing a stonking job so far in my opinion :thumbup:
Some people come on here and go about it all the wrong way as they either appear:
1. needy
2. arrogant
3. loopy
4. all of the above
I think it's more about how you do stuff here than what you do. I hope that when I post some of the naughty smut I do that now people 'know' me a little more they realise that my tongue is uually firmly in my cheek as I type. I say things sometimes that I re-read and think OMG :shock: in the cold light of day - i.e. I really wouldn't bounce you off the bedroom rooms (unless you asked of course or kinda hinted) and I'm not that into big knobs (much!) All of us have 'roles' we play here - the same as any social grouping and hopefully they make the place fun, interesting and just a little bit sexy/naughty.
Keep going - if you imagine the worst, it will likely happen and become some self-fulfilling prophecy. If you become a needy single male in a 'sea' of them you'll drown pretty quickly.. don't, and you'll stay afloat :P
:thumbup: Just adding my agreement.
Quote by BIoke
... it just turns out that its hard to achieve anything in the sea of horny single men.
It's not - you just need to position yourself correctly so you appeal (and I don't mean to me).. and you're doing a stonking job so far in my opinion :thumbup:
Some people come on here and go about it all the wrong way as they either appear:
1. needy
2. arrogant
3. loopy
4. all of the above
I think it's more about how you do stuff here than what you do. I hope that when I post some of the naughty smut I do that now people 'know' me a little more they realise that my tongue is uually firmly in my cheek as I type. I say things sometimes that I re-read and think OMG :shock: in the cold light of day - i.e. I really wouldn't bounce you off the bedroom rooms (unless you asked of course or kinda hinted) and I'm not that into big knobs (much!) All of us have 'roles' we play here - the same as any social grouping and hopefully they make the place fun, interesting and just a little bit sexy/naughty.
Keep going - if you imagine the worst, it will likely happen and become some self-fulfilling prophecy. If you become a needy single male in a 'sea' of them you'll drown pretty quickly.. don't, and you'll stay afloat :P
Ah f*&ck a ducky...
Still out of the four it'd be my preference.
I'd love to have regular playmate (s), as a single parent not looking for a new girlfriend wife or mother for my kids it would be great to have a friend (friends) I could visit now and again for mutual no strings pleasure.
Mind you I won't hold my breath waiting, I had more success swinging when I was still with my ex, who both knew and consented.
Nobody wants old Brighton Geezer now! :0(
Mind you I won't hold my breath waiting, I had more success swinging when I was still with my ex, who both knew and consented.
Nobody wants old Brighton Geezer now! :0(
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Quote by BrightonGeezer
Nobody wants old Brighton Geezer now! :0(
OI......Sod off !!!!!
Sympathy shags are my arena :lol2:
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Quote by BrightonGeezer
Nobody wants old Brighton Geezer now! :0(
OI......Sod off !!!!!
Sympathy shags are my arena :lol2:
Never had a sympathy shag, any chance of twos up next time ?
Depends if your bi or not :lol2:
Quote by Steve
Nobody wants old Brighton Geezer now! :0(
OI......Sod off !!!!!
Sympathy shags are my arena :lol2:
Never had a sympathy shag, any chance of twos up next time ?
Depends if your bi or not :lol2:
I'm not on form today, otherwise I'd have seen that one coming! :0)
bless yer little cottons!!
Quote by Theladyisaminx
We have been playing for about 2 years now, and in that time have met a couple of guys that I would call friends with benifits, in that one of the guys we have met 6 times another 4 times.
As a married couple, when I have spoken to other couples and mentioned this, they have said they wouldn't like their wives to meet the same guy too many times.
We feel to keep to the same person it has given us more of an oportunity to broaden our mind to try different things, as trust and respect has been established, as after all we came here to try new expierances not just to have a shag as such.
I just wondered how others feel, as I am feeling we are rare in that hubby doesn't feel threatened by this approach, I don't get the same feeling by many other men is simular relationships, after all trust in doing this within a relationship is paramount.
I have a few from here ( you know who you are )
Its called trust.
trav..
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When/if/ i get involved in the whole swinging scene I would rather regular meets with a select few....being a homely chap the thought of meeting up with strangers is fairly challenging .....
But who knows once the horse has bolted...
But who knows once the horse has bolted...
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im only here for sex,none of that emotional stuff
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Quote by secksy_cpl
im only here for sex,none of that emotional stuff
Ah to be so liberated.... :swingingchair:
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Quote by BIoke
im only here for sex,none of that emotional stuff
Ah to be so liberated.... :swingingchair:
He's not - he's just mixed up. Feck knows what mrs secky is going with him - she's lovely
she looks after me :grin
