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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Nothing, as yet rolleyes possibly redecorating my office, if i can be arsed...possibly car booting on sunday, weather depending.... god I'm boring :shock:
a slow puncture & definate lack of funds means I cant travel far either..... but I'm definately open to offers suggestions wink
>>>>pm button is below biggrin
It may not sound unusual at all to most people, but the strangest request I've ever had was from a guy who was into D/s, and wanted me to call him Master.
Pardon :shock:
like THAT's ever gonna happen rolleyes lol
Quote by Jas-Tim
It's very sad that these things happen and I do think guard dogs should be appropriately trained and licenced, but going on witch hunts after certain breeds won't help, any dog can bite in given circumstances and some of the smaller ones can do far more damage with tearing to a childs face.
All parents can do is be aware and do their best, and ensure their children know not to tease dogs ever.
Jas
XXX

Agreed, especially the bit about particular breeds :thumbup:
I doubt very much that the parents of children who have been mauled will agree with me, but media sensationalism & the demonising of particular breeds ends only in the unecessary destruction of thousands of dogs.
I love it when lorry drivers do the 'thankyou' thing with their indicators, simple things for simple folk.. puts a smile on my face anyway smile
Has anyone seen Dambuster any of our other resident truckers yet? lol
Quote by mdr2000
10-4 rubber duck

rotflmao easily amused, me lol redface
I think many people use the term 'professional' to mean (and say, in a very short-hand way) 'I have a career that could be jeopardised by being (outed as) a swinger therefore discretion is expected'
there are others of course who use it as a form of snobbery, but you can usually tell by the wording of the rest of the ad. I dont think of it as truly meaning the type of job someone does is a deciding factor in whether people play together or not..... but obviously it is to Simon.
dunno
Quote by woohoo
For example if the venue only holds 80 people and 80 single guys have their names down, it stops becoming a Munch and becomes a piss up for the guys,don't think the guys would be too happy going to the venue and finding no females or couples there, altho the piss up might be welcomed lol
woo

but - as the organiser of the Social, Sunni has control over the guestlist and can, should she so wish to, cap the number of single guys if it gets too much.
With the edits, I think that's an excellent thread post - and it sounds like it will be a really good night! Best of luck with it :thumbup:
Quote by essex34m

"I don't think I could/would shag her/him because we've become too much friends"

but thats the easiest way to avoid saying you would like to, its a great saying to hide behind, rather than blaming shyness lol
I dont really agree with this bit Essex - I think if someone says 'we're too friends' it usually means just that..... it could be translated as 'i'm scared of it affecting our friendship', or, 'because we're too friends I've never even thought about you in that way' or 'I'm not comfortable with this because we're platonic friends'.
Saying No and giving the friendship as a 'reason', but meaning something completely different, is kinda treading on thin ice. I would hate to think that if I say 'we're too friends' it would then be translated as a straight 'yes I'd love to' :shock: :scared:
but I do agree with this:
Quote by dambuster

And if you're too much of a friend then it won't matter will it - be just a good laff!
:thumbup:
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rotflmao
worship because
Quote by Freckledbird
If the friendship's strong enough, it won't make any difference.

:thumbup:
ok, so, i'm impressed :thumbup:
not enough to pay for it though, all freebies gladly recieved to the pm box please lol
Quote by Jags
Yep - I agree. However 'instinct' is a learnt reaction to certain signals which, when interpretated by the brain add to something recognisable, in this case 'fake'. I'm interested in what constitutes the 'instinct'.
:P

I dont know if it isa learnt reaction dunno - in some cases yes, a trigger that makes you think of....for example... past experiences when someone did/ said/ behaved the same way and that triggers the instinct... dunno
But instinct, for me, is an innate internal warning system, that gut feelingthat 'something isnt quite right' ...and.....' cant put my finger on it' - i dont know as that's learnt at all, I think its innate (ooo the good old nature/nurture debate lol)......to the deep in the pit of your stomach niggle when the bits of the jigsaw just dont fit, the actions are inconsistant to the words, or you start asking yourself 'well, how come... '...'hang on a minute'...but you dont know why you're asking, you just are......to the all out alarm bells that feel like an anxiety attack, that wont go away, keep you awake and make your mouth dry and your head hurt. That's instinct, to me.
Quote by Freckledbird
First response.
Lack of consistency, across the board.

