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Sexlightened
We have a choice of TWO venues for our members to choose from this weekend, and this is the opportunity that our NORTHERN based members can indulge in some BMFC fun too
Date - Friday 25th May
Venue – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
The Townhouse has quickly become a fantastic haven for our BMFC members that live ‘North of the Smoke’
The owners are super friendly and really do know what their guests want
The venue is only 6 years old and still has that new feel about it, plus you can tell that a lady has played a huge part in the design and layout as the finishing touches really ARE the things that us girls appreciate
There are two social areas, a dance-floor, pole, Jacuzzi, power shower, lockers, hairdryers, sauna, communal playrooms, private lockable rooms, dungeon and a pool table too!!!
It’s a bring your own booze venue, meaning that your costs really are kept to a minimum
So come on, I honestly can’t think of a better way to unwind after a stressful week, than to get in a Jacuzzi with a load of BMFC members, the sexiest people on this planet!!!
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies – FREE
Couples - £25
Single Guys - £30

Please note – the owners have a SINGLE GUY deal for BMFC Parties ONLY …. 5 guys BOOKED in with me at the same time and ARRIVING at the same time will ONLY PAY FOR 4 ….. (this certainly makes that road trip for any LONDON GUYS worthwhile now??)
Doors open at …. No admission after 11pm …. Chucking out time 5am
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Date - Saturday 26th May
Venue – FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
FUNTIME is the venue were the SERIOUS players come to!!
Even though there are social areas, this venue has been designed with the focus on PLAY, so bear that in mind when attending!!
It’s a bring your own booze venue, and the owners even provide a free buffet at MIDNIGHT to top up your energy levels!!!
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies – £5
Couples - £20
Single Guys - £40

Note – prices increase for guests that arrive AFTER midnight!!
Doors open at 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
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Wanna join in the fun?? …. Then waste no time … Get your names to me ASAP
See you all at what’s looking to be a BUSY weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
The sun’s shining which usually makes BMFC members feel even friskier than normal and judging by Saturday’s guest list, it seems that you will be out in full force!!
Date – Saturday 19th May
Venue – Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
This is the venue where guests really do make an effort so we have a VERY STRICT dress code and we ENFORCE it too (every month we signpost guests to a leading 24hour Super Market to buy trousers or shoes, so you have been warned!)
Dress Code for RADLETT - NO JEANS, NO TRAINERS and NO SPORTSWEAR (guests that arrive wearing these items will be refused admission) – Trust me guys, the ladies really do find ‘slick’ guys attractive!!!
RADLETT is the party that probably feels less like a ‘swingers party’ and more like a naughty house party
RADLETT is a great venue for ‘newbies’ and experienced guests alike
It is an ideal venue for socializing and the dance-floor is always rammed with sexy guests as this is often where the flirting begins
Remember – the BMFC have a very strict NO PRESSURE policy, which means that NO GUESTS should EVER feel obliged to play
So, dance the night away, mingle with guests, sit in the jacuzzi, frolic in the pool or take to the play-rooms … the choice is YOURS!!!
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £30
Couples - £25
Single Ladies - £5
NOTE – Prices increase for guests that arrive AFTER MIDNIGHT!!!
Doors open – 10pm ….. No Admission after midnight (unless by prior arrangement) ….. Chucking out time 6am
Bring your own booze, but buy non-alcoholic drinks at the venue
See you all on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Tonights guest list is looking HOT HOT HOT!!!
Remember, couples who arrive at this venue BEFIRE get in for £10 ....
You know you love a bargain, so hope your name is on the guest list!!???
Sexlightened
Last month saw 157 ‘sexy as hell’ guests at HELLFIRE – making it THE hottest party this year!!
Many were first time visitors and many returned for my special Birthday Bash, but EVERYONE commented that this venue is CLASSY, SPOTLESS and has GREAT facilities
Plus the owners have some BRILLIANT special offers for a REDUCED admission price
So, if you haven’t yet been there on a BMFC night or you are a HELLFIRE fan, why not come along and join us on SATURDAY??
Date – Saturday 12th May
Venue - HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Thames, (just outside Kingston) South London
Doors open at 10pm …. No Admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £30(before 11pm) £45 (after )
Couples - £10(before ) £25 (before 11pm) £35 (After )
Single Ladies - £5 (before 11pm) £10 (after )
Remember, the later you arrive, the higher the entrance fee - so PLAN YOUR JORNEY in advance to ensure you get the best bargain!!
The crew are waiting to do the ‘newbie’ tours, DJ TOM BROWN has the best tracks lined up on his play list to get the party started, the HUMMER is parked up, ready for its indoor dogging fans, and the play-rooms are prepared to be used …
The guest list is already looking ‘exciting’ so if you haven’t yet had YOUR place confirmed, then get back to me NOW or you may miss the fun!!
Take care till Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Well even this recent crappy weather doesn’t dampen our member’s excitement to party
Plus remember it’s a BANK HOLIDAYthis weekend and what better way to have some well-deserved fun, than to attend AROUSALS as it’s always guaranteed to be a full house when the BMFC are there!!!!
The guest list for SATURDAY’s party is filling up nicely, so if you haven’t already secured your place, then I suggest that you do it quickly while there’s still space available
Date – Saturday 5th May
Venue – AROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton, Bedfordshire
Theme – UNIFORMS (themes are ALWAYS optional, but there are prizes on offer and trust me, the guests who join in tend to be the most popular during the evening!)
Doors Open 10pm …. NO ADMISSION AFTER 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £35
Couples - £25
Single Ladies - £5

