Quote by DreamerHelen
I'd love to put my efforts up but I haven't got anyone to take naked pics of me in the shower
Any volunteers? :twisted:
Ditto :( :(
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Bazza64
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 61
0 miles · Stoke-on-Trent
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Some of the names in the ads such as those mentioned seem to me to be derogatory, not names one would use in any form of regular social contact. Maybe some ladies into more of a fetish lifestyle like to be referred to with names like this, but i would think that generally, the majority of females in the swinging community who enjoy the freedom of the lifestyle wouldn't like to be called these names.
:smackbottom: and opens a new box of tissues :cry:
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Quote by davidsplayroom
OK... I'll throw my hat into the ring:
There is never any excuse for ! No matter what the person was doing/wearing/going - No means No!
However, from a male perspective (and that's the only one I've got experience of) there are some women who should be convicted for "enticement" for the way they dress.
My God - that makes me sound so old :shock:
Surely it doesn't matter how much I pricktease............It is up to me
Yes, of course it is up to you, but yes it does matter, just look at what Ice Pie said about car thieves and be careful there are real rapists out there.
Think who you are hurting or winding up before you prick tease!
With respect, there is one huge difference between the violation of a persons body, and the theft of a car. Car theft does not leave a person scarred for life, does.
A person should not be to save another persons hurt pride because they were rejected. Women dress provocatively in swingers clubs all the time, maybe that comes under "prickteasing", but doesn't give all the guys in there the idea to her??
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Quote by Ice Pie
Heard about this earlier too. It seems incredible that anyone can still (or ever) think that of a female or male is remotely the victims fault.
Is that what people are saying though?
If I get shot while not wearing a bullet-proof vest, someone might say I was partially responsible for my own murder because I made myself an easier target, but would they say I was to blame?
I'm not a trained psychologist - I can only speculate about what goes on in the mind of a , but personally I think anyone who's capable of is probably going to do it regardless of what they later present in their defence as "provocation". In an ideal world you should be able to go anywhere, anytime in perfect safety, but the fact is criminals do exist. Whether you choose to take account of that is up to you, but you're not, in my opinion, in any way responsible for their actions.
With the statistics quoted by bluexxx in the report, between 22% and 37% do say that the victim was partly responsible by not clearly saying no, being drunk, wearing provocative clothing etc. When these reasons are used by smart ass lawyers to achieve a reduced sentence for their client, surely the jury and judge are accepting the victim was partially responsible???
Master of Sex
Heard about this earlier too. It seems incredible that anyone can still (or ever) think that of a female or male is remotely the victims fault. Too often, these reasons quoted by bluexxx from the report are used by defence lawyers to get their client a reduced sentence or no sentence at all!
Its a sad, depressing indictment of our society.
Its a sad, depressing indictment of our society.
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Quote by Angel Chat
Like most guys, i have a storker - every morning when i wake up!
I want one of those :lol2: Ooooh not attached to me though :uhoh: ... just lying there next to me :twisted: :twisted:
Angel hunny, if i was next to you, i wouldn't waste time sleeping :twisted: :twisted:
Master of Sex
Quote by Sexysteph
Hey Alex ain't Mal on form (Please don'r shatter illusions being drawn here) came charging in and zapped the interloping TV company scum who tried to clutter up our lovely forum with promises of infamy and bye bye to discretion
Our Heroooooooooooooooooooooooooo :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: so quick so agile he beat Missy to the zapper ray
So how should he be rewarded ladies and Gentlemen
Should we take a poll on ideas
:lol:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Master of Sex
Quote by Alexandra
How about a poll.........
ooooo yes Bazza - another Poll!!
Now who shall we get to start one I wonder.........
Well, there's 48 of us visible at the mo, if we ALL start one, we could have yet a further poll on how long it takes mal to lock them all :lol: :lol: :lol:
Flex those fingers mal!!
Master of Sex
Never been to partners so can't comment, but chams is a very good club, busy midweek but not TOO busy that you can't get a place in the jacuzzi. Mal, you really must try it.
Had a couple of good nights at liaisons thanks to the company i had when i visited, met some great people there.
Had a couple of good nights at liaisons thanks to the company i had when i visited, met some great people there.
Master of Sex
Congratulations debz, when i joined in august, i remember that the first thing i did on swinging heaven was pm you asking for a meet! You called me a naughty boy for sending an un-asked for pm!!!
Well done hunny, look forward to reading many more of your posts, (and to meeting you one day). :) :) :) :) :) :)
Well done hunny, look forward to reading many more of your posts, (and to meeting you one day).
:) :) :) :) :) :) 