I had my first ever visit to a swingers club on Saturday and WOW, I'm still on a major buzz! It's most probably old hat to most people here but I just had to let off steam somewhere! It's not that anything even happened, but the environment was so fantastic and sexy and everyone was so respectful and friendly that it dispelled any fears I had beforehand. So, to anyone who was at AbFab last Saturday (and especially the organisers) thanks for making it so perfect for us as first timers (me and my bestest ever female friend - I was drafted in at the last moment as a substitute for someone who let her down!)
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WOW! And thanks!
Quote by delsutton
I had my first ever visit to a swingers club on Saturday and WOW, I'm still on a major buzz! It's most probably old hat to most people here but I just had to let off steam somewhere! It's not that anything even happened, but the environment was so fantastic and sexy and everyone was so respectful and friendly that it dispelled any fears I had beforehand. So, to anyone who was at AbFab last Saturday (and especially the organisers) thanks for making it so perfect for us as first timers (me and my bestest ever female friend - I was drafted in at the last moment as a substitute for someone who let her down!)
Glad you enjoyed- and I hope your friend did too! :thumbup:
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i work in a club n know how hard & uneasy it can b for 1st timers !! glad u liked it, i hated my 1st visit haha j
Well, I guess we went with no expectations (or maybe just some negative ones) and we came out feeling radiant and positive. Hopefully we won't hate our 2nd visits!
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Im too scared to go to one
Louise xx
Well, my advice would be to be brave and challenge your fears. Both my friend and I were absolutely petrified beforehand and had to down a couple of VERY large G&Ts before we went, and we were still shaking after those! However, once we arrived we were made to feel really at home and we chilled really quickly once we were left to our own devices. Everyone we met was just so pleasant and no-one invaded our space at all.
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I cant get my head around the walking around naked bit. Theyre not all like that are they :shock:
No, they aren't.
NOOOO lol u can wear a towel or sexy undies,see through dress where i work, but im well into my funny but norty boxers n t shirts( i cut the t shirts so more revealing ] at the mo for the bar, people just cant wear street clothes, i think thats a better idea than dressed clubs because it gets u in the mood n no fumbling to get ur kit off 
:wink: xj
:wink: xj Quote by louise_and_joe
louise - try a quiete night, get used to the place n setout 1st xj
I cant get my head around the walking around naked bit. Theyre not all like that are they :shock:
I really need to get out more
Louise xx
Well, I can only comment on AbFab. When we were there, the only places people were walking around naked were in the Sauna and Pool areas. Everywhere else people had clothes (however skimpy) on. We did wander around to sample the different atmospheres, but felt the most relaxing area was the "safe" room around the drinks table zone. I'd imagine most reputable clubs would have such an area, but would be interested to hear if this is otherwise.
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NOOOO lol u can wear a towel or sexy undies,see through dress where i work, but im well into my funny but norty boxers n t shirts( i cut the t shirts so more revealing ] at the mo for the bar, people just cant wear street clothes, i think thats a better idea than dressed clubs because it gets u in the mood n no fumbling to get ur kit off
I think id prefer one that you can wear your clothes in, im not really one for wearing skimpy clothes.
That way I get the choice whether someone gets to see whats underneath or not.
Louise xx
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NOOOO lol u can wear a towel or sexy undies,see through dress where i work, but im well into my funny but norty boxers n t shirts( i cut the t shirts so more revealing ] at the mo for the bar, people just cant wear street clothes, i think thats a better idea than dressed clubs because it gets u in the mood n no fumbling to get ur kit off
I think id prefer one that you can wear your clothes in, im not really one for wearing skimpy clothes.
That way I get the choice whether someone gets to see whats underneath or not.
Louise xx
I refer the honorable lady to my previous (overlooked :giggle: post!
This place is run like a house party, with lots of playrooms. Unless you're playing (which can be public/privately) theres no need to get your kit off at all.
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NOOOO lol u can wear a towel or sexy undies,see through dress where i work, but im well into my funny but norty boxers n t shirts( i cut the t shirts so more revealing ] at the mo for the bar, people just cant wear street clothes, i think thats a better idea than dressed clubs because it gets u in the mood n no fumbling to get ur kit off
I think id prefer one that you can wear your clothes in, im not really one for wearing skimpy clothes.
That way I get the choice whether someone gets to see whats underneath or not.
Louise xx
I refer the honorable lady to my previous (overlooked :giggle: post!
This place is run like a house party, with lots of playrooms. Unless you're playing (which can be public/privately) theres no need to get your kit off at all.
Ohh im sorry
i'll owe you a big 
for that.The thing is I dont drive so someone will have to take me
Louise xx
