Bea and Ben - Loving couple in Kent looking to broaden our sensual horizons

We are a couple living in Kent looking to explore our very sensual natures with other like-minded couples, gals, and LATER ON, charming, intelligent single guys. We privilege charm and savoir-vivre over looks, and are looking for playmates whom we hope will become friends.

Before you ask, I know we’re a bit thin on photos, but Bea and I did our first photo-shoot a couple of days ago (Beatrice in full war paint and sexy lingerie), and I’m working on the results in Photoshop and Premiere, so watch this space!

Let me introduce myself. I'm called Benedict, and I'm sincerely delighted you stopped by for a quick nosey.

I am now 53, and still possess all my teeth. I give myself another few years before sheer embarrassment forces me onto some “Senior” version of this site where the making good cocoa will be seen as a more useful skill than cunnilingus. But until then, Beatrice and I intend to explore as many sensual avenues (and some downright kinky alleyways) as time permits.

My personal peccadillos include (but are not limited to) ... Oral Sex - ah, the smell of sleepy lover's musk in the morning ... it smells of ... well, pussy actually, and delicious it is too. Hands up all those who thought I was going to say 'victory'? As if I would, you macho :D

As for me, I love both giving and receiving head - sorry guys, gals only, as least for the time being - but I do have a certain penchant for - what did Jack Nicholson call it? - 'yodelling down the valley'. OK, not very poetic, but hey, it's Jack! In any case, you get the picture - just can't get enuff of that sweet thang ...

Otherwise, I enjoy all the usual things – massage (Sporty, Shiatsu, sensual) - caressing, bondage (light or more adventurous)and Bea has just introduced me to role-playing games ;) Beatrice likes 'reluctant' scenarios, where her character's desire battles against fear (of discovery, of shame, of what Polite Society will think. Bea has been reading too much Jane Austen, I suddenly realise.

Being a 'Gentleman' Dom ever since I can remember, I like to control and direct, and I tend to favour manipulation, even blackmail scenarios in my role-playing choices.

Mwahahahaaaa!!???? Bea's face when she realises that the trap has closed, and that now she no choice but to perform all those horrible, degrading acts. But of course how to explain to herself that she is the innocent victim of a terrible machination when she has just come like a hound dawg?

Bea and I used to go out as teenagers, and now life, destiny, has brought us back together. She is new to all this alternative lifestyle, and is naturally a little apprehensive. I hope that meeting open, funny, charming people (and bonking our brains out, let's be honest...) will allow my best friend and gorgeous lover to bloom and bask in the warm sensuality she deserves.

OK, so here's how I imagine things panning out. I envisage our first meeting with an easy-going, unpretentious NON-PUSHY couple who are willing to put up with our initial clumsiness. Beatrice would also like to explore kissing and cuddling - maybe a few wandering hands - with an experienced, patient woman who can reassure, calm, and encourage her to express herself. She tells me she wouldn’t go down on a woman. I would like to see her in a state where she just doesn't care. Where well ... anything goes ... but maybe that's just me getting kinky again. We shall see.

Here are some of our turnoffs (and these will get you booted unceremoniously out of our circle)

- a coarse, boorish, or insensitive attitude.

- poor personal hygiene - do I really have to say this?

- 'Pushiness' - admittedly a subjective term, but I'm fairly certain I can distinguish an excess of eagerness from being just plain rude or crass.

No single men initially - we'll see how things develop later on. As for physique, I personally don't care that much about age, looks or size - for me, it's more important to be adorable than beautiful, but I imagine Beatrice may have a few provisos of her own! Bea is a fine, full-figured, voluptuous gift of a woman. She is sensuous, generous in her acts of love, and has an inventive, though sometimes quite perverted imagination. I'm just a nice, sometimes quite funny guy who loves her.

And always remember - CARPE DIEM! - FISH OF THE DAY!