20 years together, 10 years happlily married.

We are new to the life and havent had any experiences yet, but we have been talking about it for 10 or so years. We are booked at a LS club this weekend for the first time. We have only spoken about a F joining us, but we are not fully opposed to a MF couple (or FF couple!) as long as the F is bi. My wife is fine with me full swapping with the F, and I am ok with soft swap for her with the M for now. We are only just getting started so we are not really sure what else we want yet.