Yep, I'd go with that. Often just instinct.
:thumbup: agreed
lets stop this, you're scaring me now :scared: lol
sorry it's a bit late redface lol
but, Thanks Chaotic :thumbup:
good to see the familiar faces, and a few new ones. Apologies to Cinderella, I hope I didnt scare you away :giggle:.. no glass slipper this time, just crisp bags :shock: lol
thanks also to Roger for the lift too kiss
can one of the Mods slap a 48 hour ban on me please?, yes, seriously :thumbup:
Quote by Dave__Notts
Mind you.......with Darkfire, Edin BBW and C.........bang goes the quiet night out :scared:

best book the riot police in advance luv, it'll save time on the night :giggle:
Mal, is this a dressed up way of asking for a Fluffer? rotflmao
sorry luv, i'd pass out watching people running never mind being hands-on ....but, i 'll see if I can come up with something virtual :thumbup:
if anyone wants to teach me how to flirt better (as in, flirt and mean it, not flirt with everything that moves) , my pm box is open :rascal:
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heyup you two wave , good to see you on the forum :thumbup:
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I see alot of profiles on here that say things like 'dont pm me if i dont know you' etc etc - and i'm not sure if this is what you mean Goose , but, comments like that are usually for and directed at people who do the 'blanket coverage' 'random have-a-bash' pm bombarding. I dont see a problem is pm'ing Hello to someone you 'know' from the forum or chat dunno, it'll either get replied to and start a conversation/ flirting/ email tennis/ see where it leads.... or it wont. I really cant see why you would cause offence by bantering in the forum then pm'ing to say hi personally on the back of that and see where it goes dunno - that's NOT bombarding fems with a pm on the offchance, that's doing what everyone else does, imo lol
Quote by goose35
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?
I'm afriad not. There's so much incessant flirting - moving from one person to the next til someone reciprocates (doesnt matter who type flirting) I tend to ignore it if its thrown in my direction, unless it arrives in pm :twisted:

Now when do you PM ?
As a single bloke i feel daunted sending a PM for the first time and the one time it happened i had to be told to do it in the forum its self. Hence my flirting within the forum when i joined this site i thought that was part and parcel off what happened here.
I dont want to be labled among those who bombard fems with a PM on the off chance.
I joined this site to have fun online and off and lately i find myself having to defend actions or comments i make aimed with the sole intention of having fun which is no fun.
I did curb this fun in serious posts and now it seems to have gone all together hence the reason for me spending more time in the chatrooms again.
dunno Goose, everyone's different I guess. Me, I'll pm if I feel it would be welcome - i dont pm with the intention of asking for a meet straight off lol - those type of pm's are the ones that fems dont like (in my oppinion) dunno I cant see any wrong in chatting with people in pm - it depends entirely what the motives are for those pm's though, and if you flirt in pm and it isnt reciprocated - then I'd take it as a 'i'm not interested, thanks' - but that doesnt mean we cant continue to chat dunno
not sure any of that makes sense lol does in my head dunno
Quote by PoloLady
Just a thought (or five).... When you are online:
Can you still flirt with people you know you do not find attractive in RL?
No, not at all.
Can you still flirt with people you don't really respect/like or does their have to be at least something about the person you like to freely flirt?
Nope lol there has to be something I like - if i'm doing it with someone I dont like/ dont respect, it means i'm being a bitch lol
Is it easier to flirt with people you don't know or those you do know?
I'm a crap flirt redface I'm a bit too direct :twisted: - if I do it to people I know, they think i'm joking, or worse, being 'off' with them, and people I dont know get scared lol
Do you finding it easy to flirt with pretty much anyone or do you need to want to flirt with your flirtees?
I need to want to do it, personally I see flirting and I see banter. Flirting suggests someone's testing the water and may be interested, but if they're then off doing the flirting thing with everyone else, I'm done lol If i flirt, and flirt properly, its because i'm interested and want to :twisted:
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?
I'm afriad not. There's so much incessant flirting - moving from one person to the next til someone reciprocates (doesnt matter who type flirting) I tend to ignore it if its thrown in my direction, unless it arrives in pm :twisted:
Quote by SuperDave
Yeah I count myself extremely lucky! rolleyes lol

you should SuperDave, they're keeping your thread bumped to the top of the list for a start wink
ummmmm :uhoh: ....yeah kinda like a ...fountain redface
......not that i look at owt like that bolt
Quote by Kiss
redface
Quite willing to give champagne a go though cool
H.x

Cue the obligatory gif of a Champagne bottle overflowing! :inlove:
:bounce: :happy: :bounce:
:twisted: i know which overflowing bottle of champagne pic I'm thinking of.....but I dont think we're thinking along the same lines :twisted: rotflmao