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Benson11
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 59
Straight Female, 63
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Quote by redwine_lover
RWL
You are chief humper!!
lol

well what more could i want on a saturday afternoon in nottingham!!!!
RWL
xx
well rwl, a red and white scarf wont go a miss on a saturday afternoon in the high street pubs rofl
mrs benson
are u a man utd fan too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RWL
xxx
man utd, man utd, who are they? never heard of them? do they have a profile on sh then? !!!!!!!!!!!!
mrs benson xxxxx
hi sarah, wheres the list of folks gone ? cant see who is coming now..mawhhh....
and only 3 more sleeps to go! cant wait!
mrs benson
Quote by SteveRit
Hi I was chatting to Benson the other night in the Yorks room and she said if I put our name down there might be room to fit us in
By us I mean me and my buddy Playinglady69
We have been trying to be here for one of the Derby or Notts do's but unfortunatly work and other commitments have got in the way.
I do hope you will let us come if we promise to be good ( though we can be very bad)
Steve

See it worked for you both then? youre in! see you both saturday night ..........xxxxxxxx
mrs benson
theres a great new club opened up in the grantham area if thats any good? its called Emeralds and it is clean ,well equipted and the hosts are wonderful too. go check it out, its in club had a major revamp and everything is like new, the rooms are gorgeous, theres a bar with pub priced beer, and you even get a small buffet thrown in to for the isnt a problem either,and theres is loads of parking spaces for cars with cctv cameras on them while you relax.......
happy swinging

well you can always dry the clothes mrs "b".lol.
does this mean you want me to do the chores cocky? i can do those any night or day of the frigging week thanks! unless you offering to do them for me?pmsl
mrs b xxxx
Quote by Kojak
Hi
Is there room for one more tonite?
I can be vouched for by the Yorkshire lot. lol

be nice to see you again kojak hun xxxxx
hope cock lets you come??
see you laters xxxxx
Quote by Slightly Sinful
I do this .. the 100th post pmsl
Small things ....
Oh and by the way happy 50th suedey lol
I can say that because i said he had a big donkey dick the other day.
You have to take the rough with the smooth cheeky boy biggrin:D:D

party party party,too right sinfuls
and you know what they say about small things dont ya sinful?
"you need bigger glasses to see them with !" thats all..........lol
see you laters cock xxxxxxxx , that is if its not flooded out on the roads rofl
hi cocks, just one more sleep then its party time again eh?
cant wait! be good to see everyone again, it seems like ages since before xmas now .....
see ya tomorrow night ..... mrs b xxxxxx
My father in law sent it me over xmas and my kids cant stop watching it, they think its great...they laugh and laugh and laugh at it.
And then this morning on gmtv they interviewed the fella dancing on it, he did it for cancer because his mother died when he was just 13, and his wifes mother also died from cancer mod were aware of it being recorded and say hes a top bloke!
well done lads , keep up the great work!
England rules ...ok?
mrs b xx
Quote by redwine_lover
RWL
You are chief humper!!
lol

well what more could i want on a saturday afternoon in nottingham!!!!
RWL
xx
well rwl, a red and white scarf wont go a miss on a saturday afternoon in the high street pubs rofl
mrs benson
Quote by cockslut
he he he biggrin yes mrs b just checked ur cumming great cya friday xxxxxxxx

what you like mrs cock? i dont know! lol of course you'll see us friday xxxxxxxx
happy new year to all our friends and our new ones we are about to make........
happy new year to our enemies too, why keep grudges?
happy new year and god bless everyone, you all deserve it!
have a great night where ever you are, what ever your doing ..........
mrs and mr benson xxx
Quote by the_Laird
To be honest, if I'd been organising it and he'd refused to delete after specifically being told 'no pictures', I'd have thrown him out.

