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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by Pete_sw
I am so going to get flamed for this rolleyes but personally .............................
I love it :shock: :scared: .............. bolt

Pete, why would you get flamed for that luv?
:gagged: innocent
Hiya Dark, just wait n see rolleyes
dunno I'm obviously missing sommat here ....
on a more serious note, I have to say I was as apprehensive as everyone else when the shock announcement was made, but I have to be honest, so far the management have, in my opinion, kept their word and made a lot of improvements. Now I’m not saying that these ‘improvements’ are everyone’s cup of tea, but then looking at it from the managements point of view, they were improvements as promised.
Personally, I like a lot of what’s happened to the site, most of all the fact that there has been a pretty big influx of fresh blood.

I agree Pete - initially the influx was massive, it was unexpected and the vast majority came here looking for a sex site & a quick shag, not a swingers site. That's just my view.
Things do seem to be settling, a little, and the majority of the quick shag brigade have gone again or turned a new leaf!! I just think that now the dust is settling, we're surveying the damage - and we have to pull together if we want the 'community' back.
Well I guess we are all entitled to our opinions dunno

of course we're entitled to opinions - I wouldnt have asked for it if I didnt want you to express it lol Ok, I know I'm missing something here and I cant for the life of me see what it is.... redface rolleyes
Quote by Pete_sw
I am so going to get flamed for this rolleyes but personally .............................
I love it :shock: :scared: .............. bolt

Pete, why would you get flamed for that luv?
Mr Tweeky
I guess the other hobby site at which I post is a total different kettle of fish to this but we do baby sit the newbies because no matter how dumb thier first question is they have shown a general interest.

the big difference being - this isnt a 'hobby site' iits a lifetsyle site. There are those who think this is a sex site - and to some extent it is - but its those who understand, or truly want to understand it that you'll find are welcomed with open arms. Those who come for a nosey, to stare and gawp at what happens in other people's sex lives, or come here for a quick shag because they think that's what swinging is about, are not. I have no time for people who just have a 'general interest' unless they have a basic understanding or are at least here looking to gain one. Where that's the case, you'll find I'll / we'll bend over backwards to give someone support.
Besides that some of the stuff they may need to know is technical and they need pointing to the right guide and then after maybe help understanding it.

help is here in abundance, as is support & advice to those who show a genuine interest - as you yourselves found out with your social night. Sometimes, just sometimes people have to give a little in order to get back in return.
I remember talking to others here in a very similar tone as you're using now, when I was new to the site - I see the way some newbies 'ask' for help or post questions, as a way of breaking the ice, as a way of striking up conversation. Sometimes they get it right, sometimes they get it wrong - but please dont think the help and support isnt there just cos someone's a 'noob'.
But like HLB says, we've all been there!! but at the same time, we're not here to babysit people. Much of the technical help etc is here on the site anyway if people bothered to look for it - its been said time and time again - you get out of this site what you put in, and a little bit of effort - whether it be some thought into their first post, a couple of days getting their heads round the site and how things work around here, and reading the info and advice pages that are clearly displayed for all to see, will go a long way.
As for this :
Anyway switching a bit someone said before something before about going into a serious thread and turning it into joke (or something along those lines). Kinda liked the way I turned your fun thread here and got you all serious
Thanks all

are you deliberatly trying to antagonise people, or is it just me?
awww fluckin' ell
i was full on up for a pm then too. rolleyes
hope mummy lets him out to play again later, gives me time to polish up the blades and get the vegetables prepared.
and the hole gets ever deeper.............................................
I cant be arsed with this anymore. Thumper fuck off luv wink
Devonguy, I do apologise for this thread hijack, please feel free to start another biggrin
thumper is a troll. trolls deliberatly come along once in a while to stir people up & generally upset the applecart.
thumper is a bit of a numpty when it comes to 'how to make friends and influence people'
thumper is here for a little light entertainment - and will disppear as quickly as he arrived once the novelty wears off or his parents get home. Activate Ignore bottons NOW!! lol
exactly which bit of bollocksdid you not read mate?
i never said anything about your cock......
other than the fact i now think its sticking out your forehead rolleyes
dont do it folks, the twat will get bored soon
we're chatting nicely over in LMU Thumper sweetie, lets take it back over there wink
and where would the fun be in that luv? , other than sucking them slowly past the pins and splitting em into 3 nicely portioned slices??
is that before or after I have your bollocks for dinner with some faver nbeans and a nice chianti?
can I have a picked egg and a serious dose of valium please? ta muchly
>>>>>>bites tongue.
>>>>>>steps away from thread.
how'm I doing gang? that behaviour modification therapy is fantastic stuff you know wink
Quote by horny_mal
… I will not pay for sex, as it makes me feel cheap.

So, a swingers site is the economical alternative?
well I was just on my way out luv, but seeing as you've put in an appearance....
2 pints please Bartender (still dont know if there is one today :shock: lol ), and absolutley no shots for the Welsh one, I'm jibberish enough over the Rugby pics without having to listen to her when she's pissed up too! lol
Quote by mike48
may as well lock this now seeing as Judy's just said what everyone else is thinking wink lol

se you in feb 2008 cool
why?
that went straight over my head Mike - explain please redface