I'm so impressed by the care with which this question was answered
That there are people in the world that can show such consideration and open minded feelings to me and my (as yet unknowing) girlfriend is wonderful
you made me think, you've given me food, and you've helped me make certain choices. If I tell her this is what I want to do, and that I'm going to do it, and show her the trust that i can be honest enough to be straight with her , then I guess we discuss whether it's right or wrong to accept each other or part company
and I know the grass is never greener
thanks again x
value your opinion, not married,it's a girl friend but that as i'm sure you'd point out is only a detail of time and commitment.,,
and of course I know where your coming from and respect that
I hope this does not become gender split, that would be a sad sign of the times
cheers for replys though
hello, well as you might guess from the title I'm new to this and was really looking for a little advise.
I understand why many are never sure about attached men looking to step into swinging, the fact you are not telling your partner whom you care for is not the best advert in the world.
But if you've talked about swinging and even more playful aspects of a sexual relationship and been met with a strong negetive reaction, still care for that person and don't want to leave them, what is the alternative
I guess i thought it is here
so I'm just putting it out there
am I right or wrong