Hi Pembroke Couple..
..I`m further up the coast from you, and also new here. If I hear of anything/anyone that might interest you, I`ll let you know. As a single man, I`m not really you guys cup of tea, but anytime you fancy a chat, it`s nice just tomake friends with freespirits too.
One good bit of advice to you is to use the search feature in each forum and look for `wales`. There`s loads of threads come up , and you`ll find experienced posters and couples on them from all over ..I`m sure you`ll soon find what you`re looking for!
Enjoy!
Bardass.
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well i was just raised to beleive that marriage is for two people ..quote]
That`s not quite true..there may be kids involved.
Okay..here`s my angle.
I`ve been `happily` married for 20 years, in many ways, and have several children. When I met my wife, I was at a very low ebb, and sex was not really that important..though I should have seen the warning signs, in retrospect.
She has a low sex drive...and is happy that way. Once a month is a little too often for her liking...and it must always be a certain way...lights off, straight from the shower, no on holidays, etc, are completely out. And once, frustrated to death, I asked here to give me a wank...it took years for our relationship to recover.
To many, you could say she has problems...but, thing is,she`s happy.
My own sexuality is..well, I`m pretty much obcessed! Not sure if I`m really Bi...I just need that excitement, eroticism, and the outdoors bit....or I get very cranky..and this need has led me to a few homoerotic its there, and sometimes (I`m not unattractive for a bloke) I just need to be desired.
But really, this is not about being bi..it`s about being married and unfaithful. (Needless to say, I would never take anything home she could catch, btw) Occasionally, we joke about it....her angle is `tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies`.
So I don`t really think it`s that simple.
If I go long enough without, then I get a bit cranky..less patient with the kids, and less understanding of my wifes needs. Maybe you will think I`m twisting this to have my cake and eat it..BUT...seems to me, as long as she doesn`t know (for sure), then any moral fallout falls on my own spirit. And I`m happy to sacrifice personal karma for the good of my family. If they get through life happy...if ignorant!..then I`ll burn in metaphorical hell and be happy.
Of course..there must be some trust. Recently, for instance, I was in the far East and overrun with bevies of the most beautiful girls you could imagine. But I didn`t stray...boy have I pondered over it since though !...because my wife specifically asked me not to.
Maybe we should never have got married.
But my wife and family are happy..and, occasionally, I get to express my own spirit to the full...without hurting anyone
..and ain`t it what this site is all about?
That`s not quite true..there may be kids involved.
Okay..here`s my angle.
I`ve been `happily` married for 20 years, in many ways, and have several children. When I met my wife, I was at a very low ebb, and sex was not really that important..though I should have seen the warning signs, in retrospect.
She has a low sex drive...and is happy that way. Once a month is a little too often for her liking...and it must always be a certain way...lights off, straight from the shower, no on holidays, etc, are completely out. And once, frustrated to death, I asked here to give me a wank...it took years for our relationship to recover.
To many, you could say she has problems...but, thing is,she`s happy.
My own sexuality is..well, I`m pretty much obcessed! Not sure if I`m really Bi...I just need that excitement, eroticism, and the outdoors bit....or I get very cranky..and this need has led me to a few homoerotic its there, and sometimes (I`m not unattractive for a bloke) I just need to be desired.
But really, this is not about being bi..it`s about being married and unfaithful. (Needless to say, I would never take anything home she could catch, btw) Occasionally, we joke about it....her angle is `tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies`.
So I don`t really think it`s that simple.
If I go long enough without, then I get a bit cranky..less patient with the kids, and less understanding of my wifes needs. Maybe you will think I`m twisting this to have my cake and eat it..BUT...seems to me, as long as she doesn`t know (for sure), then any moral fallout falls on my own spirit. And I`m happy to sacrifice personal karma for the good of my family. If they get through life happy...if ignorant!..then I`ll burn in metaphorical hell and be happy.
