To be fair, the chatroom forum came about because of change going on and chatters coming into the forums and being unable to help, the forumites and chatters have ALWAYS been divided, even back in the IRC chatroom days.
There was as much animosity towards forumites going into the chatroom originally. I (and Morbius) were huge IRCers back in the day and I remember feeling extremely put out when I first started going into the chatrooms (Steve & Shireen were about the only people I remember being friendly to me at the time). Then the chatrooms moved to a different interface and things got better to a degree, but by that time I was well and truly put off and became a forumite. The chatrooms are now the biggest part of the site and did fairly kill off some of the forum madness.
I wouldn't say I was bullied but there were distinct cliques in there, as has been accused of the forumites, which I get but we were all new once and we made friends by joining in.
I also understand that there are a number of in jokes such as goldfish and hijacks. The threads bumped often explain these jokes, albeit meaning that you have to wade through pages of twaddle. The hi-jacks are par for the course but again, if people weren't so quick to take offence, they quickly revert back when someone else reads and comments.
The forums I remember from my more prolific time here were silly, funny, flirty and people were a lot friendlier overall. Whereas I can understand some saying they came here for sex and not friendship, I'm now at a point where I want friendship moreover sex, but if a friendship grew then I wouldn't count out returning to swinging. I want to have fun and flirt with people and it's really difficult to do that on Daily Mail led posts!
Yes I've been absent, if you want to know why I'm happy to say in PM and yes, most of the friendships made here, I have on Facebook or Twitter, but you know, my kids are on there and coming back here allows me to let go a bit and return to the old me before real life kicked my ass!
The returners have reacted (with fire) to comments made, I'll agree but Paddy, we never started it, we were told in no uncertain terms to clear off and that we were has-beens! The people who stirred that hornets nest are laughing their socks off I bet at all the reactions.
The returners have stopped dragging up old threads so much and new threads are being posted, how can it still be said that it's regression?
I wonder how if an influx of newbies had come along and started getting on, laughing joking and making their own in jokes, it would be viewed?
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Calista
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 52
Straight Male, 53
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Quote by Calista
I have a large desk so this could take a while :twisted:
Printer
Notepad,
half a packet of biscuits,
penpot,
fax machine,
stacking cassette holder (monitor stand broke),
monitor,
mouse,
lipstick,
highlighter,
cash card,
money,
mobile phone,
webcam,
couple of dvd's :twisted:
Thinks that's about it ...
Still have a large desk, but taken over by gaming kids now, so I have a smaller one in our office containing:
Printer/scanner
Ergo mouse and keyboard
Extension lead
Laptop stand
Drinks coaster
That's for when I'm working/studying. Otherwise I have two laptops, one lives under the sofa and one either on my knee or on said stand!
Tablet lives in my bag and phone is rarely out of reaching distance!
Most of our boxsets are film series, and TV wise Morbius has most of them.
Will & Grace *mine
Rome
Lost season 1
Criminal Minds
Digitally we have loads and loads ...
Big Bang Theory
New Girl
CSI
NCIS
NCIS LA
Lie to Me
The Mentalist
Pysch
Dexter
Breaking Bad
Films
Monty Python
Star Wars
Back to the Future
Karate Kid
We don't watch DVDs now, we have a subscription to Netflix/Lovefilm/Hulu etc
Will & Grace *mine
Rome
Lost season 1
Criminal Minds
Digitally we have loads and loads ...
Big Bang Theory
New Girl
CSI
NCIS
NCIS LA
Lie to Me
The Mentalist
Pysch
Dexter
Breaking Bad
Films
Monty Python
Star Wars
Back to the Future
Karate Kid
We don't watch DVDs now, we have a subscription to Netflix/Lovefilm/Hulu etc
I know a few insensitive dickheads (some on here as well 
) but I feel that it might be a different sense of the word!
Never heard a sensitive end being used as a reason for stopping orgasm though? Hubby has a very sensitive one after he's cum, and I'm a bitch so it depends who was in charge at the time and as to whether I can get him begging me to stop :twisted:
) but I feel that it might be a different sense of the word! Never heard a sensitive end being used as a reason for stopping orgasm though? Hubby has a very sensitive one after he's cum, and I'm a bitch so it depends who was in charge at the time and as to whether I can get him begging me to stop :twisted:
Quote by mattmoleman
..... In here I was like a dog on heat. So many funny posts in the forum, so many damn sexy women to perv over and the first post I did was a damn techie help post! Feel kind of ashamed that there was no smut or flirting in it at all. :sad:
Ahh but you've made up for it since!
I think the first comment I said to you was that you were (still are to be honest) an instant erection maker.
Oh how innocent I was back then.
Oooh what a charmer you are ;)
Quote by little gem
Ahhh, Utopia! That club was amazing, but there was no way it was going to stay open long. The prices were nuts and the location slightly inconvenient, but the facilities were beautiful.
Does anyone else remember Warwick and his marbles? How he went away on holiday for a couple of weeks and then came back to find us all with his avatar?
I've bumped one of Warwicks threads in t'other room but can't find that one
Quote by Angel Chat
I also had a Care Bear and I even had a Care Bear sticker album..... OK, I'm embarrassed now, some things you just shouldn't share
ops: :oops:
OH
MY
GOD
A fucking care bear collection??????
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And then later she admits to owning a My Little Pony! WTF?! How did you have such a scary reputation in those days Blue??
It's like finding out the monster in the cupboard is actually a fluffy bunny!
Quote by Angel Chat
I also had a Care Bear and I even had a Care Bear sticker album..... OK, I'm embarrassed now, some things you just shouldn't share
OH
MY
GOD
A fucking care bear collection??????
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Quote by Dino
I remember when quite a few of us did a club visit to that club near Stoke, cant remember the name but it had a swimming pool an everythin, i remember freckledbird crappin herself before we went in as it was her first club visit :scared
What was that club called?? and what was the occasion ??
Wasn't part of that one but reminded me we never ever did get round to going to Chams despite having offers of hand holding and everything! :(
Quote by meat2pleaseu
and has anyone else noticed they can still hand code all their favourite emoticons? :giggle:
Sadly not here - I crapped up an emoticon earlier and decided that using the guide was probably safer!
is the only one I can properly remember, oh and :jags:and apparently :jags: doesn't work either, it's jagsatwork! :jagsatwork:
Quote by mattmoleman
..... In here I was like a dog on heat. So many funny posts in the forum, so many damn sexy women to perv over and the first post I did was a damn techie help post! Feel kind of ashamed that there was no smut or flirting in it at all. :sad:
Ahh but you've made up for it since!