....Having removed their camera, deleted the picture and shoved it up their arse!!!
I am quite happy to both take pics and have my pic taken at munches, socials, get togethers etc as long as the pics are taken by me or by persons that I am happy to take them and they feature me and only other willing persons.
someone took an uninvited pic of me in my normal day to day business then I would demand it were deleted (or see above).
I dont think there is a need to ban cameras at munches tbh. Who gives anyone the right to say that I cant, with willing friends only, take pictures of a social event featuring only myself and said participants?????
hi there laird,
i agree with you totally, im not a party pooper, if folks want a photo and all are willing then hey, why not?
but if i asked the said member nicely and he refused, and still after the hosts asking him to delete the photo he wouldnt, why does it have to lead to violence? id have loved to have shoved it up his arse as to speak, but hey, im a fun loving person lol
but the saidmeber was sp[otted only taking the 1 photo of myself, who am i to know what others were on his camera too?
its a right shambles, and i think something needs to be sorted by sh as to where it goes....
mrs benson
right, lets get things in prospective here please,
i dont want to be upsetting anyone really, i have only bee n the the site for just over a year, and i have had some great times at socials ,parties, ect...
but what i really cant see is why ..."if someone says no to a photo being taken of themselves, wether it be a sexual one, or a faceless one," does another perosn think its their right to take it?
Does anyone else think along the same lines as me or what?
Also, i cant get my head around this thought either.....
why on earth would a complete stranger to me, because even though ive seen this guys profile in chat (it could have been his partner of course in there)and ive seen and said hello to him at a few socials, (id still class him as a stranger) why on earth would he want a picture with me on it? im nothing to him, like hes nothing to me.....
i just think its strange....that it has to lead to this... children will play....
Mrs Benson
sorry for the length of last posting, but it had to be said lol
and yes rightly so, the member posted a few replies to the last thread on the same topic......
didnt he learn anything? or is he too stubborn to listen and absorb ?
mrs benson
If someone took a picture with you in the frame and refused to delete it, report that person to admin. Did you report it to the organiser at the time?
However, often an organiser will specify 'no cameras', but even then pictures could be taken privately afterward.
Hi Freckled Bird,
Does it sound so bad to ask a person to delete the photo which contains yourself in ? we are all adults, and surely ones privacy is ones own the choice of another memeber of id been asked if i minded photos being taken then i would have said "yes i do!"But i wasnt.
Because truth be known, i was one of the said members at this social who was on a picture, that didnt want to be on one, (and i say only 1 picture because that is the only 1 i have knowledge of being taken because i actually saw him doin it) (not of the many others he took without anyone else knowing he was doing so)When i saw what the said memeber was doing i politely asked him to stop what he was doing, and asked him to delete the photo with me on it. To which response i got was no,and a smirk .Now ive seen all the replies to an issue previously in the forum, i know i cannot name names, i also know that a lot of members are getting heckled over this issue i can also add that the said member has been quite outspoken too over this topic in the forum previously.
I can shout and scream all i want, i can swear, threaten violence, even involove the police, but why on earth couldnt the said memeber just delete the photo.?He was darn right obnoxious, and well intent on carrying on what he was doing.!
Well beleive it or not,im a normal person, with an opinion too, just like everyone else on sh, and its so unfair that we have to put up with these said idiots(ad i hate using that word, but alas thats what this member is).
all respect due to Ant and Laura the hosts of the social, they specifically had a sign on entering the social asking after all the trouble at a meet the other week, could there be no photos or videoing done at their social last this memeber still carried on doing what he thought he could do ....
also, Antand Laura were told about this member,and what he had done, and was still trying to do,and they did ask him to to stop and delete the photo, yet , the said member, still refused.!
So i ask you whats next? When will sh, be positive and make a decision to protect the members on the site one way or another?Surely, we shouldnt have to put up with the abuse , the nastiness,the arguement,all because we dont want to be on someone elses pictures? I am human after all, and i dont want to be on them.(my choice!)
And i will be reporting this member to sh admin, for the peace of mind of all sh members, not just me , who wish to remain annonymous for their own reasons..
I'll await any relies, thanks..
Mrs Benson (who wants to stay away from pictures)please?
Quote by army24831203
sorry we will not be able to make it on sat as kris is not well sorry again love ron

