I get quite a few messages and requests from guys far younger than me, often in their early to mid 20s. I'm not sure I get what they are looking for although I fully realise that everyone has different tastes. So, my question to the guys, what makes you want mature women? And to the mature women who have said yes, was it worth it?
:welcome: to the Site and - more importantly - to the forums! To be honest I went through my younger years always seeking out the older "more experienced" woman. I don't think it was a conscious thing, but it certainly gave me the chance to gain experience without having to go through a trial and error phase. Now I'm older I've turned that idea on it's head and tend towards the younger women, so look out! :twisted: ;)
I thought my days of six packs and pecs were over and I was resigned (sorry guys!) to kegs and man boobs, and then I hit 40!!! Oh yes definiteley worth it, energy, exuberance, eager to please and all with an enthusiastic smile. New motto: Get it while you can!!
Wendy is still enjoying men in their early 40s and she is in her 60s! They love her confidence and experience. She loves their virility and eagerness to please. ;)
I am in my 50s and i get lots of messeges from young men wanting to meet me, they say they prefer more mature women .... however i am not at all interested in meeting anyone in their 20s or 30s and often not in their early 40s, i far prefer men more my age, i have met younger men including men in their 20s but to be honest i generally found them boring, both the chat to and the sex ! Men closer to my age are far more fun lol.
Why does it have to be specifically a 'mature woman' kinda thing. Could be more to do with the fact that regardless of age altogether you look pretty damn hot on your profile than it is an older woman thing per se. Just sayin'. ;)
Quote by neilinleeds Why does it have to be specifically a 'mature woman' kinda thing. Could be more to do with the fact that regardless of age altogether you look pretty damn hot on your profile than it is an older woman thing per se. Just sayin'. ;)
Spot on! However,women should always be on the lookout for 50 year old men,coincidentally,my age!
Young men have told me that they prefer mature and more accomplished women because the younger ones tend to be petty and argue over nothing. Ladies, if a younger man wants you, enjoy it because men have always had girls who are their grandaughters' age mates. I think it is a bit of a conquest thing for these young guys and it is also for the sake of variety. Indeed it is enjoyable to experience a body that has not experienced athritis, diabetes and the lot. To enjoy the pleasures of repeat sex and not someone huffing and puffing breathlessly after YOU sucked him off. To be fucked with 'equipment that actually works'. A woman should not allow herself to be exploited though. I am in my forties and had a 24 yr old from here and I had braced myself for the humping thinking I won't get the fatherly cuddles of a mature man. The young man made me feel at ease and actually made sweet love to me. He cuddled me and kissed me on the forehead. I also got that from a thirty something too. On the other hand, some would use you as a last resort IF YOU ALLOW them. Ensure that you fuck a man, not a boy. I wouldn't go for a lad who left school yesterday for instance. A guy might be young but mentally mature and accomplished. Remember that boys are attached to their mothers and that's why they appreciate the older woman who won't ask for a ring.
A lot of young guys are interested in shagging, cars, shagging, music, shagging, beer, shagging, Oh and shagging. Lets face it if the mature are included in your scope then the markets far bigger and the chances far greater for. Hmmm what was it now, Ahyes, shagging.
Quote by Lost A lot of young guys are interested in shagging, cars, shagging, music, shagging, beer, shagging, Oh and shagging. Lets face it if the mature are included in your scope then the markets far bigger and the chances far greater for. Hmmm what was it now, Ah yes, shagging.
Not true! Some are interested in wanking and blowjobs too... :giggle:
Young guys believe that older, experienced women, are more likely to be up for a shag. Mature women have consistantly obliged them and taken advantage of the virility of younger men.
I've had a couple of experiences with more mature women and have to say that the reason I like them is much for the same reason I would seek out women my own age - I get on well with them and find them attractive. It's as simple as that for me!
We are currently in the planning for a meet with a 19 yr old. the age gap works on two levels and tbh is a turn on when you 'pull' a guy much younger than you.
If you believe the old adage that men are in their sexual prime aged around 18-20 and women are in their sexual prime aged around 30-35, then younger men with older women makes perfect sense!! Of course, there's no hidden agenda here at all... The fact that I happen to be 31 and wouldn't mind a tumble with a young, fit man whose cock practically bounces back up after cumming has nothing to do with it...!
In my 20's I always chased women 30s upwards now eairly 30s myself still seems to click with women older than me. Not sure can say why but just feel more relaxed with older women, perhaps its the confidence thing?
In my 20's I always chased women 30s upwards now eairly 30s myself still seems to click with women older than me. Not sure can say why but just feel more relaxed with older women, perhaps its the confidence thing?
In my 20's I always chased women 30s upwards now eairly 30s myself still seems to click with women older than me. Not sure can say why but just feel more relaxed with older women, perhaps its the confidence thing?
Quote by TomHasWood Surprise I'be not been spanked or barred by the moderator for spamming. Preferably a mature women type moderator if I'm going to be spanked tho
Quote by TomHasWood Surprise I'be not been spanked or barred by the moderator for spamming. Preferably a mature women type moderator if I'm going to be spanked tho