Of course..there must be some trust. Recently, for instance, I was in the far East and overrun with bevies of the most beautiful girls you could imagine. But I didn`t stray...boy have I pondered over it since though !...because my wife specifically asked me not to.
Maybe we should never have got married.
But my wife and family are happy..and, occasionally, I get to express my own spirit to the full...without hurting anyone
..and ain`t it what this site is all about?
Another one here.....I`m Anglo-Welsh and in Aberystwyth.
This is a bit new to me..came across this site mentioned in the Wales edition of the Sunday Mirror....but it`s really great to see so many people from Wales (and beyond) with an interest I had no idea was so widespread and popular.
Thought it was just me.....(wink)
..damn, quite enjoyed having a dirty little secret....turns out it`s practically mainstream.
Anyway...Hi everyone. Hope you all find that moment, when` The game`s afoot`, the sap rises, and....and....ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a bit new to me..came across this site mentioned in the Wales edition of the Sunday Mirror....but it`s really great to see so many people from Wales (and beyond) with an interest I had no idea was so widespread and popular.
Thought it was just me.....(wink)
..damn, quite enjoyed having a dirty little secret....turns out it`s practically mainstream.
Anyway...Hi everyone. Hope you all find that moment, when` The game`s afoot`, the sap rises, and....and....ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for the reply, DreamerHelen.
Actually..after browsing the boards and FAQ`s, I now realise I do have one very very attractive asset.....I have access to 27 acres of private land, as I`m part of a group that replants trees on the Welsh/English border. I`ts deserted for most of the year....and we even have an outdoor bath up there, fed by a woodburner!
Once I`ve got to know folk here, and know who can be trusted amongst the regulars to look after the site, I might try and organise some kind of weekend camp or get together.
Hope you find what you are looking for too,Helen!
Bard.
Actually..after browsing the boards and FAQ`s, I now realise I do have one very very attractive asset.....I have access to 27 acres of private land, as I`m part of a group that replants trees on the Welsh/English border. I`ts deserted for most of the year....and we even have an outdoor bath up there, fed by a woodburner!
Once I`ve got to know folk here, and know who can be trusted amongst the regulars to look after the site, I might try and organise some kind of weekend camp or get together.
Hope you find what you are looking for too,Helen!
Bard.
Hi Everyone...just found/joined the site after reading about it in the Sunday Mirror. The address was given in an column as a good place for advice/ info on safe outdoor meetings.
Okay...bad bits about me!
A single male. Total newbie to anything like this. Not massively endowed. Married, so need to be very discreet. At 43, not sure if I can say` tall, blond and slim` anymore...well, maybe in a bad light....In a very bad light, I can look like Sting or Sean Bean. Or if you`ve had a drink or three!
Good bits...very clean, polite and well spoken, discreet, and respectful of the needs of others. Up for trying just about anything..and live very close to a mentioned dogging sites...Ynyslas near Borth.
Anyone up here on holiday? Live locally? Fancy a chat by IM? Or more?
Maybe this isn`t the right place to write this...will do an add/profile next..but I consider myself a trapped free spirit looking for...freedom? Potential? Guess that`s as important as `getting it on`.
Anyone similar?
Okay...bad bits about me!
A single male. Total newbie to anything like this. Not massively endowed. Married, so need to be very discreet. At 43, not sure if I can say` tall, blond and slim` anymore...well, maybe in a bad light....In a very bad light, I can look like Sting or Sean Bean. Or if you`ve had a drink or three!
Good bits...very clean, polite and well spoken, discreet, and respectful of the needs of others. Up for trying just about anything..and live very close to a mentioned dogging sites...Ynyslas near Borth.
Anyone up here on holiday? Live locally? Fancy a chat by IM? Or more?
Maybe this isn`t the right place to write this...will do an add/profile next..but I consider myself a trapped free spirit looking for...freedom? Potential? Guess that`s as important as `getting it on`.
Anyone similar?
