This issue being discussed here is a good thing. I saw the BBC report and listened to the wife's interview. I did wonder why she allowed an abusive partner to get away with it for so long. I did once have an experience where the wife was led blindfolded into a hotel room where I was waiting. I felt uncomfortable as I wasn't sure she was happy with the set up. She only spoke once to say hi quietly as the husband placed her hand on my body.
I ask her if she's OK, she nodded. The husband was instructing initially but once we got going she took charge. Even though she didn't speak, I kept asking if she's OK, and each time, she nodded with a smile. Would have been nice to see her eyes, but I guess that's her thing.
We fucked for about 20 mins, I allowed her to dictate the tempo and how it all went. At the end the husband said thank you and led her out still blindfolded.
