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AlanStone
2 weeks ago
Straight Male, 66
0 miles · Staffordshire
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:lol: :lol:I am a chase dogger who has been going up for a number of years and am not one of the "park close" or "aggresive pushy chase followers" but very discreet and respectful but must admit on recent visits I have held my head in despair at the plonkers that you mention which ruin it for us genuine doggers. They all should be ashamed of the way they act and dont they realise that they are putting couples off coming up until there wont be any genuine dogging fun. All I can say to couples is dont despair there are genuine single male doggers that get up the chase, even though I have to admit in the minority these days, and that you are not put off completely and hope to meet you one day and prove we are not all the same.
I have noticed a decline in fems/cpls in the short time of 7yrs that I have been dogging and a definite increase of doggers that think dogging is a guaranteed "shag" and have no respect for couples when they do turn up. There are still genuine doggers out there who are just as happy with a show or to go as far as couples want to go without being harrassed or demanded by disrespectful doggers.
Ive been on here nearly 7yrs and no I havent attended any mids meets because you know as well as anyone that I am married and cannot states on my profile that I am married and yes I swing alone without my wifes knowledge and know the rights and wrongs about that. So therefore makes it difficult becuase for obvious reasons cannot go on webcam and I am not available 24/7 for meets. But have always been very genuine and respectful and had some gr8 fun in the past. My initial message was just stating the fact that it is not as easy to get meets as it was when I first joined SH and nobody seems to want to chat to males in the chatrooms no more and unless whispering dont chat at all in most rooms.
Any male that goes in Mids room and says hi in general gets totally ignored I know ive been in thee and tried and now only go in to say hi to those that i do know and who will speak. Everyone knows on SH that the Mids room is very cliquey and if you arent in that clique you get totally ignored unless ur a couple or female.
Why do people enter the chatroom because in my opinion 95% of people have no intention of ever meeting anybody. Granted everybody is different in what persuasion of fun they are after but the majority dont even say hello never mind chat. They must either just sit staring at the screen fantasising or just log on then leave there computer. After all it is a swinging site and if you just want to use the chatroom just to chat about non sexual topics there are plenty of chatrooms on the net to do this. Been on SH nearly 7yrs now and met some great and fun people and had some great times beyond my wildest dreams but find it more and more difficult to get into chat compared to what it used to be never mind meet.
Has the dogging fun recently been infiltrated by the prostitute scene or is it something that has happened for a long time. I have been dogging now for nearly 7 years and had some gr8 fun in that time but this last couple of months while dogging in a well known and publicised area have been approached on 2 different occasions that the female of the couple is up for dogging fun but that she fantasises about being paid for it. On both occasions I have said "thanks but no thanks" and made a discreet retreat, is this a sign of the times everywhere or I have I just been unlucky.
It used to be £35000 but they increased it too £50000 about 12 months ago but the rest I said is right so spread ur money between different banking groups so that you dont end up with more than £50000 in one banking group. If you have it in writing different and he told you recently go back and complain cos they are wrong.