Remember, prices increase at MIDNIGHT – so to avoid any squabbling at the entrance, get there EARLY!!!
But why AROUSALS?
AROUSALS is a firm favourite amongst BMFC members and the attendance figures confirm that, as we rarely get fewer than 110 guests at every BMFC AROUSALS Party
Why is it so popular? – Possibly due to the 8 lockable private playrooms, the 13 communal play areas, the large dance-floor, the sound-proof booth or the large cinema
… Or maybe it’s because BMFC members are the SEXIEST people on the planet!!!!
I am also pleased to announce that the venue has recently undergone some re-decoration too - improvements have been made to the male and female toilets, some of the play areas, the bar area and the entrance hall
• So, if you haven’t visited AROUSALS for a while, why not take this opportunity to do so
• If you’ve NEVER attended AROUSALS yet, the time couldn’t be better for you
• Or if you are one of the many AROUSALS regulars come on and take a peep at the improvements
Just remember, that places are always LIMITED and this WILL be a BIG BASH so don’t waste too much time deliberating, get your names to me ASAP so that you too can join in the fun!!
See you all on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
This should certainly help all of our members who like to get organised
Here’s a list of the parties for MAY, including prices, themes, door times etc
So get the dates in your diary, book your baby sitters, sort out your accommodation, and finalise your travel arrangements
Saturday 5th May - BANK HOLIDAY WEEKEND!!! – AROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton
Theme – UNIFORMS(themes are OPTIONAL, but trust me, the guests who make an effort are the ones who get the most attention!)
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Single Guys - £35 …. Couples - £25 …Single Ladies - £5

Prices increase after midnight
Saturday 12th May – HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Themes, South London
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £30 … Couples - £10(between 10pm and ) … Single Ladies £5
Prices increase the later you arrive!!!
Saturday 19th May– Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
Doors open 10pm … No admission after MIDNIGHT … Chucking out time 6am
Single Guys - £30 …. Couples - £25 … Single Ladies £5

Prices increase after midnight
Friday 25th May – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
Doors open … No admission after 11pm …. Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £30 …. Couples - £25 …Single Ladies - FREE

NB - Special GROUP DISCOUNT available for single guys (contact me for more information)
Saturday 26th May – FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am … Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £40 … Couples - £20 …. Single Ladies - £5

Prices increase after midnight
Interested? … Make sure you contact me ASAP if you want to ensure a place on a guest list as many places have already been secured for each of the parties
Take care till next month
x Helen x
Sexlightened
The guest lists have been open all month and boy do we have some SEXY members already on them …..
This weekend is the time when the BMFC comes NORTH, so this is a great opportunity for our NORTHERN based members to have their BMFC experience too
Check out the special TOWNOUSEdeal below which may also excite some of our LONDON guys to do a ‘road trip’ as there really are PERKS APLANTY in Liverpool!!! … ;)
TOWNHOUSE has also extended their party hours too, meaning that you all have even MORE time to have FUN!!!
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Date - Friday 27th April
Venue – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
The Townhouse has quickly become a fantastic haven for our BMFC members that live ‘North of the Smoke’
The owners are super friendly and really do know what their guests want
The venue is only 6 years old and still has that new feel about it, plus you can tell that a lady has played a huge part in the design and layout as the finishing touches really ARE the things that us girls appreciate
There are two social areas, a dance-floor, pole, Jacuzzi, power shower, lockers, hairdryers, sauna, communal playrooms, private lockable rooms, dungeon and a pool table too!!!
It’s a bring your own booze venue, meaning that your costs really are kept to a minimum
So come on, I honestly can’t think of a better way to unwind after a stressful week, than to get in a Jacuzzi with a load of BMFC members, the sexiest people on this planet!!!
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies – FREE
Couples - £25
Single Guys - £30

