hi sarah, wheres the list of folks gone ? cant see who is coming now..mawhhh....
and only 3 more sleeps to go! cant wait!
mrs benson
theres a great new club opened up in the grantham area if thats any good? its called Emeralds and it is clean ,well equipted and the hosts are wonderful too. go check it out, its in club had a major revamp and everything is like new, the rooms are gorgeous, theres a bar with pub priced beer, and you even get a small buffet thrown in to for the isnt a problem either,and theres is loads of parking spaces for cars with cctv cameras on them while you relax.......
happy swinging
well you can always dry the clothes mrs "b".lol.
does this mean you want me to do the chores cocky? i can do those any night or day of the frigging week thanks! unless you offering to do them for me?pmsl
mrs b xxxx
hi cocks, just one more sleep then its party time again eh?
cant wait! be good to see everyone again, it seems like ages since before xmas now .....
see ya tomorrow night ..... mrs b xxxxxx
My father in law sent it me over xmas and my kids cant stop watching it, they think its great...they laugh and laugh and laugh at it.
And then this morning on gmtv they interviewed the fella dancing on it, he did it for cancer because his mother died when he was just 13, and his wifes mother also died from cancer mod were aware of it being recorded and say hes a top bloke!
well done lads , keep up the great work!
England rules ...ok?
mrs b xx
hi sarah, just want to confirm we still up for coming hun thanks
happy new year to all our friends and our new ones we are about to make........
happy new year to our enemies too, why keep grudges?
happy new year and god bless everyone, you all deserve it!
have a great night where ever you are, what ever your doing ..........
mrs and mr benson xxx
right, lets get things in prospective here please,
i dont want to be upsetting anyone really, i have only bee n the the site for just over a year, and i have had some great times at socials ,parties, ect...
but what i really cant see is why ..."if someone says no to a photo being taken of themselves, wether it be a sexual one, or a faceless one," does another perosn think its their right to take it?
Does anyone else think along the same lines as me or what?
Also, i cant get my head around this thought either.....
why on earth would a complete stranger to me, because even though ive seen this guys profile in chat (it could have been his partner of course in there)and ive seen and said hello to him at a few socials, (id still class him as a stranger) why on earth would he want a picture with me on it? im nothing to him, like hes nothing to me.....
i just think its strange....that it has to lead to this... children will play....
Mrs Benson
sorry for the length of last posting, but it had to be said lol
and yes rightly so, the member posted a few replies to the last thread on the same topic......
didnt he learn anything? or is he too stubborn to listen and absorb ?
mrs benson
If someone took a picture with you in the frame and refused to delete it, report that person to admin. Did you report it to the organiser at the time?
However, often an organiser will specify 'no cameras', but even then pictures could be taken privately afterward.
Hi Freckled Bird,
Does it sound so bad to ask a person to delete the photo which contains yourself in ? we are all adults, and surely ones privacy is ones own the choice of another memeber of id been asked if i minded photos being taken then i would have said "yes i do!"But i wasnt.
Because truth be known, i was one of the said members at this social who was on a picture, that didnt want to be on one, (and i say only 1 picture because that is the only 1 i have knowledge of being taken because i actually saw him doin it) (not of the many others he took without anyone else knowing he was doing so)When i saw what the said memeber was doing i politely asked him to stop what he was doing, and asked him to delete the photo with me on it. To which response i got was no,and a smirk .Now ive seen all the replies to an issue previously in the forum, i know i cannot name names, i also know that a lot of members are getting heckled over this issue i can also add that the said member has been quite outspoken too over this topic in the forum previously.
I can shout and scream all i want, i can swear, threaten violence, even involove the police, but why on earth couldnt the said memeber just delete the photo.?He was darn right obnoxious, and well intent on carrying on what he was doing.!
Well beleive it or not,im a normal person, with an opinion too, just like everyone else on sh, and its so unfair that we have to put up with these said idiots(ad i hate using that word, but alas thats what this member is).
all respect due to Ant and Laura the hosts of the social, they specifically had a sign on entering the social asking after all the trouble at a meet the other week, could there be no photos or videoing done at their social last this memeber still carried on doing what he thought he could do ....
also, Antand Laura were told about this member,and what he had done, and was still trying to do,and they did ask him to to stop and delete the photo, yet , the said member, still refused.!
So i ask you whats next? When will sh, be positive and make a decision to protect the members on the site one way or another?Surely, we shouldnt have to put up with the abuse , the nastiness,the arguement,all because we dont want to be on someone elses pictures? I am human after all, and i dont want to be on them.(my choice!)
And i will be reporting this member to sh admin, for the peace of mind of all sh members, not just me , who wish to remain annonymous for their own reasons..
I'll await any relies, thanks..
Mrs Benson (who wants to stay away from pictures)please?
nearly there, not long to go, till the festive partying begins eh?
ho ho ho!
mr and mrs benson xxxxx
hi mr and mrs sexy ,
we definatley joinig you both on friday night....
well, that is if you let us rofl
we promise to behave, and not to have too much fun!
mr and mrs benson xxxxxx
we'd just like to say congratulations to the fockers, and a big thanks to you both for letting us members of swinging heaven share in your special night xxxx
it was lovely to be there for you both,and in the spirit of things too....
good luck for the years to come fockers xxx
Mr and Mrs Benson xxx
Hi Mr and Mrs Cockslut,
count us pair in hun xxxxx
One question though, ... will we have sobered up by the 11th to drive? pmsl
Ohhh dont you just love christmas? lol
Mr and Mrs B xxxx
Big whoop for the Cocks,
Excellent night, really lovely place, great atmsophere,absolutly FANTASTIC people...
We had a ball, thankyou!
And too everyone that made that extra special effort, of actually getting out from behind their computer screens , a big thankyou for making the night go without any hitches....it was lovely to be part of a special gathering..
and to all those i didnt get around to , if we dont see you in the next few weeks,(Fockers wedding night, Notts xmas social ect ect.)may both Mr B and myself wish you all a beautiful and exciting christmas xxxxxxx
hi jason, would love to fine out where the new site is, having been to blidworth lately its a crazy place, full of boy racers, comparing cars rofl. if you got a new site, please may we have it?
thanks mrs and mr b