Quote by freckledbird

The Couples Purity League strikes again..... Those who want to swing on their own and are not part of a couple are single .... some may tell their partners , some may not... its down to them to decide not someone else.. very difficult area so why go there... how many couples tell their friends and family what they do? ..very few because they don't want moralising people making judgements about them...... too close to home?

Quote by freckledbird
You're not single!
Hi I am Blake45 - I some ways I am your typical guy who has a partner whose interest in sex has diminished and so he is looking for some no strings fun because he has a high sex drive and wants more from life. Ok I would like great sex - who doesn't! But for me I like chats, laugh and some fun as well. I am intelligent with the usual GSOH and anatomically in good working order and don't need to boast. I feel really great sex comes from getting the chemistry working well. So some chats to start with would be good. I am looking for a woman who also wants some no strings discrete usually daytime fun... Ideally in Lancashire.....North West .....Could that be you?

Quote by Wishmaster
You have that 'itch' that you feel needs scratching .. but you are asking us to scratch it when you should be asking your partner..
Is swinging for you? .... it sounds to me that you are an intelligent person - your post proves that - but you must now ask yourself: can you have unemotional sex with relative strangers?
Answer that question and see where your road lies. We'll embrace anyone who knows what they want but do not ask us to travel on a journey blindly where only you know where it leads. We have feelings too.

Quote by lusty_modesty
A few years ago I would have never imagined joining a sex related internet community and I used to think online sex chats were only for perverts. Now I don’t know what’s gotten into me but I’m probably heading towards a mini form of mid-life-crisis as I haven’t hit the big 40 yet. Anyway recently someone’s wife walked out just weeks before her big 40 after 13 years of marriage.
Although it was a great shock, I found myself sympathizing with her to some extent with what being married even longer than her. Life sucks and in particular the sex life. I’ve heard a zillion times from married people that their sex life is non existent. It seems weird that people get married only to end up sexually miserable and frustrated having much lesser sex and lousy, boring one at that!
Not surprising there are so many divorces and couple fall out of love because they are no longer sexually attracted to each other to want to enjoy sex. I see movies like ‘American Beauty’ and say, ‘Shit, that’s so true reflection about married life’. I sometimes feel maybe people marry the wrong person in terms of sexual compatibility. Perhaps a man with high sex drive should never marry a woman with much lower sex drive no matter how much he thinks he’s in love because the relationship will only end in tears and frustrations.
For the brave couple, I guess swinging can work to their great benefit, provided they’re able to distance themselves from the emotional engagement of fucking someone other than their partner. For the not so brave, what are the other options? Personally, I think I’d like a brand new man (fitting all your desired attributes) every two years, being newly in love, doing the romance thing, the exciting sex and after the honeymoon period starts to wear off, you get to move on to the next man (e.g. next woman for a man). If only life was that easy and you could move from one man to another as they pass on a conveyor belt.
Thus I think I’ve developed a strange perversion on learning about what other people do to spice up their sex life. I guess I could be a ‘watcher’ of a dogging session, LOL to myself. I’d sure as hell love to go to swinging party just to watch the adult action; even then I’d probably complain the fuck sessions aren’t as visually good as the studio porno ones. I also enjoy listening to other guys stories of their great ‘sexcapades’, yet these guys are never the ones I fancy enough to want to have sex with them. If I did, I wouldn’t be talking to them about sex in the first place. I'm enjoying reading up the erotic stories from this site but sometimes I think there tends to be an exaggeration about cum shallowing. I mean do women really lick everything up? Even pornstars do it half heartedly.

Quote by equi-princess
Kissing can take so many different forms.....
The light 'air' kiss designed to greet those you dont really wish to connect with....
The gentle kiss on the cheek for friends and family....
The lightest brush of your lips on that special person... whom you are kissing for the first time...
The deepening kiss, entwining your tongues sensually around eachother... the long lingering kiss of passionate desire.. the precursor to more delights.....
and many more ............. lol
If you had to describe your kiss... how would you define it? it doesn't have to fall into any of the groups i've suggested above.... but a simple description in your own words......
How do you kiss??????????????
equi-princess xxx

Quote by soupdragon69
Hi Blake45
I took some stick when I posted that I was after fome fun and games behind my partners back, I'm presuming you are after the same (forgive me if yours knows all about your adventures). Have you had much of a responce as jet? I', just trying to get a feel of what the women on the forums think of infidelity. As I said I've been told that I might be out of luck as most people on here frown upon it Can't a guy have any fun these days? Hope you get lucky anyway

Quote by hotcoupleincar
:uhoh: This we must admit may be a bit of a dark post. :uhoh:
But with whats going on in the world these days, what with freak weather and crazy
wars, an up surge in terror, giant wave's etc etc.
What could be next, is it time for the next big bang.
So would anyone like to hazard a guess at the next big disaster to happen and maybe
find out if the next Nostradamus is a member of SH .
P.S No prize for the winner :cry:
could get my tits out hwoar: , is that a prize, could be to some

