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Cassiopeia
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · England

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I know ive spoken to you already, but you know where we are and you have all our telephone numbers, call if you need to, be it 11pm or 4am.
Okay hun :therethere:
Hiya
Ive post in the Cafe before about my history with past probs depression so wont bore you all with it again, but just wanted to say that reading all the posts and knowing that we are not alone, and how it is infact very common to suffer from a mental illness, helps to remove the stigma attached.
Love and hugs too you all :rose:
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
Dont ya just love a forceful woman!! :twisted:
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Just logged in for the first time in ages. We might be able to make it biggrin

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Hope you make it hun!! Would be nice to see you again, and no staggering the streets of Manchester this time looking for a club.....then again...... rolleyes lol
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err... I just scored 93%.. does this make me a bad person? :twisted:

OMG im shocked! I thought I was bad at 84% but 93%!! Behind that innocent little face of yours is a sexual deviant in disguise!! So when we meeting??!! :twisted: :twisted: wink
OK Im off to Torture Garden on the 12th and im going as Sally Bowles this time, but im lacking the bowler hat. Cant find one thats my size and brand new they are too expensive for me. I need a black one, size 23 inches (dont we all love!! :twisted: )
Does anyone have one that I can have, borrow, buy, Id gladly pay postage costs etc.
Hope someone can help me!!
We were at the munch, but didnt get to meet you sad Maybe see you at the next one in Herts in May! lol
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see whai mean this thread is already gone to the dogs
the southern trollop kind

Yep, yr spelling is getting worse, no wonder people cant understand yr posts!!
Woof Woof! mad
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who allowed 1 of the southern trollops to come to munch
bad enough they have done nothing but hijack this thread there will b no stopping them

Lol, my m8 Gem did, and Satins expecting me now too!
Anyway, how come someone with alcohol industry links needs to get a girlie to help organise a night out at a pub!! Talk about cant organise a piss up in a brewery!! rolleyes :2fingers:
Yep, its the invasion of one half of the Southern Trollops!
ps. Sarah I thought you werent going to post iin this thread anymore wink :twisted:
OOpps iim 84% :S
Statistics:-
50% have french-kissed someone.
43% have had sex.
23% would date someone just for the sex.
32% shave their pubes.
17% fantasize about prostitution.
15% fantasize about .
21% have had anal sex.
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mrs genherts i could squeeze you in anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

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WHOOPPEE!!! Hubby has arranged time off work so I can come up on my own!! Hes looking after the kids so i have a few days break.
So please can u squeeze ickle ol me in??
J xxxxxxxxxx :happy: :evil2:
Libra here too. Mr GHC is a Gemini.
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Librian
Sex is often mental for Air signs, and Libra is no exception. These great communicators are possessed of a strong intellect, and these mental fireworks often manifest themselves in the thorough exploration of a lover. Only the brave need apply! Since the Scales like to be in balance, though, they are often thinking of what both partners want. A marked distaste for confrontation can sometimes be perceived as disinterest on Libra's part, but it's more often just a deep-down desire to please. Libras love seduction and foreplay, and plenty of talk leading to some hot action. If this is all achieved in the right luxurious setting, watch out! Libras swathed in riches are a pleasure to behold. Libra loves the thought of a gifted and attractive partner, since they feel their partner is receiving just that. It's safe to say that a little erotica goes a long way with the Scales, since these folks can be oh-so-playful with their toys.

And that is just soooooooooooooooo me!! redface
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Sorry Blue and Satin, I'm going to have to pull out of this now. I have loads of events coming up and just can't manage to get a babysitter for the 12th as well sad
Hope you all have fun, at least I won't have to quake on the couch now lol

