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Cassiopeia
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · England
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We're not a big lover of porn, much prefer erotic stories or photos. Leaves more to the imagination and not so 'in your face'.
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I think im having a mid life crisis 
OK im 34, stuck at home most of the time with the kids apart from when they are at school, youngest is only at school for 2 1/2 hours at the moment. Im sick to the back teeth of spending my time doing housework, with kids its like shovelling snow whilst its still snowing Id love a little job to boost my self esteem and bring in extra cash but cant cos whos gonna employ someone for barely 2 hours! I dont have any support what so ever, my mum and dad died when i was in my early twenties so apart from my hubby, been independent for a long tiime.
Im going to sign up for an OU course but concerned that i wont be able to fit this in around everything else. In the meantime i sit here, or watching tv or reading cos we cant really afford to go anywhere every day, so i end up getting upset, jealous, irrational and then end up arguing with the ppl im closest too.
Whats wrong with me, this isnt me AT ALL!! Im now worrying cos i might ruin my precious friendships and their image of me as bubbly, sexy, good fun, best mate is shattered
Has any other mums gone thought this, is this an age thing, is this a 'left my career to have kids' thing, or is this something else??
Any advice is gratefully accepted
OK im 34, stuck at home most of the time with the kids apart from when they are at school, youngest is only at school for 2 1/2 hours at the moment. Im sick to the back teeth of spending my time doing housework, with kids its like shovelling snow whilst its still snowing
Id love a little job to boost my self esteem and bring in extra cash but cant cos whos gonna employ someone for barely 2 hours! I dont have any support what so ever, my mum and dad died when i was in my early twenties so apart from my hubby, been independent for a long tiime.Im going to sign up for an OU course but concerned that i wont be able to fit this in around everything else. In the meantime i sit here, or watching tv or reading cos we cant really afford to go anywhere every day, so i end up getting upset, jealous, irrational and then end up arguing with the ppl im closest too.
Whats wrong with me, this isnt me AT ALL!! Im now worrying cos i might ruin my precious friendships and their image of me as bubbly, sexy, good fun, best mate is shattered
Has any other mums gone thought this, is this an age thing, is this a 'left my career to have kids' thing, or is this something else??
Any advice is gratefully accepted
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If your looking for sun, sand, sea and swinging, you could try Cap d'Agde in the south of France. Its a bit like a concrete jungle, but lots of beaches, clubs, bars and playing!
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Shoot with a bloody big gun!! 
Allyson Hannigan (another buffy actress - Willow)
Allyson Hannigan (another buffy actress - Willow)
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Well Done everyone, especially Denise and Mr_D!
We all had fun AND raised money for charity!!
We all had fun AND raised money for charity!!
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Aww Clare, its hard when you see your own kids struggling with something like this. There are so many wonderful jobs out there that she can do and maybe because of her colourblindness, she will take more time and consideration looking into different careers and not just falling into one, therefore will be better off. I do understand yr concerns about her thou.
My own two children have eyesight problems too, they are albino (Type 2 ie. blue eyes not pink eyes) and a characteristic of this is Nystagmus (eyes which swing). We were told when my daughter was 8 weeks old that her eyesight was going to be so bad that she was classed as disabled and virtually blind. No wonder I ended up with post natal depression! Nearly 7 years on, shes in a mainstream school, her reading age is only a few months behind her actual age, shes a popular girl at school, has swimming lessons, and shes blonde, blue eyed and just gorgeous!
After having her, we visited a geneticist to see about the possibilities of having another albino child. We were told the odds were 1 in 4 of having another albino child. Well lightening struck twice lol and we now have two. Our son is also albino and has very slight nystagmus, but im kinda glad he is albino because he looks the same as our daughter, can u imagine having a white/blond haired daughter and a dark brown haired son?? We get comments all the time as to how gorgeous they both are and im so proud of them both.
But like you i worry about careers, as well as their freedom (because they wont be able to drive), their social life and skills, etc.
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My own two children have eyesight problems too, they are albino (Type 2 ie. blue eyes not pink eyes) and a characteristic of this is Nystagmus (eyes which swing). We were told when my daughter was 8 weeks old that her eyesight was going to be so bad that she was classed as disabled and virtually blind. No wonder I ended up with post natal depression! Nearly 7 years on, shes in a mainstream school, her reading age is only a few months behind her actual age, shes a popular girl at school, has swimming lessons, and shes blonde, blue eyed and just gorgeous!
After having her, we visited a geneticist to see about the possibilities of having another albino child. We were told the odds were 1 in 4 of having another albino child. Well lightening struck twice lol and we now have two. Our son is also albino and has very slight nystagmus, but im kinda glad he is albino because he looks the same as our daughter, can u imagine having a white/blond haired daughter and a dark brown haired son?? We get comments all the time as to how gorgeous they both are and im so proud of them both.
