Single male. Looking for single ladies and mixed or ff couples only — not into other men or bi, sorry guys.

Totally new to all this. Always been shy about meeting people, mostly ‘cause I was overweight for years and had pretty low self-esteem. But I’ve lost the weight now and feel way more confident! Still a bit shy at first, but excited to explore, have fun and make up for lost time.

I like the soft stuff — kissing, touching, body play, oral and toys. If it feels right, I’m happy to go all the way… never say never, right? Also open to trying some kinky things too.

I’m quiet to start with but relax and open up once we get past the awkward bit. Wouldn’t mind trying a club sometime but don’t quite have the nerve just yet — maybe with the right person or couple though! I’m keen to please and happy to take things at whatever pace we’re all good with.

I can be as discreet as needed and always respectful.

Would be great to hear from anyone else who’s new and nervous too — let’s explore together.