Please note – the owners have a SINGLE GUY deal for BMFC Parties ONLY …. 5 guys BOOKED in with me at the same time and ARRIVING at the same time will ONLY PAY FOR 4 ….. (this certainly makes that road trip for any LONDON GUYS worthwhile now??)
Doors open at …. No admission after 11pm …. Chucking out time 5am
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Date - Saturday 28th April
Venue – FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London Single Ladies – £5
Couples - £20
Single Guys - £40

Note – prices increase for guests that arrive AFTER midnight!!
Doors open at 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
……………………………………………………….
Wanna join in the fun?? …. Then waste no time … Get your names to me ASAP
See you all at what’s looking to be a BUSY weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
No plans for this evening??
Then if you are a COUPLE or SINGLE LADY we can squeeze you onto the guest list ...
Come on, you know you wanna .... ;)
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Well it seems like APRIL really is the month that the BMFC members have been coming out to play!!
Maybe it’s because Spring is in the Air?? … Who knows?
But what I DO know is that the last two parties have seen attendance of 140+ guests!!
Saturday’s guest list for RADLETT is looking HOT HOT HOT, so if you haven’t yet had your place secured, I suggest you contact me ASAP
Date – Saturday 21st April
Venue – Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
RADLETT is the party that probably feels less like a ‘swingers party’ and more like a naughty house party
RADLETT is a great venue for ‘newbies’ and experienced guests alike
It is an ideal venue for socializing and the dance-floor is always rammed with sexy guests as this is often where the flirting begins ;)
Remember – the BMFC have a very strict NO PRESSURE policy, which means that NO GUESTS should EVER feel obliged to play
So, dance the night away, mingle with guests, sit in the jacuzzi, frolic in the pool or take to the play-rooms … the choice is YOURS!!!
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £30
Couples - £25
Single Ladies - £5

NOTE – Prices increase for guests that arrive AFTER MIDNIGHT!!!
Doors open – 10pm ….. No Admission after midnight (unless by prior arrangement) ….. Chucking out time 6am
Bring your own booze, but buy non-alcoholic drinks at the venue
See you all on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Wow!!! ..... We have 60+ LADIES attending tomorrows party - lets just hope that the guys have a good nights sleep tonight!!! .... ;)
Sexlightened
Oh what a party we had on Saturday @ AROUSALS – 148 super sexually charged guests!!
Rumour has it that SATURDAY’s Party at HELLFIRE is going to be just as busy – as it’s MY BIRTHDAY BASH ;)
This is a great opportunity for MEto give something back to YOU, my loyal members
And trust me, I have LOADS of freebies arranged for you all – but places at this party will be LIMITED so get your names to me NOW to avoid disappointment
There are already 78 on the guest list, so I think you all know where you need to be on Saturday ;)
Date – Saturday 14th April
Venue – HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Thames, South London (
Theme – MY Birthday Bash!!!
Doors open 10pm …. NO ADMISSION after MIDNIGHT (unless by prior arrangement) …. Chucking out time 5am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies - £5 (£10 after )
Couples - £10(until ) … £25 (until 11pm) … £35 (after )
Single Guys - £30(£45 after )
Above prices includes free raffles, Birthday Cake, Rum Punch, Nibbles, and a special ‘Birthday Gift for everyone from lil ole me!
Plus of course I am proud to announce the return of TYSON BROWN- our female members favourite Male Stripper
PLEASE NOTE – TYSON will be performing at MIDNIGHT!!!
And guys, remember, wherever there is a MALE STRIPPER, the ladies will be there in DROVES!!!
So, don’t waste too much time as the remaining places WILL go fast!!!
See you all on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
The guest list for Saturdays Party is looking as SEXY AS .... ;)
Judging by the numbers already on it, i estimate that theres going to be at LEAST 110 guests going through the doors - so this is certainly one party NOT TO BE MISSED!!!
Unfortunately i've reached my single guy quota, so unable to accept anymore
However, we will ALWAYS manage to squeeze in couples and single ladies
So ladies, if you fancy some CHOCOLATE this EASTER but dont want to put on the calories, then SATURDAYS BMFC Party is the place for you!! ;)
Sexlightened
The guest lists has been open for several weeks for ALL BMFC Parties in April and the ‘organised’ BMFC members have already secured their places for the parties that they want to attend
If you are someone that likes to fly by the seat of your pants - that is known to friends as being a ‘last minute dot com’ kind of person, then I suggest that you contact me NOW if you want to join us as it really is the ONLY way to avoid any disappointment ?
Date – Saturday 7th April
Venue – AROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton, Bedfordshire
Doors Open 10pm …. NO ADMISSION AFTER 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £35
Couples - £25
Single Ladies - £5

