New Swingers, Mrs Bath likes the fantasy not sure about actually going ahead. Anyone in a similar situation or experienced able to help us?

SINGLE GUYS WE WILL FIND YOU WHEN WE'RE LOOKING SO PLEASE DON'T CONTACT US.

Cannot accomodate due to kids, we really are genuine and only interested in the slim or athletic no older than 37. Men should be tall (ideally 6 foot-ish).

We're not into anything aggressive or weird but do like the idea of a 3some or 4some. Non-smokers, cleanliness and safe sex is a must. If we go ahead with it you must accept we don't wish to mess anyone about so please forgive us if we ask appearingly daft questions or don't reply immediately.