Boundaries, some are fixed, but sex is something to test. Test yes but no further than those around you, at the time or at home agree to. yes you only live once. Yes, I like to please my partners. I can not say I will try anything once, but every new thing starts something more. I do think its important to be open to new things,or more important to stand up for what you think is right for you.
The only way to find out if you like something new is to try it with someone you trust. If you don't like it, don't do it again. But if you do.............................waheyyyy :twisted:
Interesting topic. I asked a 'straight' bloke whilst out at the social up here last weekend how he got into playing with cock. He said he'd tried just about everything else and got to the edge of his 'sexual' boundary as it were and wanted something new to excite him. It made sense. I think I've kinda done the same thing too from the opposite end of the field! x
i'm one of these people that pushes her boundaries... sometimes this back fires on me and i think to myself 'why oh why did you do that !!!' and other times i think ' well f00k me didnt know how much fun that would be' i think i get a very big buzz out of pushing myself
Quote by Dave__Notts Interesting topic. I think I've kinda done the same thing too from the opposite end of the field! x
Its baseball isn't it huh huh huh I am right arn't I huh huh huh OK I'll get me coat Dave_Nott Yes Dave, get your coat and come here and play 'baseball' with me - bet I win ;) x
Quote by fluff_n_stuff The only way to find out if you like something new is to try it with someone you trust. If you don't like it, don't do it again. But if you do.............................waheyyyy :twisted:
Quote by corrie I wont do pot holing - scares me to death! In my mind I can do anything - in reality I freeze which is a real issue in exploring my boundaries ......
I did it for precisely that reason - it was fantastic, and I'd still be doing it if my knees weren't so badly f***ed.... My boundaries are quite simple - do I like it? Do I want to do it? Oh, and are they consenting?
I was thinking about this earlier. I certainly have fewer boundaries than I used to, but then I also have certain boundaries that are more concrete than they were.
I certainly have very few bounderies, but really enjoy helping other push there's, and feel yes they should be pushed and tested all the time, but being very carefull not to take thing's that little bit to far and making the experience uncomfortable.
Quote by Kaznkev Prompted by bens rimming thread,and a discussion in chat last night about anal sex,i have been wondering about boundaries. Do folk feel there boundaries are fixed,or are they more of a negotiable limit? Do they feel its important to push boundaries,the u only live once arguement? Is it right to do something we personally feel is outside our boundaries to please our partner?Is that going to far,or part of the normal give and take of a relationship? i fall into the try anything once camp mainly,but do have things i wouldnt choose to do,these tho are generally about personal ickines with them,so would consent if it really really really needed to be done. Do you think its important to be open to new things,or more important to stand up for what you think is right for you?
I did have fixed boundaries, but I would say they are more fluid these days. Things I would not have dreamed of doing some time back, I now look forward to with excitement and glee. For that very reason I no longer set any limits, and would do what ever I felt comfortable with at any given time. On the other hand I do not go out looking for, or actively chase boundaries to push. I would happily try some thing new, after discussion, to please my partner, but if I/we did not enjoy it I would not try it again.
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