Xmas wishes

21 Dec 2007

Just want to say Merry Christmas and a happy new year to one and all on here....Especially those who have lost someone this year as its Christmas when you notice people missing the most......My thoughts will be with my gf as she lost someone very special this year and it will be very difficult for her.......will be there for her when ever she needs......best wishes to you all xxxx gary

21 Dec 2007

Thats lovely Gary kiss

I lost someone I was very very close to 6 months ago and I'm not finding it very easy at the moment so my thoughts go out to anyone that is mising a loved one :kiss:
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year drinkies

21 Dec 2007

That's a really sweet caring post Gary-Danne... and to you also. drinkies

21 Dec 2007

Last year I lost my gran who i was really close to....she was a great laugh and always guessed what the pressies were b4 they were opened smile

....my memories of her are not from last christmas when she was dying but of the 30 odd years b4 that when she was the life and soul of any family gathering....will drink to her on christmas day xx Gary

21 Dec 2007

Quote by gary-danne
Last year I lost my gran who i was really close to....she was a great laugh and always guessed what the pressies were b4 they were opened ....my memories of her are not from last christmas when she was dying but of the 30 odd years b4 that when she was the life and soul of any family gathering....will drink to her on christmas day xx Gary

I can relate to this, mine too has gone and Christmas just isn't the same without her, reckon I'll have a 'bloody mary' to toast her (even tho I hate the vile drink!) wink

21 Dec 2007

thank you very much for this gary
its certainly hard to celebrate christmas as i used to as someone special is missing now and i know you also miss your gran lots too
we will have a drink for them both on christmas day .... and i expect il shed a few tears too but il have a hug from you xx

25 Dec 2007

well i made it thru the day, mostly thanx to gary biggrin

hope everyone else has too !

25 Dec 2007

I made it to thanks to you danne.....was a very differant christmas for both of us.....love you and always will xxxx smile

Merry xmas to everyone on here xxx

25 Dec 2007

I watched a video today of 1994 christmas when my 3 year old daughter at the time was in hospital having a brain tumour removed the day before christmas eve. The whole family was there at the hospital on christmas day and we celebrated in hospital christmas and her life being saved. 3 weeks later my nan died of cancer and she is also on this video. Watching this video today as a family made me feel very emotional as I sat with both my daughter and my grandad. We laughed at the dogdy haircuts and the bad jokes and felt the loss still of my nan who was precious to us all.
We sometimes forget the importance of recording our loved ones. I know now I dont as much but this made me realise that I still need to for me and for them.
To everyone who has lost someone this year or christmas - no in fact just lost someone - no one can take memories away from you. They are unique and precious and with you a lifetime.
Take care

25 Dec 2007

i made it your not alone.......... its the hardest day and il be honest i cant stop my face leaking.. but i got here !! i did it.. all on my own .i did it!
next year will be easier.. although im not sure i want it to get easier ... that means im getting used to be alone.. but in a way its for the best...

26 Dec 2007

Quote by FurbyHug
il be honest i cant stop my face leaking..

I like that term, it suited me yesterday because my face leaked too. Its been leaking since Christmas Eve when I visited the crem sad

It is really hard dealing with the happiness of the kids but the pain of missing a loved one. Massive hugs to anyone missing someone kiss