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I would, except I have a mortifyingly crap memory for people.
I could have a slanging match with someone in here but when I come across them in chat I would probably only remember that I knew their name. I would then start a perfectly normal chat convcersation with them. Back in here I would have forgotten the slanging match. As such - there is no point me having a list cos I would never remember who was on it - or why.
I'm aware I must send out very confusing signals to my fellow Sh'ers. But I put it down to being to lazy to hold a grudge. (It's not actual laziness - according to the New Scientist it's associated with an enhanced reading/research capability, which I definitely do have.)
I dont have a list, we cant tell until we meet people.
Quote by flower411
So ....do you have a "yes" list for people on SH ?

I have a 'to do' list. lol
It's only got half a dozen ladies on it, most of them know, although some are remaining a little too elusive. banghead
I have a 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you' list but most of the people on it dont know, and this is because they are either looking for different things than I am, they are mates and would feel uncomfortable approaching them, or they are what I consider to be 'out of my league' However, I also have another list which is my 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you-just-a-matter-of-time' list and I do intend starting work on that at some point :twisted:
However, I do find them all sexually attractive wink
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I have a 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you' list but most of the people on it dont know, and this is because they are either looking for different things than I am, they are mates and would feel uncomfortable approaching them, or they are what I consider to be 'out of my league' However, I also have another list which is my 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you-just-a-matter-of-time' list and I do intend starting work on that at some point :twisted:
However, I do find them all sexually attractive wink

It's OK - you can tell me!
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I dont have a list, we cant tell until we meet people.

OK but do you ever say yes to people that you don`t find attractive ....either physically or personality wise ?
Answering the original post again I suppose I have a very small yes list for forumites, ones we have know for a while and whos profiles pictures we like. It is important to us we do have to be attracted.
In response to the quote above. I have once said yes to someone who I did not find that attractive. It was in a club things got kind of swept along an assumption was made and I felt like I had got past the comfortable place to say no. I would never do this again, luckily it was only soft play so I survived kind of ok lol
We have a small to do list. Some we have met, some we havent and yet there is just something that makes you think "hell yeah, damn right I would!!"
When we first started doing this one of us would occasionally take one for the team but we have moved on from there and wont play with a couple unless we both feel something.
Physical attraction is very important to us (shallow as we are) but occationally we meet people who we initially we are not attracted to, but as you get to know them they become more and more attractive through their personality and being all around nice kinda people. This is rare though .... like I said, we're pretty shallow and physical attraction is the most important thing. It works both ways though, if there's someone who we initially are physically attracted to but they turn out to be up their own arse or total arseholes then we wont play lol
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I have a 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you' list but most of the people on it dont know, and this is because they are either looking for different things than I am, they are mates and would feel uncomfortable approaching them, or they are what I consider to be 'out of my league' However, I also have another list which is my 'oh-my-god-want-to-do-you-just-a-matter-of-time' list and I do intend starting work on that at some point :twisted:
However, I do find them all sexually attractive wink

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I've got through a fair number of mine though.
And possibly a fair few on bIoke's too.... :rascal: