ok point taken some people like to be heard more than others, im here for advice not an argument.
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Straight Female, 57
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i uderstand what you are saying that its a persons opinion, but that person giving the opinion should be aware that there opinion could offend,
i feel offended in my opinion and as a new comer i might not be as hardened to opinions like that yet, im here as a new comer and i have a lot to learn and i respect the opinions i have received.
i feel offended in my opinion and as a new comer i might not be as hardened to opinions like that yet, im here as a new comer and i have a lot to learn and i respect the opinions i have received.
im sorry if you feel offended by my openess in this forum and ive been talking to a few people today for advice for some reason i feel that your comments are not helpfull, its took alot of courage to come on here today and to get a negative response from someone in this way totally puts me off attending something like a munch becouse if you represent the community it does not look good to new comers.
hi frecklebird.
i think the frustration comes from that my wife says she wont do it and then when she's turned on she doe's.
its the planning of it that puts her off.
the ideal situation for us is that we go somewere that puts us in that envioment so when she is turned on there is someone there to oblige.
but to go somewere is to plan it and i dont know how to go about it.
sj1759 x
i think the frustration comes from that my wife says she wont do it and then when she's turned on she doe's.
its the planning of it that puts her off.
the ideal situation for us is that we go somewere that puts us in that envioment so when she is turned on there is someone there to oblige.
but to go somewere is to plan it and i dont know how to go about it.
sj1759 x
so a munch is more suited for new comers,
how do you go to a munch,
were are they,
are you committed to anything if you go to one.
i just wish my wife could see the real world and not all swingers are supermodels, she feels she would be the largest one in the world,
i tell her she's that good looking i want other people to admire her and enjoy her body but she still needs convincing.
i will keep talking to her. sj1759 x
how do you go to a munch,
were are they,
are you committed to anything if you go to one.
i just wish my wife could see the real world and not all swingers are supermodels, she feels she would be the largest one in the world,
i tell her she's that good looking i want other people to admire her and enjoy her body but she still needs convincing.
i will keep talking to her. sj1759 x
still cant get the hang of posting to people here. please be patiant with me. Quote by MandHdid you find it strange that your hubby wanted you to sleep with other men or was it a joint idea.i get a lot out of mmf. i dont know why cos 5 years ago it would not have even come into my mind, wife thought i was strange to want her to do that and i think she still does. sj1759x
, as far as my fetish goes im not really into the couple thing and for me to have sex with another woman i dont know if i could do it, is that strange?.
Nothing strange about that........... I'm the same to an extent. Although I could have sex with another woman, I choose not to because of what I get from MMF. There are plenty of blokes around like that as well.
yes the club scene or munch sounds very exciting but in a way to our jobs we dont get out much but it sounds great , what would you talk about, what if you ended up in a corner and no one talking to you , :shock: ,
as were new to this how overwhelming is it at a club or munch,
would you be ignored or outcasted if you are new as i guess people would stay clear of you untill they got to know you.
weve been to normal partys and been ignored all night.
any examples or positive expeiriences would be gratefull. sj1759 xx
as were new to this how overwhelming is it at a club or munch,
would you be ignored or outcasted if you are new as i guess people would stay clear of you untill they got to know you.
weve been to normal partys and been ignored all night.
any examples or positive expeiriences would be gratefull. sj1759 xx
hi thinkingnaugty
it only comes up in conversation when we are in the bedroom and when my wife is warmed up she would do most things but then its too late, as far as my fetish goes im not really into the couple thing and for me to have sex with another woman i dont know if i could do it, is that strange?.
we have a good sex drive together and maybe we should try clubs or something but would that be planning it and put my wife off.
i would like to think we could start small and work up to it but how would you go about it. sj1759x
it only comes up in conversation when we are in the bedroom and when my wife is warmed up she would do most things but then its too late, as far as my fetish goes im not really into the couple thing and for me to have sex with another woman i dont know if i could do it, is that strange?.
we have a good sex drive together and maybe we should try clubs or something but would that be planning it and put my wife off.
i would like to think we could start small and work up to it but how would you go about it. sj1759x
my wife as a large build and is very sexy and i do tell her, she dresses up ,we have good sex, when she warms up she's quite a hand full and the stuff we talk about makes me blush. but she is only interesed in the group thing when she's warmed up.
she likes things to happen on the spure of the moment,
we have children so we dont get alot of time to our selves and having sex in our house is like planning the great escape
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what is a munch then.
she likes things to happen on the spure of the moment,
we have children so we dont get alot of time to our selves and having sex in our house is like planning the great escape
.what is a munch then.
hi thanks for replys, it took a lot of courage for me to come on the forum as im not up on things work but it realy nice to know that i can talk to people,wife wont talk to me about it at moment and ive no freinds i can talk to about it,bit of a sticky subject. its nice to know there are like minded people out there who just like to talk. sj1759 
hi every one. im new on the forum and i just wanted some one to talk to.im so frustraited with my year we decided that due to a fetish of mine that we would experiment in 3 somes mmf, we tryed two poeple but was not very well planned and even though i enjoyed it my wife said she didnt and now she wont even participate anymore, she is not very comfortable with her body and uses that reason and now it causes so many frustraited disscussions and i dont know what to do, i know she would do it again its just that we make a cockup ( ha no pun intended ) of it all the time and my wife gets put off by all the planning, any advice please. sj1759