Quote by treasurechest
I mean what turns you on about us..
I am in my 40s ......oo yes I am broad minded .....should no by now all the ins and outs of sex ........
But have you every considered that now......... some of the positions you would like us into .....we cannot do it !!....
Forget about sitting on top........... no thank you I am afraid that I would get stuck. and have imaginings of me being rushed in to hospital to be prised apart! :eeek:
Deep throat oral!..........bugger off mate........... might give me lock jaw ..... ..
Taking me from behind............ ok but where’s the cushion for me arthritic knees! Bloody painful uch:

Do not what ever you do.................. look to closely up are noise. ....... we have hair that grows like triffeds ..........so be careful they do not jump out and get ya! :scared:
Piles!!............ o yes the piles. ......... well have you ever smelt that stuff............. they call Anisole phew!!.. ......... so don’t get to close down there mate unless you don’t have a good sense of smell
And please .........do not pull to hard on are hair ..........as you might end up with a hand full.. or a wig!
And watch out for the false nails eeekkkkkkkkkkk .......... have to have them!.........after years of washing up are nails just have disintegrated ......
.and never ask us to give you anal by hand .............if you do please make sure you ask us to remove false nails first or you could find one up ya bum
And if you think you would like to give us a massager please be care full ...............and make sure you use a lot of oil....... as are skin is a little thinner now days....... and would like some skin left on please!
OOOO and the teeth!!....how could I....... nearly forget about the teeth... :doh: .......... well just don’t stick ya tongue in to much and riddle it around............. or you could end up with a veneer stuck to the end of it!....and we will sue you ...........has they cost us a fortune!
O and don’t think with have more money... . we spend it all on cosmetics hiding all the things we don’t want you to see!
You think we have more time.............. yove got to be joking ............. to busy applying are make up!...and going to beauty parlours with cross fingers that they might make us look 20 years younger!
So you still like older women?
Debs not doing her self any justice here..Me and my big mouth!
:doh:
DEbs goes off line to order some more pellet knives!
see you later! ....what your not intetereasted any more! :dunno: :D

Quote by reddevil555
so, whos from where, roughly, basicly north south etc?

Quote by Debbiewebs
I mean what turns you on about us..
I am in my 40s ......oo yes I am broad minded .....should no by now all the ins and outs of sex ........
But have you every considered that now......... some of the positions you would like us into .....we cannot do it !!....
Forget about sitting on top........... no thank you I am afraid that I would get stuck. and have imaginings of me being rushed in to hospital to be prised apart! :eeek:
Deep throat oral!..........bugger off mate........... might give me lock jaw ..... ..
Taking me from behind............ ok but where’s the cushion for me arthritic knees! Bloody painful uch:

Do not what ever you do.................. look to closely up are noise. ....... we have hair that grows like triffeds ..........so be careful they do not jump out and get ya! :scared:
Piles!!............ o yes the piles. ......... well have you ever smelt that stuff............. they call Anisole phew!!.. ......... so don’t get to close down there mate unless you don’t have a good sense of smell
And please .........do not pull to hard on are hair ..........as you might end up with a hand full.. or a wig!
And watch out for the false nails eeekkkkkkkkkkk .......... have to have them!.........after years of washing up are nails just have disintegrated ......
.and never ask us to give you anal by hand .............if you do please make sure you ask us to remove false nails first or you could find one up ya bum
And if you think you would like to give us a massager please be care full ...............and make sure you use a lot of oil....... as are skin is a little thinner now days....... and would like some skin left on please!
OOOO and the teeth!!....how could I....... nearly forget about the teeth... :doh: .......... well just don’t stick ya tongue in to much and riddle it around............. or you could end up with a veneer stuck to the end of it!....and we will sue you ...........has they cost us a fortune!
O and don’t think with have more money... . we spend it all on cosmetics hiding all the things we don’t want you to see!
You think we have more time.............. yove got to be joking ............. to busy applying are make up!...and going to beauty parlours with cross fingers that they might make us look 20 years younger!
So you still like older women?
Debs not doing her self any justice here..Me and my big mouth!
:doh:
DEbs goes off line to order some more pellet knives!
see you later! ....what your not intetereasted any more! :dunno: :D

Quote by Nat
well done a positive result, and does show that us males, well can be genuine.

Quote by Vicky_uk
I prefer the word play

Quote by wales_cple
Used love a good fiddle but have been advised by my doctor to leave well alone.
Bad case of repetative stress syndrome in the gristle on the back of my hand...

Quote by little gem
Well Mr.D..... I can't help with the name but if you ever fancy watching :twisted:
:rascal:
;)