Remember, prices increase at MIDNIGHT – so to avoid any squabbling at the entrance, get there EARLY!!!
But why AROUSALS?
AROUSALS is a firm favourite amongst BMFC members and the attendance figures confirm that, as we rarely get fewer than 110 guests at every BMFC AROUSALS Party
Why is it so popular? – Possibly due to the 6 lockable private playrooms, the 13 communal play areas, the large dance-floor, the sound-proof booth or the large cinema …
Or maybe it’s because BMFC members are the SEXIEST people on the planet!!!!
I am also pleased to announce that the venue has recently been undergoing some re-decoration too - improvements have been made to the male and female toilets and the entrance hall
• So, if you haven’t visited AROUSALS for a while, why not take this opportunity to do so
• If you’ve NEVER attended AROUSALS yet, the time couldn’t be better for you
• Or if you are one of the many AROUSALS regulars come on and take a peep at the improvements
Just remember, that places are always LIMITED so don’t waste too much time deliberating, get your names to me ASAP so that you too can join in the fun!!
See you all soon
x Helen x
Sexlightened
This post should certainly help those who like to get organised
Here’s a list of the parties for APRIL , including prices, themes, door times etc
So get the dates in your diary, book your baby sitters, sort out your accommodation, and finalise your travel arrangements
Remember, to let me know WHICH party you want to attend as this will prevent a very tiresome game of email ping pong!!
Saturday 7th AprilAROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Single Guys - £35 …. Couples - £25 …Single Ladies - £5
Prices increase after midnight
Saturday 14th AprilHELLFIRE, Sunbury on Themes, South London
Theme – Helens Birthday Bash
Loads of FREE gifts for guests, plus special performance from TYSON BROWN
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £30 … Couples - £10 (between 10pm and ) … Single Ladies £5
Prices increase the later you arrive!!!
Saturday 21st April– Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
Doors open 10pm … No admission after MIDNIGHT … Chucking out time 6am
Single Guys - £30 …. Couples - £25 … Single Ladies £5
Prices increase after midnight
Friday 27th AprilTOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
Doors open … No admission after 11pm …. Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £30 …. Couples - £25 …Single Ladies - FREE
Saturday 28th AprilFUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
Doors open 10pm … No admission after 1am … Chucking out time 5am
Single Guys - £40 … Couples - £20 …. Single Ladies - £5
Prices increase after midnight
Interested? … Make sure you contact me ASAP if you want to ensure a place on a guest list as many places have already been secured for each of the parties
Take care
x Helen x
Sexlightened
If you haven’t yet had your place confirmed, but you want to join us at either party this weekend, then I suggest you get back to me ASAP while there are still places available
Remember, to let me know WHICH party you want to attend as this will prevent a very tiresome game of email ping pong!!
So come on, you know you wanna have fun this weekend and where else can you go that ALWAYSdelivers value for money, always has the sexiest guests and ALWAYS manages to pull in the numbers!!??
Don’t waste too much time, get back to me ASAP or you may be disappointed
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Spring is certainly in the Air at the moment smile
The hem lines get shorter as the temperatures rise which usually makes us mortals even more horny than normal!!
Well do not fear, the BMFC is here and we have two FANTASTICparties for you to attend this weekend if you fancy having some fun with likeminded adults ….
Date - FRIDAY 23rd March
Venue – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
This is a fantastic venue ideally situated for our Northern based members.
Scousers are renowned for their hospitality, friendliness and sense of humour and the Townhouse locals really are the salt of the earth!!
The staff at this club do their best to make everyone feel at home and they go out of their way to ensure that all guests feel comfortable and safe
The venue has some great facilities and really does have ‘something for everyone’ but somehow it still manages to retain an intimate feel too
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £30
Couples £25
Single Ladies – FREE

Doors open at …. No admission after 10pm … Chucking out time 3am
So, why not end your stressful week, by joining us all in the Jacuzzi on Friday?
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Date – SATURDAY 24th March
Venue – FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
This venue is now becoming a firm favourite for our hardcore exhibitionist players due to the layout of this ‘no frills’ club
The guests that attend the BMFC Parties here, still expect the high standard of etiquette but let’s just say ‘they aint going for tea and biscuits!’ … ;)
This venue is one of our smallest in the London area - we get an average of 60 guests here making it ideal for members who don’t like big crowds ;)
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £40
Couples £20
Single Ladies – £5 (all evening)

