On a couple of occasions when I've written to a couple and had no reply I have written again, had a reply and met with them. I'm a firm believer in "if you don't ask you don't get" and I also understand that we all change our minds from time to time.
If someone was to message you twice would you think that they were pestering you and blank them or would you look again?
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it's easy to overlook one ad reply among many ((( hundreds even! ))) and forget to reply? a second respectful reply, a couple of weeks or so at least later, is probably o.k. i reckon? there's always a chance they'll be more receptive to a second PM, if it's done in the right way, and shows willing?
if you don't get a reply from the second, a third is probably a no-no, and pushing the boundaries of won't take no for an answer? ;)
all depends how it's done i reckon?
neil x x x ;)
if you don't get a reply from the second, a third is probably a no-no, and pushing the boundaries of won't take no for an answer? ;)
all depends how it's done i reckon?
neil x x x ;)
:giggle:for me it depends on space between the messages and if they say exactly the same thing i tend to think hmmmm copy and paste one liner long shot lol dek sends all the messages tho and they tend to be one liners sorry anyone who has received one 
not my thing sending loads of messages in hope of atleast one reply i prefer to get to know people by the banter of the forums and chat but do enjoy a well thought out message sent with love etc etc (few and far between :shock: )
not my thing sending loads of messages in hope of atleast one reply i prefer to get to know people by the banter of the forums and chat but do enjoy a well thought out message sent with love etc etc (few and far between :shock: ) Normally I would leave it after one message but last year I was in touch with a couple and correspondence stopped for no particular reason. I left it a few months and asked why when they put an add on the site again and I replied to it. We met, had a few drinks and from that time I was made aware that couples get tens and hundreds of replies, one or two genuine and one or two hundred that aren't. I totally understand that, from a couples point of view, when you get inundated with mail it must be a chore to read them all. So from this experience I think that it's worth trying again but would never send a third.
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Quote by louise_and_joe
If someone was to message you twice would you think that they were pestering you and blank them or would you look again?
It all depends on how they come across in their pm's. Rude and arrogant no, polite and chatty then yes I would look again.
Louise xx
*toddles off to his pm box*
