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Young enough to be your kid!!

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Would you do you could you fuck a person young enough to be your child? I ask this because you see it in profiles and chatted about in site that people wouldn't swing with anyone younger than their own kids.
I must admit to looking at profiles and it may say a young person or couples age to be 19ish for example. I know I'd think to myself, how/why on earth are you swinging at your age for. I know I would I wont deny it.
I've seen profiles that young and wondered the same. Also seen guys on a vanilla dating site in their late teens looking for 'intimate relationship' confused I'm not being ageist in the least, everyone's entitled to try things at whatever age but I can't help thinking that someone that young should get a little 'normal' sexual experience behind them first.
As for shagging guys younger than my own son who's 31....no way! :shock: My lowest age limit is around 37 though I would make an exception if he was really hot :twisted: but never, ever younger than the son. It just doesn't feel right for me
At the moment I cant afford to be that choosey :lol2:
Thankfully they'd not be allowed on here... or I would have had to start really young for anyone to be young enough to be my child!
On the flip side, would I sleep with someone old enough to be my parent?
Yep. cool
We are mid 50's and always made it a rule never to play with anyone who could conceivably be young enough to be our kids. Prefer couples of similar age.
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Quote by flower411
I`m sorry ... redface
But I`m afraid that if a young lady over the age of 18 who was young enough to be my daughter wanted to have sex with me :shock: :shock:
I have a feeling I may succumb

Flower, it's a simple question of good manners. It would be quite rude to refuse IMO, as a refusal often offends. ;)
Lost, I'm still getting used to the being 40 and actually old enough to have a daughter in her mid-twenties, but not having actually got any offspring as yet, there ain't any negative connotations to the whole shagging 18 year olds thing, beyond the occasional worry it might make me a dirty old man. confused I reckon I could live with it. lol ;)
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My oldest is only 17 so I can honestly say I've never had to worry about it. So far. But so long as I was sure the people were genuine and in it for the right reasons, age is a case of mind over matter....if you don't mind it doesn't matter.
At first I said I'd never play with anyone younger than my kids and for the younger ones, that's still true. But as time has gone on, I realise that my eldest, at nearly 30 years old, is no kid and neither is anyone her age. Consequently I'm a bit more flexible and am willing to at least consider someone in their late 20s providing they have a mature outlook. To be honest, chronological age isn't always a totally accurate way to ascertain someone's maturity or suitability but more a general guideline. I've met guys in their 50s who act like petulent teenagers and have had absorbing, intelligent conversations with young guys half their age.
So for me, I guess the answer is ... 'it depends' wink
Quote by noladreams
On the flip side, would I sleep with someone old enough to be my parent?
Yep. cool

For me they'd have to be in their 70s :shock:
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No :shock: but my son is only 10 confused
I don't really have an upper age limit but they have to be physically & mentally attractive in my eyes
Dek is 50 So I don't count anyone out under 60 ish really so long as there is something there :twisted:
If I was going on just a number, I would say no confused
However, I'd say yes if I saw some handsome man naked and horny in front of me and I didn't know his age :grin:
i would have to say there maturaty in the person more than there age for me as some people act older than what they really are
as my eldest is only 10 years old as i had children later on, so no
For me I like maturity and expierance I am very much more attracted to men between 38-45, I dont know why just they have a knack of capturing my mind I have found.
I can see why some people would find this a problem, just the same as I can see why some people wouldn't.
Although I have stated lower and upper age limits for the guys that I would like to meet on my profile it is flexible for the right person.
I'm only 24 and can't say that I've been with anyone younger than myself, or even the same age. I find myself very attracted to older guys.
Each to their own I guess, as long as two people get on and have that mutual attraction then why not wink
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For me I like maturity and expierance I am very much more attracted to men between 38-45, I dont know why just they have a knack of capturing my mind I have found.

38 :lol2: So 37 is bit too young and 46 way to old? :d
Personally i'm not into 34 year old women 33 is OK and 35 is fine its just 34 theres just something about 34 year olds biggrin
its an interesting topic..i never thought age would matter, and have been with women older, but i recently was set up with a girl who was 19..which is about the same age as my niece and that felt really really wierd, so ive kinda set myself the rule...no one the same age, or younger than her really..
although..if you dont know their age!! wink
just personal choice really. I do have a hang up about people younger than my kids but thats my problem not theirs and I always make that clear. In a very nice way of course
I think it is definitely personal choice and for me they have to be round my own age group, no disrespect to all the younger guys out there but its just not for me
No I wouldn't have sex with anyone young enough to be my child .......I've spoken to a few lads, boys , men ( I'm 41 so if started early my son could now be a man !!!!) and i've enjoyed the chat and flirt but that's as far as it goes
it's one of my rules don't shag without a condom, with someone who i could have given birth too or someone who is looking to meet others through meeting