Prices increase after midnight, so get there early!!
Doors open at 10pm …. No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 5am
Admission prices include Finger buffet served at MIDNIGHT
So come on, what are you waiting for?
You know the dates, the venues and the prices – all that you have to do now is get your names to me and you too will be joining in the fun
The only thing stopping you from attending is YOU!
Hope to hear from you soon
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Oh my dayz!! …. Trust me when i say that I’ve never seen a HOTTER guest list!!
131 guestsare on it so far and its increasing EVERY DAY!!!
Miss this party and you will be disappointed because EVERYONE is coming out from under the rocks to be here!
Single guysALL SINGLE PLACES HAVE BEEN ALLOCATED- wanting to come to a BMFC PartyISNTthe time to be too kool for skool!!
Couples / Single Ladies– we will accept names right up until the day of the party, however the ONLY way to guarantee a place is by contacting me ASAP
Take care till Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
It was 7 years ago that I organized the FIRST BMFC Party and boy have we grown since then!!
Saturday is our 7th Anniversary Bashat RADLETTand its YOUR chance to join in the celebrations
Maybe you haven’t attended an event for quite some time? – well THIS is your chance to see how things have progressed
Maybe you have NEVER joined us? – well come on, step out of the shadows as this party is going to be a SELL OUT
Maybe you are a BMFC regular? - well THIS is ONE bash you WONT want to miss because the guests are coming out of the woodwork!!!
Date – Saturday 17th March
Venue – Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
Theme – BMFC 7th Birthday Bash – with a St Patricks Day Twist – Wear Something GREEN!!!
Obviously, our themed events are OPTIONAL, but there is an opportunity for those that DO participate to win FREE ADMISSIONto a BMFC Party in APRIL
Doors open at 10pm …. No admission after MIDNIGHT …. Chucking out time 6am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies - £10 all evening
Couples - £35 before midnight
(£40 after midnight)
Single Guys - £40 before midnight(£45 after midnight)
NOTE – ADMISSION increases for guests that arrive AFTER midnight so get there EARLY and save yourself some money!!!
Above prices include catering from MAMMA G’S KITCHEN– Home-made soul food (patties, salt fish fritters, southern fried chicken, coleslaw, carrot cake etc) plus some traditional IRISH FAVOURITES too – Irish Stew, Soda Bread, and Colcannon
This party has been advertised for 2 weeks and there are already over 70 people on the guest list, so believe me when I say, you need to contact me NOW to secure your place!!!
Single Guys – the ONLY way to get your name on the guest list is by FOLLOWING THE PARTY PROCESS as advertised on the BMFC website - i can not stress this enough as failure to provide me with all of the relative information WILL lessen your chances of joining in the fun!!!
Single Ladies / Couples – Don’t waste too much time, get your names to me ASAP
So, if you haven’t yet planned your weekend fun, look no further, as you wont regret coming with us to RADLETT on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
If you haven’t already had your place confirmed for SATURDAYS party @ HELLFIRE, then I suggest that you do so NOW
Last month saw the introduction of our price restructure which meant that response was high
We have reduced admission prices and trust me, if you get there EARLY you will certainly pick up a bargain!!!
HELLFIRE is such a classy club - not only does it have 3 communal play-areas, a well-equipped Dungeon, 5 lockable playrooms, cinema, and a lovely dance-flooor, but it also boasts the UK’S FIRST EVER indoor dogging area (always very popular amongst the BMFC members!)
So, don’t waste too much time folks … Last month we had 97 guests attend this party, 43 of them were inside the venue BEFORE !!
HELLFIRE is the venue to attend if you like FUN but you also appreciate CLASS
So come on – What are you waiting for??
You know that attending a BMFC party is always about value for money, and this venue really does deliver that, as so many of our members like to grab a bargain when they see one!!!
See you all on Saturday
x Helen x
Sexlightened
This weekend we have on offer TWOBMFC Parties, in TWO very different geographical locations
XTASIA – West Midlands
HELLFIRE – Sunbury on Thames, South London

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Date - Friday 9th March
Venue – XTASIA, West Bromwich
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies – FREE
Couples - £15
Single Guys - £35

