I am a voyeur and exhibitionist. I love watching sexual activity whether male or female, solo or as couples or more, and I love the thrill of being watched by anyone, and as I get older I find myself becoming more and more bi-curious. That said I could never be bottom as I am not keen on my rear end being played with, but I would love to try oral and mutual wanking amongst other things, with a bi or bi-curious couple.

I am mainly turned on by the female form, but I am also interested in convincing pre-op trans with boobs and smooth bodies, and have always felt that attraction is not governed by what's between the legs.

I am in a relationship - so if that bothers you, you won't be interested in me.

Ideally I would like to find a fuck buddy, either female or a mixed sex or female couple - who are available midweek daytime ideally. I have no interest in meeting men on their own or in groups.

I am reasonably dominant, and like to be in control - but my interest lies in giving pleasure rather than it being about me. I am experimental and would love to push boundaries, a bit of light bondage perhaps, tie and tease, and so on. I have no interest in s&m, and really not keen on seeing people hurt (even if they enjoy it!), and definitely not into any toilet type sex either.

Other than that - I have no hangups about age, colour of skin and so on. For me it's much more about the mind and the mental connection than just physical looks.