My wife and I are in our early 30s. We have a good strong relationship and have been together almost 10 years.

We've always had a pretty active sex life but recently we've gotten into some more kinky activities. This started with some tease and denial but has gradually built up to a position where we realised we both get extremely turned on at the prospect of my wife fucking another guy while I watch or listen.

As this is new to us we're still trying to work out how we would both feel going through with something like this for real. Currently we're at a stage where it would be interesting to see what options are around locally and maybe get chatting to a few experienced guys.

For anyone who may be interested, it is worth noting that we will have a very strict list of rules / boundaries that must be followed.

My two top priorities are ensuring any encounters are purely about sex and that my wife is as safe as possible. This means any communication will typically be through me and the type of scenario we picture is one where by a bull arranges to come to our hotel room, fucks my wife and then leaves. We will also expect condoms to be worn at all times when having penetrative sex unless you provide proof of very recent STI screening and ensure us you haven't had any encounters since.