Doors open – 8pm … No admission after MIDNIGHT … Chucking out time – 3am
Xtasia is a great venue for members that are looking for that ‘night club’ feel.
It is a long established Swingers Club that caters for everyone’s needs, with a variety of play areas to suite most guests.
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Date – Saturday 10th March
Venue – HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Thames, South London
REVISED Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies - £5 (£10 after )
Couples - £10 (until ) … £25 (until 11pm) … £35 (after )
Single Guys - £30 (£45 after )

Above prices increase, the later you arrive – so get there early!!!
Doors open – 10pm … No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time - 5am
Remember, HELLFIRE is the venue that hosts the FIRST ever indoor dogging area – always very popular with our guests ;)
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BMFC Parties are ALWAYS full of sexy, liberated, friendly, fun guests – so why not come along and join us all ….
But don’t just take MY word for it, why not check out the independent reviews on SWINGING HEAVEN http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-3307.html
Come on, you know you want to have some fun this weekend – you only live once!!!!
Contact me NOW while there’s still spaces available
Take care till the weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Amazing response to both parties this weekend
All the single guy places have been allocated, but we will ALWAYS find a way of squeezing in couples and single ladies ;)
Interested? ... Drop me a line ASAP
Sexlightened
The guest lists have been open for both parties for the last 2 weeks, and they are looking HOT!!! … so if you haven’t yet had your place confirmed, then I suggest that you get in touch with me now while there are still places available
Remember – Single guys, your deadline is ALWAYS a WEDNESDAY before a party – miss it, miss out ….
Couples / Single ladies – no deadline, just get your names to me ASAP so that you too can join in the fun!!
So what’s in store this weekend??
Date - Friday 2nd March
Venue – EUREKA, Fawkham, Kent
This is the newest addition to the BMFC range of venues, but unlike our others, we do NOT hold parties there every month – so if you fancy checking out this place, then you need to do it now as we won’t be there again until JUNE!!!
EUREKA, is a great way to end a stressful week at work, as you can unwind in the Jacuzzi or let off steam in the sauna, before taking to the dance-floor to show off your moves to the other guests!!
Last month saw 103 sexy guests at EUREKA, and the feedback was brilliant, plus have you seen the admission costs?? …. I honestly don’t know of ANY other party around that’s offering so much for so little!! ….
Doors open – 8pm … Chucking out time 2am(music will be switched off and lights turned on, but guests will have a further 1 hour to finish off play ;))
Party Contribution Costs
Single guys - £20
Couples - £15
Single Ladies – FREE

Bring your own booze – Be your own bartender!!
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Date – Saturday 3rd March
Venue – AROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton
There is no doubting that AROUSALS is a fantastic venue, and lets face it, the attendance figures speak for themselves
Guests return month after month because they know that when they attend a BMFC party there, all of their fantasies can come true
AROUSALS facilities cater for everyone, whether you prefer privacy or if you are a total exhibitionist, there really is a play area for you
Alternatively, the social areas are huge, allowing guests’ space to chill, flirt, dance and meet new friends ;)
Doors Open 10pm …. No admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £35
Couples - £25
Single Ladies - £5