I thought it was friday night????? or was i wrong????
we thought it was friday too army, but hey, who cares? friday and sat if you like! more time for dancing, drinking, and socialising.....
(in no particular order )lol
nearly there, not long to go, till the festive partying begins eh?
ho ho ho!
mr and mrs benson xxxxx
hi mr and mrs sexy ,
we definatley joinig you both on friday night....
well, that is if you let us rofl
we promise to behave, and not to have too much fun!
mr and mrs benson xxxxxx
we'd just like to say congratulations to the fockers, and a big thanks to you both for letting us members of swinging heaven share in your special night xxxx
it was lovely to be there for you both,and in the spirit of things too....
good luck for the years to come fockers xxx
Mr and Mrs Benson xxx
Hi Mr and Mrs Cockslut,
count us pair in hun xxxxx
One question though, ... will we have sobered up by the 11th to drive? pmsl
Ohhh dont you just love christmas? lol
Mr and Mrs B xxxx
Quote by Kate_Ronnie_4Fun
So sorry we are going to have to cancel, gutted as fockers a fab couple and wanted to celebrate with everyone.
See you all soon
Kate & Ronnie
xx

Aw such a shame kate and ronnie you cant make it, we wanted to see your white bits lol that is presuming you still got them?lol
mr and mrs benson xxxx
Quote by wrek
Probly his bedroom :shock:

do you think a four x four would get up the stairs? lol or does he live in a bunglow? lol
mrs b xxxxx
Quote by Hotnsexy_couple
can ya put us down please for the meet althought does it matter if ya dont turn up in fancy dress coz thiswould be our first meet, let us know please

hi hotnsexy,
dont worry bout not turning up in fancy dress , its wont be in fancy dress either, although some may think we have tried rofl
be nice to see you both, mr and mrs b xxx
Quote by sword-stileto
Has anyone been to this new mecca for nocturnal naughtyness yet?? wink & if so is it worth the drive out as we planned to go last night but were just too tired after work :cry: .

hi sword, how can we go to this "great place" when we not been given the instructions love? lol unless you'll unlighten us ? lol
mrs benson
Quote by robnju
redface oh mrs b lol rob says he not wearing pants biggrin

Thats fine by me ju! but please warn rob that there will be an arch of ladies at the door to walk through and inspect all the sexy underwear or lack of it! pmsl So i hope it wont be a cold night rofl xxxxx
Big whoop for the Cocks,
Excellent night, really lovely place, great atmsophere,absolutly FANTASTIC people...
We had a ball, thankyou!
And too everyone that made that extra special effort, of actually getting out from behind their computer screens , a big thankyou for making the night go without any hitches....it was lovely to be part of a special gathering..
and to all those i didnt get around to , if we dont see you in the next few weeks,(Fockers wedding night, Notts xmas social ect ect.)may both Mr B and myself wish you all a beautiful and exciting christmas xxxxxxx
Quote by cockslut
right been informed by mrs b lol we girls gotta wear thigh boots lol and boys gotta wear sexy under wear so get ur kits sorted see ya sat nite cocky xxxx

Oi Oi! Mrs Cock, i like how i get the blame for this idea hun lol Well...... truth be known i didnt want to be the only lady wearing thigh boots,(as per your initial suggestion Mrs Cock) lol And as for the men in sexy underwear....i wonder whose idea that was then? i certainly know it wasnt mine, (cos i like my men without underwear on !easy access! lol)
See you all soon xxxxxxxx
hi jason, would love to fine out where the new site is, having been to blidworth lately its a crazy place, full of boy racers, comparing cars rofl. if you got a new site, please may we have it?
thanks mrs and mr b