But like you i worry about careers, as well as their freedom (because they wont be able to drive), their social life and skills, etc.
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Quote by leprechaun
there is quality (this doesn't include the evil hijacking trollops from down south) all over this land and u lead the way north of the border
Oi stop picking on ickle me and Sarah, we apologised didnt we!
You'll just have to wait until we can show you how sorry we are :twisted::taz: <--------------- Leprechaun
:angel: :angel: <------------ Sarah and MrsGHC
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Quote by Bloke2005
Shoot him - and cut his hair!
Bono
No no no no no, leave my anthony alone :inlove:
Bono - Shag :twisted:
Kiefer Sutherland
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david beckham.....shoot
Anthony Kiedis (Red Hot Chili Peppers lead singer)
Anthony Kiedis (Red Hot Chili Peppers lead singer)
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EEwww dont like cheese sarnies and i dont like marmite :crazy:
BUT
I do love banana and plain crisps.....YUM!!
BUT
I do love banana and plain crisps.....YUM!!
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A bit of rough sex is fun, hair pulling, spanking etc, its passionate, exciting, sometimes something new. When both of you are esp in the mood for it, its great!
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Quote by MikeC
Hey Mrs GHC, did some1 remind you to bring your outfit. LOL
Mike
Yes thanks Mike, poor lovely Denise PM'd me three times to remind me, and i still nearly forgot! The dress was for a girlfriend, whos going to borrow it for something
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Best wishes to the both of you!
May this be the first day of the rest of your lives! :rose: :inlove: :angel:
Mr & Mrs GHC xxxxxxxxxx
May this be the first day of the rest of your lives! :rose: :inlove: :angel:
Mr & Mrs GHC xxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by Rainbows
Hmm, weird...
You must not, however, do this prior to any form of intimacy (unless you can find another Peparami addict and combine the two activities...)
And NEVER eat chilli before oral sex. Hurts like shite!!!!!
PMSL, thanks for the tip off, i love chilli! :shock:
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Quote by freckledbird
Well you also told me you brought a toy with you
Yeah but you know what it's like with toys, bit boring once you've played with them a couple of times
Bev
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Opps sorry Bev, forgot to say thanks to you too, you made me laugh so much when u decided to make the others wait in the cold outside hotel, whilst you stayed in the pub to use the loos, knowing all along you had the only key!! Classy lady :twisted:
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Quote by Libra-Love
Did I really only snog the girls?:grin:
Yes hun, you did!!
oh and accosted my hubby near the loos, but im sure he wasnt the only one!! :twisted:Oh but Ian's such a great kisser.
Tell him he owes me one I can remember
Oh i will pmsl :twisted:
Well what else can i add to this thread, other than what a brill night out I had. OK OK so i know i flirted outrageously but hey thats what its all about isnt it??
Id been to a munch and various places before on my own, so it was so nice to see so many familiar faces who hadnt met my other half before but acted as if they did. Made him feel very welcome! Thank you
Who to mention to say thanks, oh god, far too many who i enjoyed the evening with, Sarah1448, Dambuster, Ghostie, LibraLove, Rainbows, Fabio Grooverider, Steveg-nw (thanks for the favour and DONT FORGET!), Denisebabe (for reminding me about dress), Stuart, Tanina, Choc&Sex and anyone else ive not mentioned (sorry).
Was a great night for chatting, larking about, dancing, drinking, etc etc. Cant wait until the next one
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Quote by Libra-Love
Did I really only snog the girls?
Yes hun, you did!!
oh and accosted my hubby near the loos, but im sure he wasnt the only one!! :twisted: Sex God
Quote by Sarah1448
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what??
OK as no-ones asked, WE'RE COMING NOW
:twisted:OMG, where's Bluexxx? does she know
:twisted: :twisted:Lol, blue told us "we're in" :twisted:
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Quote by GenHertsCpl
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what??
OK as no-ones asked, WE'RE COMING NOW
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We both enjoy it too, and have taken the kids to naturist beaches here and in the South of France. We also enjoy it at home and have high fences so we can enjoy our garden. We dont do it all the time or enforce it on the kids, its just a "sometimes we do and sometimes we dont" type of thing.
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:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what??
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what??
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We're just leaving, see you all shortly ( if your not already there!!)
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Quote by leesh
I havent done anything quite that bad, but im the kinda girl who walks down the aisles in Tescos, throwing things into YOUR trolley, cos im not looking
Why not have a change next time you feel the urge and take stuff outta theirs ....
......well the thought made me chuckle for a second.. :shock:OOhh yeah, good idea! could remove something like their condoms, come that night, wine, candles, smoochy music and NO CONDOMS! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