Prices increase for guests that arrive AFTER MIDNIGHT!!
Bring your own booze, but buy soft drinks there!
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So, now you know all of the details, what are you waiting for? …. If you have never yet attended a BMFC party, don’t you think it’s about time you had some FUN in your life??
See you all at the weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
We've got 7 FANTASTICBMFC Parties organised for MARCH smile
These dates have been circulated amongst our 9000+ membership and the guest lists have been steadily filling up - so if you fancy taking the plunge, contact me now to avoid disippointment!
As always, each event is in a different venue, with different facilities but ALL with the EXCEPTIONALLY HIGH STANDARDS of the BMFC guests!!!
So get your diaries out, arrange the baby sitters and book your hotels because the FUN is only just beginning!!!
Friday 2nd March- EUREKA, Fawkham, Kent - Wet 'n' Wild!!!
Saturday 3rd March- AROUSALS, Dunstable, Beds
Friday 9th March- XTASIA, West Bromwich, West Midlands
Saturday 10th March-HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Thames, Surrey
Saturday 17th March- Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire - Theme BMFC 7th Anniversary with a St Patricks Day slant!!! - Wear something GREEN - prices include catering provided by Mamma G's Kitchen
Friday 23rd MarchTOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
Saturday 24th March- FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
So, if you fancy coming along to join in the fun with other like-minded BMFC members, then get back to me to secure your place on the guest list(s) but please ensure that if you are a single guy, you FOLLOW THE PARTY PROCESS as displayed on our website
Hope to hear from you all soon, as that's the only way to secure your place on any BMFC guest list!!!
Take care and hope to see you all soon
x Helen x
Sexlightened
It was fantastic to see so many sexy guests at Saturdays party @ Radlett - There were 153 people there and the vibe was OFF THE HOOK
Thanks to everyone that came out to join us – you are all so unbelievably sexy – BMFC members really are THE BEST!!!
So, whats happening this weekend?? …. Well I have TWO great BMFC parties for you all bridging the NORTH SOUTH divide the BMFC way yet again!!
Date - Friday 24th February
Venue – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
Townhouse is a real hidden gem of a venue and I have to admit that BMFC members are so glad that I found it.
Once inside, it miraculously turns into a tardis, with a variety and choice of playrooms unfolding before you
This venue also provides an opportunity for guests to chill in the Jacuzzi after a long stressful week at work ;)
So if you have yet to experience the friendly Northern charm, not to mention the great sense of humour, mixed with the delights of our Black Guys, I suggest you get your names onto the guest list as soon as possible …
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Date – Saturday 25th February
Venue – FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
Rapidly becoming a favourite venue for those members who just want to get down and dirty!!
FUNTIME really is the venue for members who are serious about playing.
That doesn’t mean that guests leave their manners or flirting skills at the door, it just means that they aint here to dance to the latest tunes (if you know what I’m saying!)
Situated within a 5 minute stroll from Hackney Wick station, this venue really is accessible by public transport
So, if it’s fun you’re looking for on Saturday, you know where you gotta be
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So, how do you get your names on either BMFC guest list?
Single Guys– Do yourself a favour and get yourself re- acquainted with the BMFC party process displayed on the BMFC website, as trust me, failure to follow these VERY SIMPLE instructions will mean that you inevitably miss out on the party!!!
Single Ladies / Couples– Just get your names to me ASAP so that you can join in all the fun!!!
Looking forward to the weekend ahead
See you all soon
x Helen x
Sexlightened
If only you could see what I can see ……
Mmmmmmmmmmmm, I have to admit that SATURDAY’s guest list is looking pretty damn HOT!!!
SO, if you haven’t yet had your place confirmed for our Party @ RADLETT this Saturday, then I suggest you do it NOW
Unfortunately the single guy deadline was MIDNIGHT last night, so the ONLY way you will be able to join us, is by COUPLING UP!
Couples and Single Ladies – hurry up and get your names to me and you SHALL go to the ball ;)
See you all on Saturday, because you may have tried other parties, but you know that when you attend a BMFC event, we ALWAYS deliver ……
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Hate the Valentine’s Day hype?? …. Fed up being single at this time of the year?? … Or just looking to put some spice in your relationship??
Then we have JUST THE PARTY FOR YOU!!
Yes, it’s time to get your names to me for SATURDAY’S party at RADLETT
Time is running out and spaces are too, so if you want to join in the fun, I suggest you reply to this email ASAP while we still have room on the guest list
Attendance at RADLETT over the last few months has been phenomenal and the age range is getting notably younger
The dance-floor is always full and the moves are getting sexier
We have also introduced a SLICK dress code for ALL GUYSat this venue, ensuring that the guys now meet the same dress standards as the ladies who attend – and trust me guys, the ladies really do appreciate the extra time that you are now taking over your appearance here
Date – Saturday 18th February
Venue – Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire
Theme (optional) – VALENTINES DAY MASSACRE(roaring 20’s, The Great Gatsby, gangsters and molls, flapper dresses, feather boas and trilby hats!) – Prizes for the best dressed
Catering provided by our home made soul food provider MAMMA G’S KITCHEN – Salt fish fritters, meat patties, veggie patties, West Indian curry, rice and peas, seasoned meat balls in kicking sauce, coleslaw, rum soaked fruit cake
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies - £10 (all evening)
Couples - £35
Single Guys - £40

Prices increase for guests who arrive AFTER MIDNIGHT
Doors open at 10pm …. No admission after MIDNIGHT …. Chucking out time 6am
So whattcha waiting for?? …. You know the date, you know the location, you know the price and you KNOW that the BMFC guests are the sexiest people on this planet
Get your names to me ASAP to avoid disappointment
Hope to see you all on Saturday
X Helen x
Sexlightened
TWO BMFC Parties this weekend, in TWO different geographical locations
If you want to attend, then dont waste too much time .... drop me a line NOW!!!
Date - Friday 10th February
Venue – XTASIA
, West Bromwich
Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies – FREE
Couples - £15
Single Guys - £35

