WTF is it with IM?

23 Jul 2008

:x :x :x :x
Sorry, no steam room.
Is it just me? You meet someone on a site somewhere, you start to chat via it's internal mail system for a while then they say the fatal phrase......
why don't you add me to ... <add IM system of your choice here>
so you do, you are thinking 'hmmm well they've asked me to add them so they must be interested in chatting some more' dunno

Next thing you know,...
a) they hardly ever come on line
b) when they do come online, they go instantly invisible
c) when you see them and say hi, they ignore you
If you don't want to chat to someone WTF would you ask them to add you in the first place :taz:
The rudest thing of all i find is someone adds you then totally blanks you. :x :x :x :x FFS get some balls and just say 'oi i don't wanna chat to you'
grrrrrrrrrrrr
sorry for the rant but i have a low tolerance threshold for rudeness.
Anyone else had this or is it just my aftershave? :dunno:

23 Jul 2008

I am sorry.... I am allergic to aftershave.. and just didn't have the heart to tell ya.

23 Jul 2008

Quote by splendid_
I am sorry.... I am allergic to aftershave.. and just didn't have the heart to tell ya.

:thrilled:

23 Jul 2008

I'm convinced there is a population of IM trainspotters out there. They collect addresses just so they can look and say - see how many friends I have.
These same people go on F***b**k and get themselves added as friends of 'celebrities'.
Sad but predictable.

23 Jul 2008

It happens, but I try to see both sides. The amount of times I've had a "ping" I just couldn't answer doesn't bear thinking about.
Also, have you thought its not you they're hiding from? Remember my ill fated "sub domme" incident? I've been hiding from him for months redface

as he just won't take the hint. I can't really block him as he's a friend of friends- and we have "history"....I'd like him to stay a friend, but every time he sees me online, the conversation turns to spanking!
So, I hide rolleyes

23 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
It happens, but I try to see both sides. The amount of times I've had a "ping" I just couldn't answer doesn't bear thinking about.
Also, have you thought its not you they're hiding from? Remember my ill fated "sub domme" incident? I've been hiding from him for months as he just won't take the hint. I can't really block him as he's a friend of friends- and we have "history"....I'd like him to stay a friend, but every time he sees me online, the conversation turns to spanking!
So, I hide

Try this
" Hi, listen, I don't want to loose you as a mate, but, Every time we chat you bring the conversation round to your hobby and i'm really not interested to be honest. If you want to chat in the future would you mind staying off that particular subject?"
hey, might work? dunno

23 Jul 2008

Coward :wave:

23 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
Coward :wave:

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
just cut n paste what i wrote, click send and it'll all be over, a bit like tying a bad tooth to the door handle :lol2:
:shock: hijacked me own bloody thread now rolleyes

winchy

back to the point.

23 Jul 2008

It's very rare that I sign in to MSN now as there are so few people showing. Thought they were all avoiding me lol

23 Jul 2008

I know what you mean.... I always sign in as invisible now... but only because whenever I go online I get jumped on by someone who has been stalking me... and to be honest I spend too much time on here to go on MSN I find it distracts me from the most important site! SH of course....

23 Jul 2008

Pete_SW said

Winchy

You weren't listening, were you? rolleyes

Dear Pete,
Hi, listen, I don't want to loose you as a mate, but, Every time we chat you bring the conversation round to your hobby and i'm really not interested to be honest. If you want to chat in the future would you mind staying off that particular subject?
Regards,
Winchy.

23 Jul 2008

I rarely use IM i sit offline if someone is about i wanna chat to then il chat i dont need to be online to do so. Its also why i hardly ever (once in a blue moon) give mine to anyone or add anyone which it does say in my profile doesnt stop all them pms with contact details on though

23 Jul 2008

Quote by foxylady2209
I'm convinced there is a population of IM trainspotters out there. They collect addresses just so they can look and say - see how many friends I have.
These same people go on F***b**k and get themselves added as friends of 'celebrities'.
Sad but predictable.

What about those of us who have have proper friends on FB who are actually celebrities? redface

23 Jul 2008

Quote by Peanut
I'm convinced there is a population of IM trainspotters out there. They collect addresses just so they can look and say - see how many friends I have.
These same people go on F***b**k and get themselves added as friends of 'celebrities'.
Sad but predictable.

What about those of us who have have proper friends on FB who are actually celebrities? redface

Really Peanut rolleyes

Flattered as I am, minor celebrity would have been more appropriate :roll:

23 Jul 2008

Quote by flower411
It's very rare that I sign in to MSN now as there are so few people showing. Thought they were all avoiding me

OOOOO send me ya addy , then I can avoid ya too !!! :lol:
Git!

:smackbottom:

23 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
I'm convinced there is a population of IM trainspotters out there. They collect addresses just so they can look and say - see how many friends I have.
These same people go on F***b**k and get themselves added as friends of 'celebrities'.
Sad but predictable.

What about those of us who have have proper friends on FB who are actually celebrities? redface

Really Peanut rolleyes

Flattered as I am, minor celebrity would have been more appropriate :roll:
Well I do have 6 of them including you... though of course they all pale into insignificance against Truly Scrumptious. surprised

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23 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
Pete_SW said
Winchy

You weren't listening, were you? rolleyes

Dear Pete,
Hi, listen, I don't want to loose you as a mate, but, Every time we chat you bring the conversation round to your hobby and i'm really not interested to be honest. If you want to chat in the future would you mind staying off that particular subject?
Regards,
Winchy.
Not F***able innocent

23 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
but every time he sees me online, the conversation turns to spanking!
So, I hide

What about the next stage in the spanking i.e punching then kicking the shit oot of him if he doesn't leave you alone wink

:wink:
Hey!! It might work lol

Sometimes the subtle ways do you know :lol: :lol:

24 Jul 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
It's very rare that I sign in to MSN now as there are so few people showing. Thought they were all avoiding me

We're scared of you ! :scared:
Joking aside, sometimes it's easier to sign in offline if you've only 2 mins to spare to read emails, I always feel awful when someone says hi and I've no time to talk to them sad

24 Jul 2008

Quote by jaymar
It's very rare that I sign in to MSN now as there are so few people showing. Thought they were all avoiding me

We're scared of you ! :scared:

Ohhhh :cry:

24 Jul 2008

Quote by woohoo
but every time he sees me online, the conversation turns to spanking!
So, I hide

What about the next stage in the spanking i.e punching then kicking the shit oot of him if he doesn't leave you alone wink

:wink:
Hey!! It might work lol

Sometimes the subtle ways do you know :lol: :lol:
My limit for being able to kick someone in the head is 6'2" He's 6'4 :cry:
:lol:
I've been trying a different line of attack though- my best mate is quite sub- and desperate for a shag! They have loads in common & already know eachother from crewing together anyway :wink:
Oh, and Pete.......
Not capable......
rotflmao