Intelligent, easy going, straightforward, friendly guy with a serious interest in bondage and all that goes with it, seeking to meet others for regular play, mutual fun and friendship.

I may be a sub but I am NOT passive, rather an "active" sub who is always responsive, plays a full part and responds positively and actively in any given situation or play. I am NOT into FF, BC, heavy CP or brutality. Nor do I appreciate lack of personal hygiene. I practise safe sex only. You should do so as well. It does not "need discussion". It is not negotiable!

I like hard games, as the "victim", involving ("forced") inescapable, restrictive and challenging bondage, hooded, gagged, shackled, (or otherwise restrained), sensory deprivation, total control and humiliation; forced realistic incarceration, confinement in cages or cells for extended periods,(overnight/weekends or whatever is agreed).

For me, serious bondage games are more than what goes on "between my legs" but also what goes on in my mind. It is a mental as well as a physical experience. Imagination, compatibility, chemistry, connection, are essential elements in this play as, without them, there is no "spark".

I am always happy to make new friends and I appreciate in others, honesty, a sense of humour, courtesy and an ability to hold a conversation. My life does not just revolve around the world of BDSM. It is just one part of it, but a very important part and one that I take seriously.

Although predominantly a sub, I have an active side and increasingly enjoy subjecting others to serious bondage and control. In the right circumstances I am happy to subject a willing victim to strict, hard but safe bondage. I know what's involved having been on the receiving end on many occasions.

I always reply to messages; if I have failed to do so at any time it has been a genuine oversight on my part and I ask for the same courtesy in return. Manners cost nothing! That said, I will not take seriously messages from guys whose profiles either have no pictures or whose pictures consist of cock shots, (we all have one!), or pictures from the web rather than their own personal pics.

I seek to meet others, both from here and abroad, who share my interests, and who are demanding, serious, but safe and sane players. I am constantly learning and always open to new ideas and ways to extend my limits and my levels of endurance.