I am clean shaven fit and healthy retired (still doing some professional work) looking for some side by side moments. I`ll be direct; I am interested in mutual or shared spectator masturbation along with tender touches only. I am I think courteous and well mannered and know how to give a lady priority in the old fashioned way. Looking for mutual support and friendship too but not a deep lasting relationship in the accepted sense. Thanks for trying to understand where I am coming from (no pun intended!!)