I was in the chat rooms last night chatting to others about who and why we would have sex with someone.
I said I wouldn't have sex with a friend and started to think men just think differently to woman, someone said they didnt have to fancy someone to have sex with them but, has had sex with a friend because they care about the friend, and it was something she wanted, I asked how she felt knowing you didn't fancy her. The response was she doesn't know.
I would know if someone didn't fancy me I am sure, it would be in the way they felt me, or in their eyes.
I don't think I would enjoy the sex as much and be so relaxed if I felt there was no physical attraction towards me.
Would you have sex with a friend even though there was no phyiscal attraction?
Never. It would be no compliment to either. I doubt I could get interested in the sex itself if I though they weren't interested. And if I wasn't interested - no way.
would Minstrels be involved?
(Galaxy Minstrels, not street balladeers, or travelling madrigal merchants)
Minstrels... the new Malteser... you heard it here first.
anything for a friend with a minstrel or two. (even if theyre old or ugly)
lp
If I had a friend that didn't fancy me, ( lol perrish the thought), would I have sex with her? Obviously this would mean for some reason she was prepared to let me. Hmm, let me think about this one for a minute..:.
...... YES! Without a second to think about it, just in case she changed her mind!!
Mind you I haven't got any friends, only enemies, and I'd shag them too if they met my very high standards. White, female, over 25, yup I'm choosy.
Incase I wasn't clear in my opening post I will add this.
I have who I see as a friend, who said he would shag me, he could be joking, but I have never felt he fancies me, so I said I couldn't shag a friend that I never felt fancied me.
He asked why not as he said you don't have to fancy someone you shag, you could just like them as a person.
It is enough to just like someone as a person to shag them?
I believe without the physical chemisty it wouldn't work
Yes, I could do both.
I see 'fancying' as a purely physical attraction in my personal lexicon.
If someone didn't fancy me but they wanted to have sex with me and they were practically good at sex then yeah I would have sex with them. With the lights off or their eyes closed I can be anyone they want.
And likewise with my eyes closed and a good imagination I can fuck someone I don't 'fancy'.
I see sex as a recreational activity and in much the same vein as a squash league- to enjoy every aspect of 'winning' climbing the squash ladder may mean playing opponents I may not care for in any other situation.
I aint getting romantically involved with people off here so it matters very little to me the 'depth' of the 'relationship'. I am here for a fuck (or a hundred)
I have to admit I have had sex with a really good friend and we both totally regret it. We're still friends, but the friendship but its not the same.
Now I wouldnt have sex with anyone unless we both fancy each other.