Nooooooooom your not allowed Angel, if im coming up all the way to Herts, you have to find a way of getting there!! :crazy: :doh:
Come on, anymore for anymore??!!!
If your not sure about coming, dont worry, just jump in the deep end, its a relaxing afternoon, chatting, relaxing in sauna, jumping in jacuzzi causing it to flood out!!
Its really nice there, the facilities are clean and staff friendly, and they serve hot and cold drinks.
Come along! :thumbup:
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when our gorgeous little boy was born biggrin i gave up my own buissness(yes i no ive spelt that wrong so wat its early) to look after him.
it made more sence than hiring a nanny ,child minder.
im glad i did give up work in the rspect that ive seen all the cool things like 1st steps etc but being stuck in all day not having the money to go out and doing the same chores day in day out gets me down and some days i feel very down and alone and bored bored bored,we have sky should be able to find something to watch....WRONG hundreds of channels of shit on the tv to choose from.
the summers not to bad you can go for a walk,but how many times can you walk the same walk?
at least being female you dont get the strange looks and comments that i get when i mention to people im a house husband(tho not married),ive literaly had people snigger at me for admitting im the "mother"
so its not just you
dee(satin)

Theres no way Id snigger at you Satin, its one of the hardest and rewarding jobs in the whole world, and theres not explaining to people what its like unless they experience it for themselves.
To be honest, its quiet refreshing to have a guy understand what its like too, yes you do get people saying, get yourself out for a walk etc, but you hit the nail on the head there, yes i get bloody bored walking the same walks to the extent i have walked along and not taken any notice of where i am, just ended up at school etc. confused
Satin kiss
Again, thanks for everyones messages, all giving different ideas and options. lol
As someone told me only yesterday we are all unique, be it size, shape, looks, intellect, personality, mannerisms, humour, opinions etc AND its a combination of all of those that attracts (or not as the case may be) people to us or us to them. So I dont necessary agree with the Big is Beautiful motto, more like People are Beautiful.
OK im a size 10 (but havent always been) but I dont have a chip on my shoulder, far from it. Im extremely open minded and dont judge people from looks alone. Im bi and i have been with a woman who was approx. size 18 ish, i dont know exactly cos i didnt care nor asked her, she was lovely, fun and very enticing lol.
I do think in here thou that we are more laid back, realisitic and open minded about sizes, in the real world ie clothes shops I do think larger women get a raw deal and struggle to find more interestiing clothes in real sizes!
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I had a pair of nipple clamps, and they nearly ripped my nipples off , and so they went in the bin............have to try some others out!

No no no, they were the jump leads Sarah! rolleyes :shock:
Sorry boring here, but my hubby and my close friend! :twisted: Just dont think anything else comes close.
Quickies are great fun, sometiimes you arent at home and you are out somewhere and you think, yeah, lets do it, grab the moment and shag! :twisted:
My hubby has the same view im afraid, says its just another Hallmark Cards Hype!
But something else he says which i do agree with is that we shouldnt be told which day to tell someone we love them, we shouldnt have to wait a whole year to do that, it should be done every day, every week, when ever the mood takes us. AND we shouldnt have to buy a card to do that, if could just be something small, a cup of tea or a massage etc.
So I DO tell my hubby and best m8's i love them, Ive learnt not to hold back my feelings because my Dad was alive one day and gone the next, so sieze the opportunity. :inlove:
I used belong to the kayaking club when at school, but id prefer to do white water rafting i think now, which i havent done.
Thanks for all the messages, all food for thought. kiss
I have an Avon round but its obviously not stimulating enough for me lol My kids are nearly 7 and youngest is 3 1/2 so in nursery for only 2 1/2 hours, so doesnt give me long to get anywhere to get things done. Ive looked into the local college but they dont have courses that are suited to me, as i wanted something more like Returniing to Work and they only had Return to Study. Also the courses that were possibly ok, were in the evenings so i had to rule that out cos i cant guarantee my hubby will be home let alone in the country.
So, im enrolling on an OU course, one called Open to Change, looking at my skills and options i can take for the future. Its not a full time course, just one thats over 20 weeks and involves about 6-8 hours per week studying. Ive also been given more ideas via PM re: Learndirect so thats another option.
Also Luv2licks sisters job sounds idea, something id enjoy a lot so will keep my eyes open, but in my experience these are snapped up via word of mouth before they even reach the newspapers confused
In the meantime, ive been given a lot of "hey yr not alone" type of PM's which makes me feel better in knowing that this is just a phase and things do move on. Thanks guys, you know who you all are :therethere:
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GHC you are a lot quieter (and a dinky little thing you are too lol) than I expected you to be, unless that's just that I didn't give you chance to get a word in edgeways :lol2:

LOL Hardly!! You vanished for half the night hun!! And I can hardly say much with your tongue down my throat!! rolleyes