This subject has been discussed for as long as there have been sites like this. Unfortunately its a case of the many being punished for the faults of a few. There are definitely faults on both sides but I have to admit the majority of the failure is down to single men. Some men (not all) seem to judge sites like this as a place where desperate nymphomaniacs hang out, ladies that dont care who it is or what they liike like, they are just desperate to get fucked. I suppose this fantasy is brought in by excessive wanking and fantasising. Imagine being a friendly couple and always trying to reply to messages, even though their are multiple messages arriving every day from guys who are nothing like what they are looking for. When they do reply and politely decline guys who do not interest them at all then for some reason many of the rejected guys take offence and reply back with verbal abuse. It doesnt take long for these couples to figure out that the best action is to ignore people who do not interest them and have obviously not read their profiles. Also consider a couple whos husband has been gently introducing his wife to the lifestyle and convincing her that there are fun people out there who they could meet and have fun with, but then every time this nervous wife logs on she sees all the crude messages from sad fuckers just desperate for a shag. It is understandable that the husband would get pretty pissed off at this as all his hard work trying to show his wife that this isnt sleazy its just a place for adults to have fun BUT these fuckers keep messaging them and undoing all his hard work, causing her to reject the lifestyle. Everybody comes onto this site for their own pleasure and enjoyment NOT for yours, If you manage to find a mutual area that you can all enjoy that is great but messaging random women and telling them how much you want to fuck them is almost never going to achieve anything but getting you hated by genuine swingers.

I really dont think the Machete incident is in any way representative, some people get stabbed just walking down the street. Dogging has died off because the police have targeted it and they patrol many dogging spots and frighten people off. Also as dogging became the rage on the internet, every boy racer decided to have some fun badgering the doggers. Nowadays, if you are a couple wanting to indulge then the chances are you will find someone wanting to watch but a single guy looking for couples playing has little to no chance of success despite hours and hours of sitting in dark carparks hoping to get lucky.

mine would have to be single men wiggling worms on what is supposed to be a couples profile