I would suggest you meet the other party socially first, just for a drink at a local pub. Talk to them and see how comfortable you all are with each other. Then, if you are all happy then you can decide between you all where you might like to meet to play. To our mind there's no rush. It needn't be all done in the same day and actually the anticipation is part of the fun.
Going for two weeks, last week in Feb and first in March. Anyone else going ? Has anyone got any tips for us ? Must do's or must avoid's.
Cheers,
x
Thanks for that.....still don't understand why I didn't see the 'Search' button. Must be spending too long in the chat rooms :-) As you say though it does seem a bit hit and miss.
Cheers,
Coders.
We agree with all that's been said but one thing we would mention is to ensure she knows about all the different levels of swinging. We still meet people from time to time who thing swinging is still the whole car-keys in the bowl type of thing. Swinging can be as mild as just partying with a group of likeminded sexually liberal people - there doesn't need to be any touching or even any displaying. Make it clear to your wife that her boundaries will always be honoured.
We think that starting off in the very mild arena and then working up to the level you're both comfortable with is the way to go. Having her seduced in a pub, on her own, by an unknown guy, with an expectation of sex on the first night seems very hazardous to us.
Good luck.
Mrs Coder is interested in trying out a Sybian. Anyone in the South got one and would be willing to share ? Has anyone tried one and have any comments ?
Apologies if this question has been raised before. I don't use the forum much and for the life of me couldn't find a search button!
Thanks.
All booked in, looking forward to seeing you all. Should be a good night.
Hi,
Thanks for that F5 threw us out of the chatroom - but when we logged back in again at least the button was working again.
Thanks.
I know the chat rooms have had problems recently. At various times we've had watch list not working, whispers not working and, of course, the chat room crashing on regular basis. However, this morning we notice a new bug - the sort by distance button doesn't work for us at all. We use Mozilla browser.
Anyone know what the problem is ? It has always worked up to this morning.
Cheers,
Coders
Are there any couples planning to be in Val D'Isere next year the week starting 19th March ? If so, it might be nice to meet up for a little apres ski.
Hi guys,
Not sure about our availability but we may well be up for a Christmas Social. Sounds fun.
Coders. xx
It looks as though I'm stuck in the SouthCoast room in Server 1. I can go in to any other room but as soon as I try South Coast room then I get logged out. Please could one of the Ops clear the situation. This is MOST annoying. Needless to say it's the South Coast room I normally hang out in.
Anyone else having trouble accessing the chatroom?. It's been working fine for us until tonight. We've changed nothing but now our firewall seems to block access to the chatroom. Looking at the logs it looks as though the chatroom scripts are doing an outbound UDP to which our firewall doesn't like.
We're not AOL users. We use AVG firewall.
Can anyone say what the problem is or what the incantation might be for our firewall ? At the moment the only way we can access the chatroom is to 'briefly' disable our firewall while we connect!
Cheers,
Coders.