Doors open – 8pm … No admission after MIDNIGHT … Chucking out time – 3am
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Date – Saturday 11th February
Venue – HELLFIRE,
Sunbury on Thames, South London
Theme – Valentine’s Day Party – “Wear Something Red” – FREE Valentine’s Day gift for all the ladies
REVISED Party Contribution Costs
Single Ladies - £5
Couples - £10
Single Guys - £30

Above prices increase, the later you arrive – so get there early!!!
Doors open – 10pm … No admission after 1am … Chucking out time - 5am
BMFC Parties are ALWAYS full of sexy, liberated, friendly, fun guests – so why not come along and join us all … Come on, you know you want to!??
Take care till the weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
February’s going to be here before we know it and according to the weather experts it looks like it’s going to be a cold month, so why not come along to one of our parties this weekend and raise your body heat!!???
Loads of you have already added your names to the guest lists, as I circulated FEBRUARY’s Newsletter several weeks ago
In fact, I believe that nearly all of the cabins at Eureka have already been reserved – so hurry up and contact them DIRECT if you want one!!!
Date - Friday 3rd FEBRUARY
Venue – EUREKA, Fawkham, Kent
Friday is actually one of the BMFC crew’s Birthday – so if you want to come out and help Lynne (Lynne does the bar at RADLETT and HELLFIRE and helps me give venue tours at AROUSALS and FUNTIME) celebrate her special day, then this is your chance
It looks like this is going to be a busy bash, as members always show great interest when we secure a new venue, but the VENUES members also like to come out and see what’s so special about the infamous BMFC
So, come on, I honestly can’t think of a better way to end a stressful week at work, than to come along, chill in a Jacuzzi, listen to some brilliant tunes and interact with the sexiest members on this planet!!
Doors open – 8pm … Chucking out time 3am(music switched off at 2am but guests allowed to chill and finish play for an extra hour!)
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £20
Couples - £15
Single Ladies – FREE

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Date – Saturday 4th FEBRUARY
Venue – AROUSALS, Dunstable, Luton, Bedfordshire (
AROUSALS is one of our longest established venues and sees an average of 120 sexy guests at every party.
It has a great track record of being a venue that has ‘something for everyone’ – 13 communal play areas (ideal for the exhibitionists and voyeurs) 8 lockable private playrooms (brilliant for the more discreet guests), a dungeon area, a huge cinema, spacious social area, dance floor, pole and all of the fantastic ‘dark nooks and crannies’!!!
Doors open – 10pm … NO Admission after 1am …. Chucking out time 6am
Party Contribution Costs
Single Guys - £35
Couples - £25
Single Ladies – £5

Prices increase for guests that arrive after MIDNIGHT!!
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Interested in attending? … Then get back to me with your names, stating which party you want to attend
Take care till the weekend
x Helen x
Sexlightened
Looking at the guest list for tomorrow, it certainly seems there's going to be quite a few BMFC members experiencing some NORTHERN hospitality at TOWNHOUSE!!!
Its not too late to get your name added to the guest list - Just drop me a line if you want to join us
Sexlightened
We've got 7 FANTASTIC BMFC Parties organised for FEBRUARY, including the launch of our EUREKA PARTY!!
As always, each event is in a different venue, with different facilities but ALL with the EXCEPTIONALLY HIGH STANDARDSof the BMFC guests!!!
So get your diaries out, arrange the baby sitters and book your hotels because the FUN is only just beginning!!!
Friday 3rd February - EUREKA, Fawkham, Kent - Wet 'n' Wild!!!
Saturday 4th February - AROUSALS, Dunstable, Beds
Friday 10th February - XTASIA, West Bromwich, West Midlands
Saturday 11th February -HELLFIRE, Sunbury on Thames, Surrey - Theme 'Wear something Red' - Free gift for ALL the ladies!!!
Saturday 18th February - Littlecroft, RADLETT, Hertfordshire - Theme 'Valentines Day Massacre' (Roaring 20's, Gangsters 'n' Molls,Great Gatsby - prices include catering provided by Mamma G's Kitchen)
Friday 24th February – TOWNHOUSE, Wirral, Merseyside
Saturday 25th February - FUNTIME, Hackney Wick, East London
So, if you fancy coming along to join in the fun with other like-minded BMFC members, then get back to me to secure your place on the guest list(s) but please ensure that if you are a single guy, you FOLLOW THE PARTY PROCESS as displayed on our website
Hope to hear from you all soon, as that's the only way to secure your place on any BMFC guest list!!!
Take care and hope to see you all soon
x Helen x